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Kimberly Dragon-Flournoy

@ShowMeTheTrauma

I help others heal from unresolved trauma so they can live their true authentic lives | Boldly Healing | Let's Connect

Lighting Up the Shadow Sumali Nisan 2023
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Dr. Bob Beare
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Join 6000+ I share weekly insights on breaking old patterns, healing emotional wounds, and creating lasting change. If you’re ready to dive deeper and transform your emotional life, my FREE newsletter is for you. Sign up here: bobbeare.com
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Dr. Bob Beare@DrBobBeare·
The very best thing we can do for ourselves, our families, our communities, and the world... Is to own the victim and narcissist within ourselves. And get off the topic of "them."
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You don’t just remember trauma. You relive it—every single day. In your posture. Your reactivity. Your inability to relax. Here’s what The Body Keeps the Score reveals—and how to finally heal it (by a PhD psychologist):🧵
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Vulnerability is the new cool. Most of us still don’t know how to do it. And without it—we stay stuck. Dr Brené Brown
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When grief is repressed, and it finally comes forward, it feels like the end of the world. If we have a regular practice of allowing the grief to move, it becomes a river that flows very closely with joy.
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Are you afraid of “getting in trouble”? There is no trouble. You’re an adult. The principal isn’t calling your parents. You've been indoctrinated. That's why you're stuck. Professor George Carlin
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Dr. Bob Beare@DrBobBeare·
If you’re worried about fascism, don’t just look at flags and uniforms. Watch how power behaves when groups get big. Watch how we lose our humanity and autonomy through fear. 🧵
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Kimberly Dragon-Flournoy@ShowMeTheTrauma·
The “helper” in me showed up long before I had words for it. I’m certain it grew out of childhood trauma—an early lesson that caring for others was the only way to feel worthy and loved Today, I imperfectly practice the beautiful and complete sentence of NO.
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Dr. Bob Beare
Dr. Bob Beare@DrBobBeare·
If you think 𝙒𝙞𝙘𝙠𝙚𝙙 is just flashy songs and dancing—look closer. It’s a story about shadow and projection, power and propaganda, and what happens when authenticity is punished. Everything Jung tried to teach about the Shadow is there: -The “wicked” one is the most honest. -The “good” ones are performative and corrupted. -“No good deed goes unpunished.” The fascist impulse—to control narrative and crush truth—is the real villain. In the end, 𝙒𝙞𝙘𝙠𝙚𝙙 isn’t about witches. It’s about the only way to save the world: Heal and reclaim the parts of ourselves we’ve cast out. The Inner Work Community is open now for enrollment. 👇👇
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Dr. Bob Beare@DrBobBeare·
We hold pockets of old pain in the body. The mind tries to manage it by scanning for danger. Replaying worst-case scenarios from the past. It thinks it’s protecting us, but it’s keeping us trapped. Trauma blocks the present until it’s felt and released. Dr Bessel van der Kolk
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Dr. Bob Beare@DrBobBeare·
Some depression is chemical—it pulls us down no matter what we do. That requires medical attention. But most of what we call depression is old pain, trapped in the body. Unprocessed grief, anger, and fear slowly painting the world in darker colors.
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Dr. Bob Beare@DrBobBeare·
You've tried it all—self help, therapy, mindfulness But you're still stuck. Because you're doing it in isolation. The Inner Work Community is where healing happens in connection. Check it out here (20% Black Fri/Cyber Mon discount ends Dec. 1): offers.drbobbeare.com/inner-work-com…
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Dr. Bob Beare@DrBobBeare·
Many of us learned early that keeping the peace meant staying small. Now our nervous systems panic at the first sign of disagreement.
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Dr. Bob Beare@DrBobBeare·
“I can’t stand conflict.” Of course not. At one time, it meant danger.
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Dr. Bob Beare@DrBobBeare·
Confidence is what happens when your nervous system knows you’re safe. Shame is the culprit. It's the main byproduct of trauma and conditioning. You can’t affirm your way out of a body that’s still bracing for danger. We freeze, fawn, and overperform because our cells remember what our minds try to forget. Healing the lodged pain—that’s where confidence begins. Check out this free 5-day course to start your healing. See below 👇👇 Dr Peter Levine
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Dr. Bob Beare@DrBobBeare·
Most of us learned to stay safe by being “nice.” Not kind. Not honest. Just agreeable. Dr Gabor Maté
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Dr. Bob Beare@DrBobBeare·
Childhood pain doesn’t disappear. It goes underground and runs the show from the shadows—until you turn toward it.
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