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@wonwhoism

i either fangirl or question things

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Lilyofthevalley@barehanji

That is why being a shipper is a total roller coaster. But if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that the golden rule is to NEVER SET YOUR EXPECTATIONS TOO HIGH. We spend so much time building these beautiful stories in our heads based on what we see through a camera, but we have to remind ourselves that there’s a whole world happening that we aren’t part of. We draw all these conclusions from how they act on screen, but we don’t see the real actions or the conversations that happen the moment the recording stops. When the truth finally comes out and it isn’t what we imagined, it hurts deeply. But if we’re being honest, it’s not usually because they changed, it’s because we finally learned a truth that was always there. We tend to blame them for acting differently, but they’re just living their lives. We always demand that artists respect us as fans, but have we actually respected them? Did we ever respect them enough to stay in our lane? Did we ever respect them by giving them privacy when the cameras are off? Did we ever respect them as real people with their own lives outside of our screens? At the end of the day, they are artists. They have a job to do, and that includes navigating the thin line between being completely honest and providing fan service. That is just the nature of the industry, and we can’t hold them hostage to a story we wrote for them. Our life outside of this is far too beautiful to spend it feeling miserable or “dying” for a ship to sail. Fandom is supposed to be our happy place, our little escape when life gets heavy. It’s meant to give us joy, not become something that makes us lose our peace of mind. We have to keep our hearts grounded so we can enjoy the journey without losing ourselves in the process. Posting this to also remind everyone, to all the shippers: touch some grass. I know you have a life, but please, get a life. I’m enjoying unwinding but I got messages about everything that’s been happening, and it’s honestly so sad that we’re back at it again. We have some people who completely misunderstand the whole context, and others who “over-understand” everything just because they’re caught up in too much happiness. Let’s find some balance.

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Look at the details!!!! Kaya pala himlay na himlay ako kasi fits nila is giving banig?!!
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K: "i love you tho!" L: i love you,too! 😁 K: but that liquor is disgusting. L: 😐 i'm cryinggggg 😭😭😭😭😭
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sobrang parasocial 🤣 i think ppl shud touch some grass coz i cannot for the life of me BWHAHAHAHAH
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i'm so annoyed i should have not checked that acct 🤣 feeling woke di naman marunong mag factcheck kairita : )
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ooof ambonak lang
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CARTON NETWORK 📦
CARTON NETWORK 📦@TeamCartonOFC·
SLAY THE D-DAY! ✨ Are you ready, Couriers? It’s time to raid your closets and pull out your most iconic looks! We want to see you flaunting those shining, shimmering outfits for the Carton Fanmeet this April 11. Remember: the spotlight is waiting, and the stakes are high! The 3 Best Dressed will walk away with SVIP tickets for Carmelle’s concert. 🎫🔥 Don't just show up—show out. See you there! 💅 #CartonFanmeet #SlayTheDDay #TeamCartonNetworkOfficial
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TANGINAAAA 😭😭😭
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nawawarshock si anton HAHAHAHA
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YUNG PWET KO PARANG SINISILABAN SA KILIG
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MGA BEH ANG LUWAG-LUWAG NG BUS NAGSIKSIKAN PA TALAGA KAYO DYAN 😭😭😭 (c) maegads
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