Merit Orji

I could manage 10k not lasting again, but 100k not lasting again is really paining me

a woman recommending something to her friend group has a higher conversion rate than your entire paid ads budget

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when you’re actually low on money but ppl don’t believe u cuz u moisturize nd dont give broke energy (broqué not broke)

always make time for enjoyment because suffering will make time for itself.

Goat meat is a cheat code, it makes every dish taste better.

It do be too many damn lemons some days

He developed a foldable billboard that’s easy to transport, set up, and pack away.

Nigerian women (including Gen Z who are supposed to be more aware) are tearing their pads apart, washing them, and/or burning them so that “ritualists” will not use their blood to do juju or whatever. You people are killing me. It’s 2026 and you have access to the internet.

“I have six sisters and none of them has been sexually assaulted…” As if they would tell you.

I love having intelligent friends because there are certain issues I want to talk deeply about that only a handful of people can understand.

It is absolutely exhausting and heartbreaking that we have to keep having this same conversation. A woman’s body is not public property. There is no outfit, no location, and no situation that makes rape okay. But beyond the anger we feel today, we need to talk about the lifelong trauma victims are forced to carry. Long after this stops trending, survivors are left battling PTSD, anxiety, and unseen scars. Many suffer in silence because they are terrified of a society that will ask them what they were wearing rather than holding the perpetrator accountable. Every single survivor of sexual assault deserves absolute justice and a safe space to heal without judgment. The perpetrator belongs behind bars, but as a society, we also need to do better at protecting our women. I am sending her, and every other survivor out there my support. I hope she gets all the medical and psychological support she needs right now.

I love shopping on Temu, make I just dey see money

Almost every woman I know personally has been sexually assaulted at some point in their lives. You can't think it's okay to shut people up from speaking up about assault because some people lie. If you lie, you should face consequences - but that's not the conversation I'm having. Nor is it one I'm interested in having. How many of your male friends have they lied against? How many of your friends have actually assaulted women as vibes?? Women are terrified to go out. Women in their homes are not safe either. Ask your sisters. Ask your female friends and your girlfriends. Ask your wives. We're not all crazy. STOP RAPING WOMEN!!

It’s so tragic to be a woman. You’re not safe anywhere, not even your home.

everyone keeps saying that hair holds memories, but for me it's always been music. if you play an old song i used to love i could tell you exactly what chapter of my life it's from

Do you know how terrifying it is to realize that there is no category of woman that has been spared? Not the newborn.
Not the teenager.
Not the pregnant woman.
Not the elderly. From babies who have barely opened their eyes to the world, sêxu@l vawulence has touched every age bracket. Every stage. Every season of womanhood. What kind of reality is this ffs? It means this vawulence has never been about desire. It has never been about attraction. It has never been about what someone wore, how they behaved, or whether they were “tempting.” A baby is not tempting. A female c0rpse is not seductive. So what is it? It is entitlement. It is the belief that a female body is something that can be accessed, taken, overpowered regardless of age. When you strip away all the excuses society likes to hide behind, what you’re left with is something darker: a culture that has normalized violating women across their entire lifespan. We grow up learning safety drills for something that should never have been our burden to prevent. We are told to cover up, to stay alert, to not trust too easily. And yet caution is not a shield. Age is not a shield. Marriage is not a shield. De@th is not even a shield. Imagine living in a world where simply existing in a female body makes you vulnerable from cradle to grave. The heartbreaking part is how often women carry not only the trauma, but the shame. As if something about them invited it . As if surviving it is something to whisper about instead of something to rage against. There is something profoundly broken about a society where womanhood itself can begin to feel like a curse. Sexual vawulence is not an isolated horror. It is systemic. Woven into silence. Into disbelief. Into the way victims are interrogated before perpetrators are condemned. Until we stop pretending it is exaggerated, or hiding behind “not all men,” we will keep raising girls in a world that teaches them how to endure danger instead of demanding a world that refuses to endanger them. No woman should have to navigate life knowing her vulnerability does not expire with age. And yet, here we are.

Asking an agbalumo seller “is it sweet” is a level of self manipulation 😂 Wait you think they will say “No”?