Critical Polyamorist

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💡3 questions to ask yourself about your love connections: 1. Does this relationship make my world smaller or bigger? 2. What parts of me do I hide to make the other person feel comfortable? 3. What parts of me are freed, revealed, or emboldened in this relationship?

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seeing the occasional monogamous person on a consent-forward, mostly queer & non-mono dating & event site normalizes the possibility of monogamy for me again. not rigid mononormativity, but the idea that a minority of people will do mono when they prob have a real choice not to.

I am excited to present in this online summit on #consensualnonmonogamies with all of these AMAZING folks!!!

@thejurisblogger i'm glad then. thank you. i figure my insisting on this space will pay off for others at some point. and if i can't live well nonmonogamously in my lifetime and at my age in a world not ready for it, my deepest joys come anyway in having gained understanding.

this world is not read for ethical nonmonogamy, only unethical monogamies. i have so many new essays brewing once this semester is over.

My most recent blog on Psychology Today is the first in a series that details some of the history of consensual nonmonogamies in the United States. This one begins in the 19th century and looks at the influence of anarchy, feminism…lnkd.in/eaJB3Wnj lnkd.in/eXYpdE4D

Tipi Confessions featured on Unreserved! bit.ly/3uruKiW Tipi Confessions is a live theatre event, with its co-creators and hosts reflecting on sexual desire and sex positivity through an Indigenous lens. @KimTallBear @tipiconfess

Monogamyths to stay away from: "I must wait to meet 'the one' who I will be compatible with, in every way" Heck, most days I am not even fully compatible with myself! Is it really possible for another person who has a whole different history to tick every compatibility box?

@hearthipswomb Oh yes

@CriticalPoly I am on the market for a flight attendant with buddy pass kind of friends with benefits.

Most times I tolerate clueless monogamists well but the relentless conflating of ENM with FWB, which is a clueless phrase too; I hope all friendships, sexual or not, have benefits. Today I'm not tolerating this unevolved behavior well.

All sexy vibes 🔥 today on Unreserved! Decolonizing sex, shedding shame and reclaiming our most intimate selves: cbc.ca/1.6411737 (📷: moosehide vulva earrings by @TashinaMakokis; @KimTallBear & @tipiconfess; Kanina Terry's Hide Babes @WillowFiddler + @KateriAkiwenzie)

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