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bloom— one petal at a time🌸

A man who cooks, cleans, and washes the dishes is just a functional adult, not a special being.

There's a physicist at Stanford named Safi Bahcall who modeled this exact principle and the math is wild. He calls it "phase transitions in human networks." When you're stationary, your probability of a lucky event is limited to your existing surface area: the people you already know, the places you already go, the ideas you've already been exposed to. Your opportunity window is fixed. When you move, your collision rate with new nodes in a network increases nonlinearly. Double your movement (new conversations, new cities, new projects) and your probability of a serendipitous encounter doesn't double. It roughly quadruples. Because each new node connects you to their entire network, not just to them. Richard Wiseman ran a 10-year study at the University of Hertfordshire tracking self-described "lucky" and "unlucky" people. The single biggest differentiator wasn't IQ, education, or family money. Lucky people scored significantly higher on one trait: openness to experience. They talked to strangers more, varied their routines more, and said yes to invitations at nearly twice the rate. The "unlucky" group followed the same routes, ate at the same restaurants, and talked to the same 5 people. Their networks were closed loops. No new inputs, no new collisions. Luck isn't random. Luck is surface area. And surface area is a function of movement. The lobster emoji is doing more work than most people realize. Lobsters grow by shedding their shell when it gets too tight. The growth requires a period of total vulnerability. No protection, no armor, soft body exposed to the ocean. That's the cost of movement nobody posts about. You have to be uncomfortable first. The new shell only hardens after you've already moved.

mari kita rate kegiatan minggu lalu: packing: 0/10😖 vertigo kambuh:-9/10😵‍💫 ketemu teman teman:100/100🥰 ayce: 1000/100🤩😍 flight melb to adl: 10/10 😍😍 kulit kering: -1/10😤 anemia:-9999/10🥴🤕 ketemu bugs n slugs tiap pagi: 1/10🥴 mimisan: 4/10😷

@raz0rss lah emang dimana

@unsolvedgalaxy janjian ama ari di ausi lah nes

windy-cloudy-sunny🔁

Ibu nyumbang 50% DNA, termasuk gen yang terkait kemampuan kognitif. Beberapa gen kecerdasan ada di kromosom X → anak (terutama laki-laki) lebih banyak “ambil” dari ibu. Ibu sering jadi primary caregiver → lebih banyak interaksi awal (ngobrol, respons emosi, stimulasi).

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Kontrasepsi di Indonesia masih terlalu sering dibebankan ke perempuan! Pil, suntik, IUD, implant, semuanya dibebankan ke perempuan. Efek samping hormonal (gangguan mood, libido drop, kenaikan berat badan, risiko kanker payudara jangka panjang, bahkan infertilitas sementara setelah berhenti) sering dianggap “biasa aja, kan biar nggak hamil”. Kalau emang mau fair, cowok juga harus mendapatkan beban kontrasepsi yang adil misalnya kondom konsisten (bukan cuma “kadang-kadang”), atau vasektomi.

nyesel gak bawa semua outfit lutchy itu🥹

Ada laki-laki lain yg bersedia vasektomi, eh banyak yg gak terima~~ Gue pribadi udah ngalamin -Alergi latex karena pake kondom -Naik 19kg karena KB suntik 3bulan -Kena pengentalan darah & anemia (sampe HB cuma 7,5) karena KB suntik -Dislokasi IUD 2x selama pemakaian 1thn, bentuk rahim tidak cocok pakai IUD -Polip rahim karena siklus mens berantakan (2thn gak mens selama Kb suntik) Mungkin cuma ditanggepin “itukan kodrat perempuan…”🥱🥱

kulit kerontang sekerontang kerontangnya

gak gini pagi pagi aslam

i hate my self for bringing anything into my luggage like girl pls leave your wounds alone

@iqbbalmuhammad chivalry isn’t dead

engga ka, adanya pembalut/pantyliner sama tissue buat pacar, siapa tau dia tiba-tiba butuh kalo lagi jalan.

@iPopBase the fuck

Prabowo Subianto has stepped down.

bangun tidur mimpi udah di tempat kerjaan baru🥹😬

mari kita rate kegiatan minggu lalu: resign dari kantor: 7/10 ⭐️🥹 bawain barang dari kosan: 2/10 ⭐️ mudik: 6/10 ⭐️ lebaran: 8/10 ⭐️ nginep rumah nenek: 10/10 ⭐️🤩 bday: 9/10⭐️ gerd kambuh: 0/10⭐️ balik jkt ke igd: 1/10⭐️ vertigo: -100/10⭐️🫨 pijet full body: 10/10⭐️😍

sometimes i wish jobs didn't exist and that humans were free to just enjoy their existence on this planet.