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Dem say make you go make your own money. Build your own houses, soon everyone will get the memo. It's getting close to home. A nuisance of a Man calling His wife sqautter

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@DamilolaLizz @ronkecarew So sorry to know this🥹 May God rectify all your affairs. Ameen

I’m not a Muslim but I’m a woman who has experienced everything @ronkecarew is trying to say. I moved from where my business was thriving to another city , it was hard starting from scratch and gathering customers. Then I started seeing financial abuse in play (1)

Dear Muslim Lady, Be industrious. Work diligently. Acquire beneficial knowledge. Earn good money through lawful means. Own properties. Build businesses. Invest in your health. Invest in valuable assets. Be financially grounded. Develop useful skills. Read widely and continuously. Save consistently. Plan for the future. Avoid unnecessary debts. Support your parents. Take care of your children. Be a blessing to your husband if you are married. Be independent, but never arrogant. Be ambitious, but remain humble. Be confident, but preserve your modesty. Build your intellect as much as you build your appearance. Protect your dignity. Protect your reputation. Choose your friends wisely. Use social media responsibly. Do not measure your worth by likes, comments, or validation from strangers. Have goals bigger than fashion and trends. Contribute positively to your community. Give charity regularly. Help other women rise. Stand for truth and justice. Fear Allah in public and in private. Pray consistently. Recite the Qur'an regularly. Maintain good character. Guard your tongue. Guard your chastity. Guard your heart. Remember that beauty fades, trends change, and wealth can disappear, but faith, character, knowledge, and good deeds remain. Strive to become a woman who is respected not merely for her appearance, but for her faith, intelligence, wisdom, compassion, integrity, and contribution to humanity. May Allah make you among the righteous women of this world and the successful women of the Hereafter. Āmīn.

Some women are in abusive marriages because they cannot survive without their husbands. This is where having your own money comes in.

dependence. Likewise, a financially stable man generally has more choices and is often perceived differently by society. Take It or Leave It!

Money gives you leverage and independence, regardless of your gender. Financial independence doesn’t create your worth but strengthens your ability to protect it. A woman with her own means can walk away from disrespect or abuse more easily because she isn’t trapped by

Is a man’s worth not also tied to his finances in the society? We often hear that a man without financial stability is “not ready” for marriage, leadership, or even respect. Why then is it seen irrelevant when the same conversation acknowledges that money gives women options?

such women for granted because they understand that the relationship is built on mutual choice, not necessity. While there are exceptions, it’s far less common.

The point is that it gives you freedom, the freedom to choose whether to stay or leave. You’re not only financially independent, you also know your worth, and he recognizes it. You’re not trapped by financial dependence or low self esteem. Men are generally less likely to take

You can do that , what's stopping you? How many of you lots actually follow the sunnah? Do you behave like Khadeejah's Husband? Are you like Him? Do you behave like the prophet? Don't you want Jannah too? Or is it only women that should aim for Jannah? Work for your Jannah too Brothers , Aren't the best of you those who are best to their wives, are your wives and mother of your children supposed to be begging for food all over the place, Go fix your mess and stop the silly and nonsensical arguments. You won't win this one with me. Khadeejah was dutiful because She had the best Husband, Are you best to your wife/wives? Remove the log in your eyes first.

Fascinating that Muslim Brothers are actually insulting me because I am encouraging Sisters to Earn and become Financially independent, interesting times . What exactly are you scared of? So you can continue to starve them? Sisters for your own good Be financially literate and savvy the alternative is dire and very much so. If my message is not for you, kindly block and keep it moving . Brothers especially irresponsible Muslim Brothers , I owe you no allegiance, None whatsoever. I don't do sentiments with financial abusers, I won't spare you because you've destroyed many Sisters with your Gaslighting and irresponsibilities. Those who wants to remain in your bondages can, good luck to them . As for those that want out, the blueprint is Simple, focus on your financial life and ask Allah for help to bless your efforts. That's all.

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Beautifully said ma😍🥰 Dear women😍 Don’t let the world define who you are or who you’re not. Your worth is not determined by your marital status, people’s opinions, or life’s trials. Hold your head high and keep shining❤️

To the Brothers that reminded me of my Divorce Trauma, Below is your Response in full. I have your time Now.🤣🤣🤣🤣 Go and ask about Khadeejah of Sunnah and self esteem of Nija FM UK. then you will know that no be today at all. I am in my full element now, Bring it on. Divorce Does Not Equal Damaged Goods I will say this clearly and unapologetically yet again 🙄. You insult me, I block you straight otherwise you shall get bigger insult. Being a single mother or divorcee does not make a woman damaged. The idea that a woman becomes less worthy of love, respect, or companionship after divorce is not just wrong, it’s dangerous. It silences women in harmful marriages and relationships It forces them to stay for the sake of image. And it breeds a culture of quiet suffering dressed up as “virtue.” Islam does not shame divorced women. Our beloved Prophet Muhammad (SAW) married divorcees and widows. Our faith honours those who walk away from harm and choose peace. But culture? Culture has often been less forgiving. A woman who chooses herself is called selfish. A woman who protects her children is called bitter. A woman who heals out loud is told she talks too much. And if she dares to love again? They say, “She’s desperate.” or simply Ashawo Hnmmm, May the Lord heal and forgive you My ladies, hear me loud and very clear Divorce is not a badge of shame. It’s a part of life that can happen to anyone. Even the most prayerful, Even the most patient, Even the “perfect couple.” And the married but living singles too. Yes the openly pretentious ones It is better to walk away with dignity than to die slowly in silence. So to every single mother and divorcee You are not less, You are not secondhand, third hand or whatever name the society choose to call you What you call yourself is the most powerful and important. You are not disqualified from love , happiness, peace, companionship, passion , s-ex , fun or joy again . You are a full woman, You are still whole, And you are worthy of peace, protection, and partnership just as you are and as much as any single person out there Carry yourself with grace 👑, yes you are a queen 👸 and absolutely 💯 cut yourself some slack. After all our Lord is that of first, 2nd, 3rd and numerous chances and He is not finished with you. Don't allow the society tell you otherwise. From one woman to another, love ❤️will find you again or you simply find it ! To cap it all Be a Single Mother with shit loads of money 🤑 🤑 🤑 🤑 💰 💰, That scares them the most. Never stop growing or developing, Never give them the benefit of the last laugh 🤣 🤣 #FreshChaptersWithRonke #DivorcedNotDefeated #HealingWithFaith #CulturalAwareness #MuslimWomenDeservePeace #SingleMumStrong

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