Ada Hopper

Gen Z woman here, I didn’t get exposure to the internet till like 13 and then suddenly had exposure to both p*rn AND Instagram. Instagram was very clearly 1000x more damaging to my mental health than the strangeness of p*rn. I think seeing ppl in hyper-perfect versions of your reality is much more damaging than porn as a kid because of how alien porn is? Seeing "other people" on IG, being performed versions of girls my age, having experiences that I felt like I wasn’t popular, hot, social, smart enough to achieve myself, made 13 yr old me so insecure. I was comparing to a very clear reality I could see every day! Looking at porn as a teen is just such an alien and curious experience. I got into much deeper rabbit holes on pornhub of alien egg laying videos, giantess, weird hentai, tentacles, vacuum pumps, water bondage, and these were all really just quite strange and freakish to me. I was a socially awkward autistic virgin. Porn felt like some freak internet land that was completely incomparable to anything I could ever see in reality/day-to-day life. When I had my first kiss at almost 15, I was frankly very shocked and a bit disgusted at this lanky, stubble-covered boy sticking his tongue down my throat like he was trying to touch my tonsils. I had my eyes OPEN the whole time, and he had to tell me to close them. but the experience of seeing other ppl have hyper-social/romantic/fixed & posed images of their body was much more damaging because of the para-social element. Like before the internet, everyone cool than me, I would never have seen their private lives, I was like “oh shit, wait ppl have been having these experiences behind closed doors in private rooms away from me?” “How disgusting, I wish I were eating Lady M cake with 6 teen girls in Brandy Melville.” that shit is like heroin to a 13yr old. Watching some Ukrainian woman get deep-fisted was just such a foreign and strange visual experience that it was totally separate from anything that impacted my view of reality/psychological state.

@Glawk_40 r bespoke bras even a thing, idt thats how bras work

@AdaHopperSF You're not going bespoke?

hot Woman in ugly undergarments

@E_B_Buchanan Literal sense, so many things can be described by mouth feel and maybe hand feel. I have very strong preferences on spoons

@AdaHopperSF In the literal sense or as metaphor? (eg. being unecessarily snappy w that person left me with a bad mouth feel). A couple years back I would ascribe everything on a swag / unswag binary

useful to categorize things into "good mouth feel" and "bad mouth feel" and then start using it to categorize non-food items

@noeye1253 Im not super into kink stuff but actually very into electricity/fire and have wanted this for a bit. Who doesn’t love the experience of sucking on batteries?

@AdaHopperSF Where does a 9 volt battery fit in that scale? The tingling of electricity feels good, but I wouldn’t want to put the whole thing in my mouth…

"fred darling I'd marry you for your money in a minute, would you marry me for my money?" instagram.com/reels/DTyNXOjj…

I love being around ppl who I can make really open jokes and comments about money with.

reorganizing my entire life around creating good mouth feel and avoiding bad mouth feel

hm to have ‘monet in your powder room’ money”

Wow how disgusting, I bet she only wants him for his great personality and his unvested shares.

forced a unicorn founder to let me dress him on our weekend together and it was like trying to put socks on a cat

So excited for nyc this wk. Somethings on my to do list: -Masquerade (immersive Theatre) -Atomix (bar over full) -Frick on 4aco -2am korean Spa

@Lungdoc_77 Haha me autistic? Recently got into a convo w an sf man who told me that im not autistic im just from a low-context culture (nyc jew)

@AdaHopperSF Correct me if I’m wrong but you are the same escort that was previously going by the name the autistic courtesan

To the booking form asking if i was ai: “no, but i have tried using ai—It made my boobs smaller.”

@paigepowellxoxo arggg i have crazy texture discomfort and literally can not get over the break in period w chanel flats lol. Any tips for breaking in?

@AdaHopperSF I might sound crazy but Chanel Ballet flats are my go to once they’re broken in

Do SF girlies have recs for cute walking shoes (loafers, boots, flats, not sneakers lol) Struggling since moving from NY

While in london commissioning custom shoes, in Europe shops seem more open to doing random custom? (Comparing leather colors)

"submissive and breedable" wife? sure bro if you want submissive and breedable sons. you know that shits heritable right

damn it, accidentally fumbled and called him baby so many times ironically that i accidentally became deeply and automatically versed in the term and it’s no longer ironic.

Happy Friday! 🧳