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Adulting is so strange. You can avoid spending money for a week and end up spending all the money you saved that week in one day.

After a certain age, your parents slowly become your children. They ask simple questions, repeat stories, and depend on your patience the way you once depended on theirs. Very few understand this role reversal.What looks like innocence or inconvenience is really time coming full circle. Don't correct them harshly. Don't rush them. Care for them the way they once protected you. This is not a burden. It is repayment.

So, this is what I would say. I'll ignore the hypocrisy of men but still advice them. Even if you meet a lady as a virgin, & then you deflower her. Please do not say that because you deflowered her, then you must marry her if she's not the type of wife that you need. If you deflower her and it turns out that she's a good choice for you, please do all you can to marry her. That's exactly what I did. Do not let taking a woman's virginity to guilt trip you, as long as you did not promise her marriage before you deflowered her. You approached her like every other young man would approach a young lady. You later discovered that she was a virgin. You were in a relationship with her after you have deflowered her, and she cheated on you. Please move on from that relationship. You discovered that she's very disrespectful and has a terrible upbringing & a mother whose character you are not pleased with. Please move on from that relationship. She cannot cook, clean or she's lazy. And you have tried to caution her but she feels because she gave you her virginity, then she has done all that is needed. Please move on from that relationship. And many other things that you consider to be a red flag for you. Let me tell you. When it comes to choosing a wife or a husband, it goes far beyond sentiments, pity, or self-guilt.. On the flip side, some of you ladies are in a toxic relationship because you don't want to increase your body counts. He deflowered you and so what? If he's not behaving like a man that you'd wish to be your husband and father of your children, do not remain in that relationship simply because he deflowered you. And do not let him have that power over you. If he's not treating you right, please do not waste your time in that relationship. What is important is that you're feminine, you have shame and you know what it means to have a family that is led by a kind and focused man. Not a liar and a narcissist. I hope you understand me. End.

Don’t beg or coerce friends and family to like or support your music. If they don’t like your song, that’s valuable feedback. It means the music needs work. Put in the reps, so the day you play a song for them and they light up, you’ll know for sure that you’re on to something.

Who remembers the era of "balenciaga socks"? It took over the Nigeria fashion scene by a storm😅

Nigeria has signed a deal to become the deportation dustbin for unwanted foreigners in the UK, following the collapse of an identical deal between the UK and Rwanda.

you see the friends you have who lost their parents at a young age and had to be shuffled from one relative to another? Have you ever really listened to them talk?

DEAR RESPONSIBLE MOTHERS, Teach your daughters respect, contentment, honesty, the act of giving, gratitude, and integrity. With these attributes, they'll attract quality men who will love and adore them for the rest of their lives. My man and I have been dating for about six months now. Since we started dating, I have never visited him empty-handed, and I have never asked him for transportation fare to visit him. I recall my first visit to his place. When I was about to leave, he brought out clean 1,000 naira notes and handed them to me for my transport back home and I declined. He was puzzled. I could see the shock in his eyes because I hadn't come empty-handed. I told him I already had my fare to and fro, so he could save it. I know he thought I was faking it. It has now been six months, and nothing has changed. What he does now is transfer money to me at random. Since we started dating, I have also never cheated on him, and I don't plan to. I have been brutally honest. Our first open conversation? I tried to show him my phone's pattern. Noticing that he sometimes couldn't access my phone when he needed something from it, I changed the pattern to a PIN. My phone can be with him forever and I won't fret. How many of the young ladies in relationships can say the same? My man is seeing this post for the record. If a guy woos me today, I'm already giving him the full gist. And this goes both ways. I remember when my man called me one night and said, "Babe, you've earned your place. This is my phone's password." I was shocked because I hadn't expected it. That was when it dawned on me that I had built real trust, made him confident in me, and truly earned my place in his life. I never forget to show him gratitude and respect. If he says, "Babe, do it like this," I do it. And because of this, he has grown to love me even more deeply. When I'm not around, he's barely focused. My man is literally a finished meal, and I am the proud cook. None of this would have happened if my lovely mum had not raised me right. I would not have grown up to respect a man's authority if my lovely father had not modelled it. Parents, this is your cue.

I strongly feel if you have never lived outside Lagos and Abuja and if you have never been to the 6 geo political zones of Nigeria You should not hold serious opinions about Nigeria If you are arguing the Piggyvest 1m a month statistics, you are out of touch In every Nigerian state, If you announce that you will share 20,000 Naira to each person, you will fill up a 100k capacity stadium and have a stampede You people don't know the level of poverty our leaders have dipped this country into.

Also, the myth that white people benevolently "ended" slavery should die in 2026. There were literally HUNDREDS of slave rebellions and anti-European wars and uprisings across Africa and the New World, to the point where it became physically dangerous to be a slave owner, and white people in slave societies lived in a constant state of terror. Enslaved Africans made the entire business of slavery so dangerous and expensive that the owners of capital began exploring more efficient alternatives provided by new technology, a lot of which was built off the uncredited inventions and genius of enslaved people. This messy, uneven process is what is now called the Industrial Revolution. The idea that there was ever a time when Africans were so passive and pathetic that despite being farmed and traded like animals against their will, some benevolent oyibo "ended" slavery on their behalf, is one of the biggest and most egregious lies ever told. Jean-Jacques Dessalines didn't die making Haiti the world's first postcolonial black republic so that someone could credit his lifetime of military struggle to white people's alleged "benevolence". Let this horrible myth die already.

A girl I was talking to before, once told me she didn’t feel comfortable coming alone for our first hangout, she told me she would love to come with her friends, I didn’t even bother to tell her NO, I told her it’s a very good idea, let her bring them. They got there, very pretty friends she got. I got drinks for her and her friends, with fruits salad and just started engaging her friend more, we gisted and even exchanged numbers. I no even stress myself again. The friend even entered kitchen to make sweet jollof rice, she then started feeling somehow. A week later The friend visited me without bringing her. The friend feels very safe with me😂 toh 😂😂😂😂😂

@bigbrain_rqn I swear I’ll try this out like mad. Let the opportunity just come. Thanks for this bro😂🤲🏼

@jon_d_doe Once upon a time I used to say that I want to have 7 kids like my dad but when I realized how much financial resources is required to raise 7 kids, right now I’m not even sure I want 4. Men, provision is solely your responsibility no matter the matter‼️

Check your pocket size and your projections based on your reality as a married man. If you know that your projections don't align, reject having another child with your wife. The only thing she can do for you, is to carry the pregnancy for 9 months. After that.. "Are you not a man?" Your wife will gaslight you, and tell you that: "If you don't want to take care of this child, I'll do it" It's all a lie. She will frustrate you when you're unable to provide for that child. And she will remind you that the child is yours. Every married man needs to know this. Please have kids based on your pocket size, and not the size of you and your wife's. Women hate to provide. Especially when you're alive. Dictate the amount of children that you can cater to. If your wife wants to get angry, tell her to go to hell. You'll not feel good or happy, to see your lovely child suffering. Don't fall for it, even if your wife is making millions. You're the provider. She's not. Don't let her set you up for failure. I am saying this now, and I hope you young men listen. Women will not show you mercy when it's time to live up to your responsibilities. They'll deny you when it comes to accountability. Na your sperm give her belle. And that's all she needs to nail you forever. End.

Finding a virtuous woman in today’s Nigeria is like finding heaven on earth🆘

If you ask the grass, the zebra is the monster and the lion is the protector.

My mother did not even finish secondary school. But I recall one night, she beat the hell out of me because I could not spell "school" I was in primary school at the time. I recall it was my neighbor friend called "Ozioma" that rescued me. He saw me crying outside and taught me how to spell school. That was how I was able to eat my dinner that night. My father was not a university graduate. But he was making public speeches and corrected us when we made blunders. My late father gave scholarships to many young men and women who could not afford secondary or university education. He did his best for us as his children. But we followed our paths and made our choices. My late father did not make the best decision in his marriage and his choice of a wife. And he suffered for it till he died. But my mother for the period she was with my father, played her role and made sure that she was felt. My father never remarried for almost 30 years until his demise. I saw my late father in tears and pains. He needed a wife, but he was more concerned for our wellbeing and didn't want any woman to come in to maltreat us. I recall one time, I asked him: "Daddy, mummy has gone, don't you want to remarry?" In his words: "My son, I love you all, but learn from my mistakes. I don't want you to marry your wife, and divorce her. I have suffered too much because I am no longer with your mother. But she's still your mother" My loving father died of heart attack at 72. And my mother wasn't at his burial. And that was my father's wish. We honored it. Now you know why I frown against divorce, and why I always praise my lovely wife. I learned from my father's mistakes and God blessed me with a lovely wife. End.

Honey toons ogini? Can I rest? That is make I subscribe to erotic comic stories with real money, at my age? Nawa o🤦🏽‍♂️

I don't think women realize how much we let slide, just for the sake of peace.

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