Toby of Zion

One hard sour truth that a lot of Nigerian Christians don’t want to hear and I’m here to say it openly is: The reason that many pastors look away at the incompetence of government who fails to protect Christians from barbaric murderous savages is because The politicians fund many of your pastors and your pastors show loyalty by keeping quiet even if their own church members are brutally slaughtered. Many of these pastors have received blood money (disguised as donations) but is actually a payment for their conscience, a mortgage of their souls and a silencing of their voices. There, you have it. That is why. If nobody will say it, I surely will. You want to know why your pastor is silent or merely sharing vague “prayers” but he can never condemn the government, this is why.

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Just so you know, Cohabitation is a must for me. I will never marry any woman until she has lived under my roof for at least 6 months to 1 full year. No shortcuts, no excuses. This is how I protect our future. I need to see the real her every single day, not the weekend version, not the dating mask. I watch how she sleeps, when she wakes up. If she sleeps beyond 7am often, that's a hard red flag. Lazy woman ruins a home. I won't accept it. I test our sexual compatibility the right way. No pretending, no surprises on the wedding night. I love sex and I expect us to have sex at least twice in a week not a woman that will be telling me "I'm not in the mood" or "I don't feel like". I observe how she handles real disagreement and conflict. Does she stop cooking my food because she's angry? Does she lock me out of my own house because I came home late from work or hustle? Does she challenge my authority? I see everything. No hiding behind sweet talk or short visits. Cohabitation exposes character. It separates serious wife material from time-wasters and pretenders. I don't marry blind. I guard my peace, my home, my life. Above all, I love God.

Stop kissing too much and start talking!