Him

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Him

Him

@Spoekeya

Never let your emotions control your judgment.

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Shiyak'lenga.🇿🇦
Shiyak'lenga.🇿🇦@BraThabzaa·
Paying lobola for a non virgin is not only disrespect to your uncles but you have shamed your ancestors. Lomuntu ubelokhu ebhejwa for free and wena soyakhokha? Madoda ayikho lento. Lomuntu bekasaphaza umdidi abheke I ceiling liphume alibuyisele yena FOR FREE.😭😭
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Him@Spoekeya·
@Amahashi_ @Ziipho__ Even this tweet won’t blow up like if you had posted yourself naked. People just don’t like good content.
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Miyandy
Miyandy@Amahashi_·
I’m sorry, but South African podcasts are really failing young girls right now. Day after day, the content directed at women revolves around men, money, luxury lifestyles, soft life, designer bags, monthly allowances, and endless lists of what a man must buy or send. I’m not here to judge grown women doing what works for them, but when this becomes the dominant female narrative online, it starts shaping how young girls define success: being expensive, being maintained and being funded. Very few voices balance this out with meaningful conversations about careers, education, mental health, independence, financial literacy, healing, real relationships, or building a solid identity and future. Not every women-focused platform has to centre on “how much must he pay for access?” In a country facing high unemployment, widespread trauma, depression, abuse, identity struggles, and failing systems, the most audible content for girls is about Gucci bags and male provision. This content is shallow, endlessly repetitive, and socially irresponsible. We need platforms that amplify women who are actually creating value, professors, founders, researchers, doctors, analysts, engineers, and writers because the endless focus on “getting money from men” is rarely liberating; more often, it’s predatory dynamics wearing a glamorous filter.
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Phatsimo 👑💕
Phatsimo 👑💕@Queen_Phatsi·
I get what you’re saying, but for me it’s not about bashing men or women. Cheating is wrong, whether it’s a man or a woman. In this case, I just feel bad for him because of what he’s going through. Loving someone and then being hurt like that isn’t easy to just ‘accept and cope’ with. If the roles were reversed, I’d still feel the same way. It’s about the situation, not the gender.
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Lerato❤️
Lerato❤️@Tiblah_Tumie·
Waitse botshelo🙌 A friend left for UK for an opportunity. Abe a boa a tla go ntsha magadi. Went back plan ele go saver for celebration and go tsaya family. They have been planning the celebration, paid for everything. He is back, mosadi o preg, and it not his😭 Yohh tota gatweng
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Gauteng Department of Economic Development
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User1234567
User1234567@User1231012·
@Spoekeya @Queen_Phatsi @Tiblah_Tumie By accept and cope she means he must accept the child as his,forgive and her and understand the child has no mistakes that’s what she means and it’s bullshit
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Him@Spoekeya·
@Reign_C0C0 @Tiblah_Tumie If you were verified I would understand. So this means you’re being stupid for free, for the love of the game.
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Coco Hegemony
Coco Hegemony@Reign_C0C0·
@Tiblah_Tumie It happened to Joseph too. He must not despair for not all is lost. He will be a father to a king ❤️
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@Queen_Phatsi @Tiblah_Tumie What do I mean accept and cope? I didn’t hear you bash women in general like u would have had it been a man doing the cheating and having babies with other women… why is it?
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Nana Birungi
Nana Birungi@NanaBirungi·
@topUGcitizen True. That’s why we’re the smarter ones because time doesn’t teach your gender, right?
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Mama Onkgopotse
Mama Onkgopotse@queensekage·
@MKAYMAMPONE Couldn’t you have kept quiet and make all the money in peace ? Life is not all about social media.
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Nokuthula Mkay
Nokuthula Mkay@MKAYMAMPONE·
Got retrenched last year. Joined Takealot to do deliveries with my car. But it was a lot on petrol. So I decided to switch to an automatic bike. I went from spending R400 to R150 per day on petrol. Plus I make more orders than I did with a car. #Takealot #Hustling #petrolrelief
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TruthWillSetYouFree
TruthWillSetYouFree@TruthHurtsIKno·
@ekomobong_mike @onlydubsX What fking journey? Journey of WHAT!?? The journey of talking about Will every waking second of her LIFE!?? wtf was she HEALING from!!?? Why is the 🐶 ALLLWWAYYYSSS healing!!!!??
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Dubs⛧
Dubs⛧@onlydubsX·
Jada Pinkett Smith says no matter how hard Will Smith tried to make her happy it didn’t work, adding she later realized it wasn’t his responsibility, which led her to seek happiness in other people while still married, claiming it helped her heal 😳🤔
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Dr MuVenda
Dr MuVenda@Ndi_Muvenda_·
DSTV didn’t see Netflix coming. Retail stores didn’t see Takealot coming. Taxi drivers didn't see Uber coming. Hotels didn't see AIRBNB coming. Instagram didn't see Tiktok coming. Mercedes Benz didn't see Haval coming. Post Office didn't see Paxi coming. What's next?
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A.VICTOR
A.VICTOR@Lifeof_AG01·
Have you ever seen a tweet that doesn't even concern you, but you immediately go to that person's profile and block them because you don’t want to see any more of their thoughts on your timeline ever again?
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Goon
Goon@roscoempls·
@ThembaM60 @elonmusk It should still be this way. We are not meant to coexist. You go your way, we’ll go ours. Self segregation is the only answer.
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