@hollowearthterf It seems to be different with different children. My son slept a total of 4 hours and it was absolutely impossible for him to even sleep 10 minutes during the day if he was supposed to sleep at night, so it doesn't work the same with all children.
My son screamed his head off for five hours every night for the first two weeks, by two months I got him sleeping 8 hours without waking. The one thing I did enjoy during the infant stage was that I got very good sleep, no bed sharing, no cry it out, but you’re all gonna be mad
@MarkTonerX I also had to admit to myself that I was de facto a victim before my real healing could begin. I have such a hard time understanding why people use victim as a curse word. It creates even more resistance to really starting to heal when people so stubbornly insist
It was very difficult for me to accept the fact that I will always be a survivor of sexual abuse. For so many years, I tried to forget about it and pretend it wasn't real. This never worked for me.
When I started my healing journey for the final time, one of the first things I did was say to myself, "You were a victim of sexual abuse. That will never change and will always be a part of who you are." I had to face it and get comfortable with it.
This helped me. I'm not saying this should be the way everyone approaches healing, and it definitely doesn't need to be something you do right away, but this is how I did it with my limited knowledge at the time.
Stay positive and take action!
A 34 year old woman is ovulating a 34 year old egg.
That egg has been sitting in her ovaries since before she was born. She started with 6 to 7 million of them. By birth, she had 1 to 2 million. By puberty, 300,000.
Most women hear this and think their eggs are just deteriorating year after year. They are not. When the eggs are dormant, they have low metabolic activity. That is what keeps them viable for decades.
The real test comes in the final 3 months before ovulation, when the egg wakes up, metabolic activity spikes, and it either has what it needs or it does not. This is the part nobody talks about.
You cannot undo 34 years of aging. But you can change the environment your egg matures before it is ovulated. How you are eating, sleeping, and living in these few months before conception directly affects the egg you ovulate.
Most women are told there is nothing they can do about egg quality. That is not true. This is what we work on at Ferta.
@Gabbrielxzn It's probably a bit too black and white in my experience. My father married a manipulative, egocentric, very mean woman who let him drink and act aggressively. She was especially nasty to me and my brother. We weren't even allowed to criticize her politely.
@NetfrogX2@Kadotttt I came here so long ago that I have learned to like the earth, the elements and the elementals very much. It is the people who are difficult. What have you learned about the change? I have heard that almost all people are going to ascend, but I don't think I see much of it yet.
@fylgiapi@Kadotttt Most of us souls are feeling very exhausted from the varying frequencies bombarding our bodies. This world will disappear, it won't be anything like you see now. I'm pretty sure you'll want to come back, it's going to be wonderful. No other realm is like this one has been!
I once read somewhere that after an especially exhausting life,some souls choose to reincarnate as a tree spending a century just resting. I haven't looked at trees the same since then
@Elaa_ampe5 The patterns are so intertwined with the personality that it takes years of healing to break these patterns. These patterns was the best available way for the person to survive. I suggest that you choose a partner who does not have patterns that you cannot reconcile with instead.
So many people stil don't understand that their partner's request for change is not asking them to change who they are, but to modify the PATTERNS that are hurting the RELATIONSHIP..
@Jemimahcharles7@Kadotttt We always get the opportunity to rest when we leave a life. We rest until the soul has rested completely and wants to experience something again.
@NetfrogX2@Kadotttt I feel very tired and would rather incarnate in a friendlier world. I hope I get that opportunity. The duality here is indescribably tiring and I have been here far too long.
@fylgiapi@Kadotttt Usually that would be true, but not in this realm. Most of us have been here a very long time and forced to incarnate over and over again with a memory wipe after each life.This went on until late 2019, no one is forced to return now unless they desire to or have unfinished work.
One day you'll meet a guy who tells you how his ex cheated on him, how she broke his heart, how he can't trust anyone anymore. He'll sound wounded, soft, and sincere, and you'll feel sorry for him. You'll want to prove that you're different, that not all women leave or lie. But My advice is? Run. It's a trap. Because most of the time he's not healed he's just carrying unprocessed pain, anger, and trust issues. And instead of fixing them, he'll slowly make you pay for what another woman did to him.
“You should “just be yourself” not because it will make you more likeable (it won’t) but because it’s only by being yourself that you’ll find people who like you for who you really are rather than for someone you’re pretending to be.” @G_S_Bhogal
@Lunassnacks@sunnkssdseraph to me, and during that time I focused on healing and not dating. You carry trauma into your next relationship if you go into it unhealed.
@Lunassnacks@sunnkssdseraph My mother's husband's ex-wife chased him with a knife because he wanted to leave her. Of course he talked about her in a state of emotional turmoil after that. He doesn't do that anymore, which means he's healed. It took me at least a year to heal from all the shit my ex did