Also as someone who was in a long term relationship & got cheated on, shit like this is not funny, it’s not ”messy” it’s gut wrenching, it’s devastating and it destroys you from the inside. Literally, ruins you. Ruins your self confidence, self worth and even causes PTSD.
the sheer passive aggression shown at kataangers calling Zuko ”the dad who stepped up” ie Aang being a bad father bc he didn’t share the heaven burden of responsibilities as an airbender with Kya and Bumi WHILE WE KNOW FROM BUMI AND KYA, he was a loving and tentative father.
its fucking killing me how tragic robb is and how his sisters were once his priority but he was so caught in the war he couldn't even think about them anymore before being lost to them forever