@hannahjonescool Calling people stupid for not keeping in touch is some serious good friend behavoir.
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@yveslibra
And pimps don't commit suicide.
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Some people will do stuff where the only two explanations is they are a deeply bad friend or stupid and then get mad when people call them stupid.
Mariè@p8stie
Apologized to a friend for being so bad at keeping in touch and she said “I get it some people are just like that it’s an object permanence thing” was she calling me stupid
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@user4343587630 @MarinateOMyMind @isthataB @_lizharvey Unnecessary, rude, but imo worst of all its pretty sexist. Tbh i just was annoyed that yall were mad about what i thought was the wrong thing to be mad at. Its stupid, im being stupid.
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@yveslibra @MarinateOMyMind @isthataB @_lizharvey dehumanisation aside, it was still an unnecessary comment to make and people getting mad is inevitable. this girl also just doesn't like ariana so 😭
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as usual you post something extremely true on this website and people get really mad at you
Julie Greiner@JulieAbridged
i can’t view Ariana grande as a live action comedy lead because she no longer reads as human to me in a way that I think she would probably be really flattered by
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@user4343587630 @MarinateOMyMind @isthataB @_lizharvey I think if you took the OP out of its context (that it is about ariana's acting ability) and pointed it at any other professional woman. OP is effectively saying, "that woman is bad at her job because she is hot." And i think you can pretty plainly see why that is sexist.
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@user4343587630 @MarinateOMyMind @isthataB @_lizharvey See she thing is she dehumanized her in the exact same way anyone does when they compare her an elf or a fairy. So yes i still think the more problematic aspect of this is the insult to ariana's acting ability based on her looks.
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@MarinateOMyMind @user4343587630 @isthataB @_lizharvey Yall arent stupid for picking up on the fact that this was a catty dig and not a compliment, but implying ariana grande is unnaturally beautiful is not the rude part and running with the idea that this is problematic because it "dehumanizes a woman" makes you all look really dumb
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@yveslibra @user4343587630 @isthataB @_lizharvey "I can't take her seriously as an actress because I don't see her as an actual person," is flattering to you?
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@yveslibra @isthataB @_lizharvey saying "she no longer reads as human to me" could most definitely have been worded differently.. you can understand how people would get offended by that no? don't start
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@user4343587630 @isthataB @_lizharvey If you dorks were literate you would be able to figure that out just by reading the words.
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The first thing I ever learned about GoT people is that they think GRRM invented the term hand of the king
Mel | CR: The Dispossessed@Mel4Chrgrs
The first thing I ever learned about Sarah J Maas was how she thought this was a real title and not something created by GRRM
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@bloodstreamrunz I think there is an added layer of complication in that getting "clocked" and "mistaken for" have overlap but are not the same things.
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"clocky" means looking slightly androgenous to some but what it actually is is looking like a man, it means people clock you as a male, as a trans woman. if people look at you and assume you're cïs woman then you're not clocky at all
chase@frazzlemother
what most trans women will never get through their heads is that cxs women are clocky as fuckkkkkk
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@strayfromlight I agreed with you and now have two people in a cage match under it some sort of linguisticsal mud wrestle
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@lunettiest @Reality34414211 @HoundsTheEnby @strayfromlight You are goddamn right!
I dont even think it was a low blow.
FUCK THE USA!!!!!
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@yveslibra @Reality34414211 @HoundsTheEnby @strayfromlight Military budget doesn't appears out of thin air. Unless enough people stop being comfortable there's going to be no change, just like the decades prior, it's true, nothing you alone can do.
I know you have good intentions, it was a low blow. All the best moving forward
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been talking with my friends lately about this thing where queer people cannot comprehend creating or engaging with art if it is not packaged in a very specific, strict, hamfisted queer shape
jo.@sereneObscurity
someone rated 'in the mood for love' 3 stars and the review says they cannot connect with a piece of media if it had a straight relationship as its main topic.
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@lunettiest @Reality34414211 @HoundsTheEnby @strayfromlight Well now this just makes me sad. We are westerners, with a rich tradition of queer media, and it is audacious for us to complain. But i think everyone should be afforded the privilege of complaining about their gay friend's bad taste.
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@Reality34414211 @HoundsTheEnby @strayfromlight Without checking I can tell you're from some western european or north american country in which there's plenty of queer media for quite a while
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@lunettiest @strayfromlight @HoundsTheEnby Who cares if its not a popular sentiment? Are unpopular sentiments not allowed or something? Is it so wrong to not want to fit into a box someone else designed?
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@yveslibra @strayfromlight @HoundsTheEnby You had to have disagreed first. Congrats!
On the post- not a lgbtq specific issue. Not a general queer consensus/popular queer sentiment at all, never was. I guess- sucks when it happens, once in a blue moon.
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@taylorthetator @devilsgrin Fair, you win. They should ban me from every airport.
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@yveslibra @devilsgrin We’re going off the info in the OP, you’re turning it into a different situation
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people are acting like this is common sense to the point where airports have rules about it and i've never once heard it in my life i feel like i'm in the twilight zone
mayo@mayohiga1
a couple girls asked me to watch their luggage in the airport and I said yes ?? aren’t I not supposed to do that
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@lunettiest @HoundsTheEnby @strayfromlight No one even said it was. We are just discussing behavior that we find distasteful because it implies a level of illiteracy, or a lack of empathy.
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@yveslibra @HoundsTheEnby @strayfromlight This isn't a real issue at all, unless ones entire life is inside a tiny bubble.
The amount of cishets that will never consume, willingly or not, queer media is overwhelming and always has been.
There is not one lgbtq person who didn't at least grow up relating to cishet media
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@strayfromlight I think you were dead on from the get, i just feel theres a minor incongruence between who is getting mad at this and who this is about.
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@yveslibra i think there's a difference between having a preference or fondness for outwardly gay/trans/whatever stories and being completely uninterested in what a work is trying to convey or has to say if it lacks that element of queerness. obviously i love gay/trans shit in art too
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