coco

Detachment isn't absence, it's restraint. You still care, still notice, still remember the dates and the details. But you silence the urge to reach out, hold back the words, let the distance stay. It’s not that you've stopped feeling, it's just that you've stopped acting on it.

black women is God’s created creation ever.

being included in a family that is not yours feels so: ❤️‍🩹 ❤️‍🩹 ❤️‍🩹

in the end, promises are just words.

unfortunately i could never be nonchalant because i am not well in the head and also my soul is on fire

having men be attracted to you is very regular, having someone be invested in all aspects of you is different

unfortunately they’re not always gonna be brave enough to tell you they are no longer vibing with you,sometimes you just have to read the energies and remove yourself from the equation.

i hate arguing now. i realized that it’s really a turn off for me. i like equal accountability and no pointing fingers and easy solutions. all that other stuff be having my head hurting. like bro forget it lmao you right just leave me alone

a sign that your man loves you is that he loves it when you relax for hours and hours. he doesn’t mind at all when you’re being unproductive. he loves it when you sleep as much as you want, and only wake up to spend time with him and to do your princess things

i can't stress how important it is to know who you are as a person because people will literally try to project their insecurities and preconceived notions onto you unprovoked.

if you broke my trust & i loved you enough to let you back in & allow you to rebuild my trust again...only for you to leave me hanging & call me crazy for wanting reassurance and maybe a lil extra effort to gain back the security you took away... you're the worst type of person.

i dont think people realize how beneficial being alone for awhile is. taking time off from relationships, finding out who you are & what you want out of your life, learning to love yourself and growing, learning to be content and happy without needing someone. its crucial.

@TWOTIMESABITCH nail this

i can definitely go without sex, it's the affection i be wanting

@TWOTIMESABITCH nail this

REAL friendships bounce back after a mature conversation and accountability.

@TWOTIMESABITCH nail this.

my parents didn’t raise me to order something expensive when someone else is paying.

ngl tony stark was born for that role.

@TWOTIMESABITCH me

making myself more gorgeous is my favorite coping mechanism