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Started transitioning in my 20s Haven't had any surgeries (yet), just HRT I'm not quite where I want to be yet, but I still believe transitioning was the best decision I had ever made

@BasedVetDad Where in this story did you get that idea? I wasn't groomed, this was best case scenario for me

@arxonbby Your not a girlfriend tho lol. This is nonsense. This sounds like grooming.

When I was 17, I told my then gf that I think I'm trans and she laughed at me bc apparently I was the last person to figure out. She then reminded me that she had told me she was looking for a gf when we got together and I just never connected the dots

@mrshadesesq First of all, being gay isn't a fetish. Second, who said I was gay either? She may not have been the most feminine woman, but she was still a woman. I hadn't even tried to attempt to date a man up to this point

@arxonbby Also you can’t be gay and not have a fetish. You can’t belooking for femboys and not have a fetish. You can’t literally live you’re freaking lifestyle without it being a fetish

@mrshadesesq I was already a feminine boy when we first met. You're just jumping to random conclusions and trying to vilanize someone who's been very positive in my life for no reason

@arxonbby “A queer woman who saw me for who I was” or in normal speak. “A gay underage woman told me I was a femboy and because I have no self confidence or backbone I allowed it because someone finally gave me attention even though it horribly altered my life for the worse”

@mrshadesesq Where exactly is the "fetish" you're referring to? I haven't mentioned anything of the sort. There was no fetish, she's just a queer woman who saw me for who I really was

@arxonbby Congrats me too, you don’t get to attempt to run up the ladder and try to bring it up behind you. That’s not a healthy relationship when it’s based on fetishes. Sorry to break it to you

@mrshadesesq Femboys are not sexual in nature at all. You just think anything feminine is inherently sexual because you're a misogynistic freak. Please examine yourself before you come for me and my ex

@arxonbby Also “femboy” is not sexual? Are you seriously trying to piss on us and tell us it’s raining? You really think we haven’t lived on this planet long enough to see perverts being perverts?

@mrshadesesq I am an SA victim myself and honestly I feel like you're the one doing the disrespecting. This is not SA, this is a healthy relationship wtf

@arxonbby Looking for a femboy as a minor is still a sexual preference, you’re attempting to say that sexual exploitation has to be sex and can’t be just another person using thier own sexual proclivities to adjust or modify the behavior of a second party. You just slapped all SA victims

@mrshadesesq Where was sex mentioned? There was nothing sexual about this??? I'm also gray asexual if you must know

@arxonbby Why would you encourage sexual exploitation of a minor?

@mrshadesesq I guarantee you I wasn't groomed. I encouraged it if anything

@arxonbby So someone helped attribute your current state from when you were a minor by encouraging certain behaviors “I was always looking for a girlfriend” you were groomed

@mrshadesesq She was a minor too??? We're only a few months apart in age. And pre-ordering isn't grooming, I hate that I have to specify that

@arxonbby The comments on her preordering a femboy. And you agreeing for one. Pre order someone who’s a minor by conditioning them…… hmmmmm

@mrshadesesq Where in this whole story did you get that idea from?

@arxonbby You were groomed. I’m sorry

@ChudleySchlumpt @IDontKnowLmao77 Yes, we did 😌

@arxonbby @IDontKnowLmao77 I’m glad to hear that at least (it sounds like) yall ended on good enough terms.

@Destrand_ Thank you :)

@arxonbby 😍gorgeous

Another pic from yesterday feat. my new snake earrings

@CSustins Thank you!

@arxonbby Incredibly beautiful

LGBTQIA+ people aren't pushing an agenda. We're surviving yours.

@IDontKnowLmao77 She rly is, we love her. We're in very different spots in life right now and don't talk as much as we used to but she'll always be an important part of my life

@arxonbby Your then gf sounds based as fuck

@CookiesPeople That's what I've always jokingly called it

@arxonbby Damn she was pre-ordering

@assblas1029020 @blkwinterwells Honestly now I'm a little curious as well... I may have to ask her at some point

@arxonbby @blkwinterwells Highkey now i wanna know what her plan was if you just didnt, mildly ammusing to think about

@pwincediana She very much is!

@arxonbby i do recall!! she sounds so cool

@pwincediana Thank you <3 I forgot to include that my ex and I are still friends all these years later and the moment I told her I was on hrt, she refused to see me in boymode ever again, which rly helped me socially transition

@arxonbby gahbless girl youve got a great origin story, so happy u got to transition into who u were meant to be <3