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Charles Muia

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#ASonOfGod | Phil 4:13 | 🌐 Passionate ICT, Web & Digital Enthusiast | #Proudly 🇰🇪 | Advocate for #TechForGood | #SDGs #MUFC | #EachDayIsAGiftNotAGivenRight —

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Charles Muia
Charles Muia@CsMuia·
From A Man's Perspective. Thank you Dax. Yoko Interpol Rony Kiplangat Farouk Mungiki Gaitho Deputy President Ksh 2250 Gabriel Jesus Raila Odinga PayPal #EndAbductionsKE #OccupyStateHouse William Ruto DCI Happy New Year 2025 CS Lee Kabogo EAC Uhuru #MasculinitySaturday AU STOIC
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Skill of Life
Skill of Life@skill_of_life·
The difference between being kind and being used, and when you know it, you will never be used again. Kindness gives freely. Being used gives out of fear, fear of conflict, fear of disappointing, fear of being seen as selfish. From the outside they look identical. That's the trap. The difference lives in how you feel after. Kindness leaves you full, even when it costs something. Being used leaves you drained and somehow guilty for feeling that way. Once you learn to tell the difference, something shifts permanently. You become selective, not guarded, selective. You give generously, but only to those who know how to receive it with care. That's not the end of kindness. That's kindness finally protected.
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KABUGO
KABUGO@Kabugo_·
He doesn’t argue anymore... not because he’s tired. Because he finally understood... winning you isn’t a reward.
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TOP G
TOP G@menscoach1·
Many women are master manipulators. It's important to know this as a man because manipulation doesn't always look loud or obvious. It can look like tears at the right moment, silence used as punishment, affection given and withdrawn strategically, or flipping the story so the man ends up apologizing for reacting to disrespect. It's always subtle. She doesn't shout, she reframes. You bring up an issue. Suddenly you're too sensitive. You set a boundary. Now you're controlling. You express hurt. And somehow you're the one who caused the problem. That's emotional chess. And many men don't even realize it's happening. They just feel confused, guilty, off balance. A manipulative dynamic always erodes your confidence. You start second-guessing your instincts. You apologize for things that weren't wrong. You shrink to keep peace. A healthy woman communicates directly. She doesn't weaponize emotions to win. If you constantly feel like you're walking on eggshells, explaining basic boundaries or defending your sanity, that's not love. That's control dressed as vulnerability. STAY GUIDED!!
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Thee Oracle💎
Thee Oracle💎@TheeOracle7·
A lot of kind empathetic people are starting to realize that they have misaligned themselves with the wrong people. They’re realizing how they have extended their empathy to actual villains and bad mind people. This can cause empathic rage inside, because it feels like they have been taken advantage of and it makes them question their boundaries, discernment and the ability to say no✨
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Patrick Bet-David
Patrick Bet-David@patrickbetdavid·
If you eliminate fear of the future and resentment of the past, you’ll be shocked how peaceful life becomes.
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Mazi Nathan
Mazi Nathan@rukky_nate·
I have seen a woman leave a man who genuinely loves her because she feels he is “too available” and not exciting enough. I have also seen a man left a solid, emotionally mature woman because she was “too calm” for his liking. I think a lot of us were never taught what healthy love looks or feels like. So when this healthy love shows up, it feels very unfamiliar, and boring without the sparks and chaos we are used to. We then go out in search of that familiar chaos we’ve been used to —the dysfunctional love. Then we wonder why relationships are harder than ever these days.
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Dave
Dave@thought_harbor·
Self-respect is not about being proud or thinking you are better than others. It is simply about having standards for how you treat yourself and how you allow others to treat you. It is refusing to participate in gossip, refusing to lie, and refusing to settle for a life that is smaller than what you are capable of. When you respect yourself, the rest of the world eventually follows.
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Libriscent
Libriscent@libriscent·
A narcissist's mask slips when: Money is involved. They are angry. You disagree with them. They don’t get their way. Underneath is the person you're really dealing with.
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Jev
Jev@Jevrix9·
Once you cut people out of your life, you need to become very comfortable with them talking bad and making things up about you. Because they will fill your silence and your absence with stories that make them feel better about losing access to you. People rarely take accountability when it’s easier to paint you as the villain…
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𝓕🐝@thefavera·
I will never reconcile with anyone who deliberately went out their way to sabotage or hurt me in anyway. This can be family, friends, associates, whoever. Once you show me who you are, I can't unsee it.
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TOP G
TOP G@menscoach1·
Men with the biggest hearts attract the most draining, disloyal, disrespectful, and difficult women and they call it love. Let's talk about you, Mr. Goodman. -You call her first. -You check on her. -You remember her mother's birthday? -You probably sent flowers. -You forgive fast, -You love hard, and when she's broken, you show up with tools like you're some emotional contractor. And she, she repays you by making you feel like a problem to be managed. Here's the red pill nobody wants to swallow. Nice men don't finish last because the world is unfair. They finish last because they gave a five-star experience to a one-star mindset and then wondered why they got a bad review. See, emotionally damaged women don't look for good men. They look for soft men. Men they can reshape, drain, guilt trip, and still sleep comfortably at night. And who fits that profile perfectly? The man with the biggest heart. You are essentially a free emotional ATM. No pin required. Unlimited withdrawals. Zero deposits. And when you finally go bankrupt, she tells everyone you changed. Studies in attachment theory show that people with anxious or disorganized attachment styles are gravitationally pulled toward caregivers, not because they love them, but because they need someone to absorb their chaos. Bro,have been absorbing chaos at a professional level and calling it a relationship. Here's what nobody's telling you. Your capacity to love is not the problem. Your lack of standards is the problem. You've been so afraid of being alone that you lowered the gate and let in women who should have never made it past the fence. And then you called that being open-minded. Brother that's not open-mindedness. That's just bad security. The most dangerous belief a good man can carry is this. If I love her hard enough, she'll become who I need her to be. That belief has destroyed more men than alcohol, war, and bad investments combined. You cannot love a woman into loyalty. You cannot be patient enough to manufacture her character. Either she has it, or you are a rehabilitation center, operating without a license. The moment you understand that your love is a privilege, not a rescue mission, everything changes. You stop attracting chaos. You start attracting caliber. Because a high-value woman doesn't need you to save her. She needs you to lead her. STAY GUIDED!!
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The Driven Man
The Driven Man@Thedrivenman·
The older you get, the more this makes sense
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Oku
Oku@oku_yungx·
Never mock a man when he is down. Life has a way of turning tables when you least expect it. Today, he may be struggling, trying to find his feet, fighting battles you know nothing about. Tomorrow, he may rise stronger, wiser and far ahead of where you stand. Mockery says more about your character than his situation. It shows a lack of empathy, a lack of understanding that everyone has seasons both good and bad. Instead of laughing, learn. Instead of mocking, support. Because the same road he walks today could be yours tomorrow. Respect people in their lowest moments. That’s where true character is revealed.
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KABUGO
KABUGO@Kabugo_·
The most expensive thing in poverty isn't lack of money. It's the time you spend managing the consequences of not having it. 3 hours on a bus because you can't afford the Uber. Half a day at the government office because you don't know anybody inside. Poverty isn't just less. It's more... of the wrong things.
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Elon Musk
Elon Musk@elonmusk·
True currency is steadfast friendship
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Still Paying For It
Still Paying For It@stillpaying4it·
@ManOfFocus_ What part of you did you abandon to keep her that you need back more than you need her
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Malvin
Malvin@ManOfFocus_·
To all men who became successful after a breakup, please give one piece of advice to a man going through one right now.
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Skill of Life
Skill of Life@skill_of_life·
Letting go of someone you love but who hurts you is one of the hardest things you'll ever do. But love isn't enough if it costs your peace. You deserve better, even if it feels impossible now. Stay strong, heal, and trust that walking away is an act of self-respect.
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Jev
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Narcissists want peace, but the peace they demand is your silence while they misbehave. That is what real peace means to them.
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