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@codabridge

died in 2018 and no one noticed because there was no blood

شامل ہوئے Mayıs 2020
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aul 🍃@codabridge·
Bear with me guys with all these Suits season 7 rants. I finished the whole show two months ago but I’m still not over season 7. Not sure when I will be. It just goes against my values in so many ways. 🤷🏼‍♀️
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aul 🍃@codabridge·
@AnonymousDH206 Lol they share more things than most siblings do 😭 I get why Louis said he drops his manliness in his relationship with Harvey. He vented to his therapist whenever Harvey upset him, forced couple counseling when their relationship needed work, and now this might as well be canon
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@codabridge I love this and could totally see Louis say that. And he’d be like “come on, Harvey, we also share a dentist. What do you mean it isn’t our anniversary. It’s also the birthday of your goddaughter.”
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aul 🍃@codabridge·
I’m not even into cars, but I already have an answer for “which car do you hate the most?” and “do you have any bad memories involving a car?” It’s this ONE. Only Suits fans will understand why. Please get this car out of my sight, my mind, my existence!! 😭
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aul 🍃@codabridge·
I actually wanted to repost that gif of the color contrast between Harvey’s dream and reality in s7 bcs it’s such a good catch. Then I remembered the cold blue scene was “I didn’t tell Donna about P bcs I didn’t want to create a problem when there isn’t one” and yeah never mind😭
lamia@donnapaulsen

the woman of harvey specter’s dreams, bathed in sunlight and warmth. angelic in white, with harvey’s initials on her. so angelic in fact, that this is one of the rare times on the entire show that we see donna without nail polish.

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aul 🍃@codabridge·
@Utopia1975enX It’s also one of my favorite seasons! Tbh, I still find one or two episodes boring, maybe bcs the cases aren’t as intense, but her growth makes it worth rewatching, especially after everything she went through in season 7. And Harvey’s growth just makes it the cherry on top.
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Utopia1975@Utopia1975enX·
@codabridge Seriously, it’s my favorite season. So many people hate it, think it’s boring. I just loved that Suits did that and that they gave SGR that opportunity to develop her character that way (they owed her!)
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aul 🍃@codabridge·
@Utopia1975enX He was selfish. I know he’s the managing partner so it’s basically his firm but pushing her away after years of loyalty for PERSONAL reasons? Unprofessional. I don’t care how much he hated doing it, he still did it. “Bcs you put me in this situation.” Who says that??
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Utopia1975@Utopia1975enX·
@codabridge And he is a textbook narcissist! Not only because his childhood trauma, he was selfish, self centered, controlling, manipulative, transactional. He could be a vulnerable narcissist but no less one. And he did need Donna’s attention and devotion. Paula saw right through it.
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aul 🍃@codabridge·
@Utopia1975enX Oh she was way too distracted bcs what do you mean you were fantasizing about your patient the entire time?? What the actual fuck was that?? Instead of exploring his attachment to Donna, she reduced it to his mom and exploited that attachment for her own. 😭
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Utopia1975@Utopia1975enX·
@codabridge A good therapist would have really helped Donna with her attachment to Donna and her mother. Paula not only got distracted but she never really addressed Harvey’s attachment to Donna
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aul 🍃@codabridge·
@Utopia1975enX I’m starting to see why you call him a narcissist. His version of ‘safe’ is tied to his ego’s sense of control, and he tried to apply it to a relationship which, unsurprisingly, doesn’t work that way. Losing that control was actual ‘sacrifice’, not whatever he called it. CMIIW 🙏🏻
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Utopia1975@Utopia1975enX·
@codabridge That is why narcissists almost always are cheaters. They didn’t separate from their mothers in a healthy way, and they don’t want to make the decision of growing up, of sorting those attachments. So Paula offered something but Donna offered something else. And he had to choose.
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aul 🍃@codabridge·
@Utopia1975enX So when he said “sacrifice,” he wasn’t choosing Donna over a safer option. he felt like he lost what he believed was a safe path with Paula until season 8. Donna’s resignation and P’s ultimatum knocked him off that path. Is that what you meant?
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aul 🍃@codabridge·
@Utopia1975enX Just to make sure I’m understanding you correctly: When you say “safe,” you mean that Harvey thought control and stability with Paula = safe, but in your view that wasn’t actually real safety, because real safety is being able to sit with fear while in love.
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aul 🍃@codabridge·
@rachsdams Sorryy but the feelings just come back every time I think about how she suffered in season 7 and I don’t know if I’ll ever get over it 😭
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aul 🍃@codabridge·
Imagine having your friend of 13 years pull away, belittled by your bitchy gf, and say she’s not worthy of being your friend over one mistake after constantly putting your needs above her own and all the times she made you feel worthy 😭
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sophie@rachsdams

dear harvey, effective immediately, i, donna paulsen, hereby resign from the firm. make no mistake, i wish i could stay, but i know that i can't. therefore, i thank you for giving me the chance to be your chief operating officer. i hope i proved myself worthy of the title.

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aul 🍃@codabridge·
@lovemehowx I just woke up and I’m already being reminded of the double standards some fans have 😭
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g 🫶🏼@lovemehowx·
please actually fuck all the way off 🖕🏼
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aul 🍃@codabridge·
@Utopia1975enX And what about “shit you didn’t see coming knocked you into different life”? I agree with you. Harvey should’ve learned that for a long time Donna’s boundaries were assumed rather than respected by him. And Donna should make it obvious to him now that she’s prioritizing herself
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aul 🍃@codabridge·
@Utopia1975enX Okay this relates to their wedding scene when he said “love is terrifying thing”. So in his head, ‘safe’ means full control with zero stakes? And the ‘sacrifice’ is giving up the safer option (P) for Donna, even though he knows neither is truly safe?
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aul 🍃@codabridge·
@Utopia1975enX So you’re saying he let Donna go to keep control over himself, including the one thing he couldn’t control, his feelings for her? And it was all ego? He called it sacrifice because he had to let that ego go, not because he failed with P whom he projected to be ‘the one’ —
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Utopia1975@Utopia1975enX·
@codabridge betrayed Harvey, not because of vengeance but because Harvey needed to know that she was capable and needed to face that fear too and Donna needed to feel that strength of choosing herself and putting her needs over him, too. So in my head it all makes perfect sense.
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