@Dr4con1a @lesbiancapulet Literally all you have to do is put “terfs dni” somewhere because with no context they’ll assume you’re agreeing with them, that’s just an unfortunate fact
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“For those who identify as aromantic/arospec and fantasises/enjoys the idea or concept of romance but does not desire a romantic relationship and/or is repulsed by real romance.” – Tumblr user malegirlmachine
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@sugarbeezy_ The terms non men/women have racist origins
Queer attraction to women/men is a better definition imo
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@scisetpiled I agree but also a lot of people in this fandom really can’t comprehend a butch4butch ship
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@rowdyrohannie No it’s bisexual but also describes the specific feeling of being both wlw and mlm as a multi gendered person
I agree calling it gaybian is dumb I think sapphilean would clear up the confusion more
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@atimerz no? i mean, bisexual, pansexual and omnisexual don't share the same meaning despite all being under the bisexual umbrella
however gaybian is just bisexual but with gay and lesbian as some unnecessary useless decorations to “spice it up”
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white people be like : yeah i'm a gaybian, please don't call me a bisexual.. that's a slur to us gaybians. if you call me a bisexual you're the most transphobic person ever
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@rowdyrohannie I do agree the name is problematic, it should be called sapphilean instead, but by your logic aren’t pansexual and omnisexual also offensive to bisexuals because they all describe attraction to all genders just more specifically
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@atimerz yeah because those are like, cisgender bisexuals
bisexual multigenders such as enbies can totally experience sapphic and achillean attraction at once. therefore there's no reason for that ‘gaybian’ term as the name itself already offends like, 3 communities (bi gay and lesbian)
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@rowdyrohannie Most bisexuals don’t experience both sapphic and achillean attraction at the same time
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@atimerz what's the difference really, what does it change
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@smiskidean @_mollycoddles It’s under the bisexual umbrella but describes a more specific way multigender people might experience it
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if you think sapphillean people are "just bi" then you are not allowed to use any further aspec labels other than aro or ace. you are now barred
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@smiskidean @_mollycoddles Someone who’s sapphic (women attracted to women) and achillean (men attracted to men) at the same time due to being genderfluid or bigender
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@rowdyrohannie Well no because not all nonbinary people would describe their attraction that way
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@imfruitflip Yes it’s a more specific term for how multigender people experience attraction
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@Aikrinaa @rowdyrohannie I agree, the term should be sapphilian instead, I think that would clear up a lot of the confusion
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@atimerz @rowdyrohannie sapphic doesnt mean lesbian and achelian doesnt mean gay, sooo
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