Oshizzy | PM, PE & Engineering Strategist

One beautiful aspect of life is break-up. It is the perfect time for introspection and accountability. You see where your Ex fucked up, where you fucked up, what and where and how you could have done better. Where you should have given grace. Shit you shouldn't have accepted. Most importantly, how you can love the next person better. Instead, you spend the next 6 months to a year, playing victim and antagonising your Ex, till you start believing the nonsense you tell yourself. Nobody is a victim of recurrent abuse. You were a willing participant because you chose to stay. Stop calling yourself a survivor. It sounds stupid at fuck. You chose them, and chose to stay with them. You accept the love you think you deserve. Instead of calling yourself a survivor. Accept you were stupid and that acceptance will help you make better choices not to be stupid next time. Victimhood has no advantage to character and decision making.

Dear civil engineers, why do some structures have issues with network? Immediately you step out, network will appear Please teach me & explain why it happens