Teh Smoo
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@EvilSmoo
Professional fascist nazi bigot racist except I actually don't care, as long as people aren't assholes. That's quite the filter though.
Deme, the VTuber, has BPD, borderline personality disorder. It's something I have relatively intimate knowledge of, as my sister has BPD, and I had a coworker whose wife has BPD. They have intense, rapidly shifting emotions with fear of abandonment, along with huge defensive responses. They have the uncanny ability to always see themselves as the victim, no matter what the context is or the circumstances, and due to the impulsivity in their "defense," they can become quite unhinged. People with BPD also have solidly black and white thinking, seeing the world in a us vs them mentality, which is how she can justify her vile attack against Chibi. These people practically never take accountability, fault, or anything, often blaming everyone else except themselves. They will frequently engage in DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender). They will deny the wrongdoing and then attack the person raising the concern, often in a screaming, emotionally volatile tone, and then reverse the original instigator as the victim. They can often "mask" their symptoms in a public setting for a while, often for many years, but after enough stressors mount, they crack and that mask slips off. She can blame it all on PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder) all she wants, but her behavior is textbook BPD... the same kind of toxic behavior my sister displayed, and the same stories from my coworker with the BPD wife. Some of the stories include ones like the BPD wife intentionally harming herself, often seriously enough to be hospitalized, only to blame it on the husband, or even reframing it because the "husband" was emotionally abusive. Similarly, my sister has self-harmed on multiple occasions only to escape discipline from my parents, for fear she might escalate. My sister's husband was also blamed for all the "ruination" that "he" caused against her. The coworker and my sister's husband both shared the same phenotype. Quiet, reserved, nice, and harmless... but you can tell behind all of it, they were deeply in love but also deeply scared of their spouse... not knowing when the next blowup is going to be. The Simps for women with BPD can be just as toxic, as their pull during the good moments can be legitimately magnetic, and they form strong parasocial bonds with creators such as her. People with BPD, when they are happy, are very charismatic, charming, and very warm... almost a complete mirror reverse of the depth of their toxic downward spiral. The simps become blinded by her toxic nature, reinforce her DARVO attacks, and so many idealize women with mental illnesses. "That crazy chic" is the trope that so much of the simp economy is catered to. TLDR... Stay away from people with BPD. They are dangerous and will often ruin your life, even through a parasocial lens, and treatment often has limited success.
@Aivur_ @OtakuEspiritu Keep in mind, I'm not saying it's impossible, but that Deme and her partner would have had to organised this pre-stream, so Deme is knowingly risking a total loss of income, humiliation and a Twitch ban for this. As a VTuber myself and knowing VTubers, it doesn't pass muster.
Do you think banning social media for under 16s is really about protecting the children? Don’t be naive. How do the providers know who is over 16? That’s right. Everyone has to prove their age. Everyone has to hand over ID. Your social media accounts will now be associated with your identity. You can be monitored easier. You can be found easier. You can be arrested easier. It’s not about protecting the children. It’s about monitoring and controlling YOU. They just say it’s to protect the kids so they can say people who are against it don’t care about protecting kids. We need to oppose this now, for everyone’s sake.
To all the transphobic people out there.. You realize Trans woman are woman right? Why can't people be themselves? Why does it pain you to know trans woman exist? Im a proud woman Thats who I'll always be. You are getting mad over representation in a video game. The fortnite community is truly diabolical This is gonna be a bit touchy but it's been something I've been thinking for awhile... to you transphobes I want to bring up is you do realize technology evolves?. In the coming decades transgender woman will be able to get pregnant? What will be the difference between a trans woman and a woman then? There will be none!! other then they used to be a dude now they are a woman! Trans rights are human rights! We will not be oppressed!! 🏳️⚧️
We are banning social media access for under 16s. These days kids must find their feet in a world where technology intrudes into every area of their life. I just can’t let that go on anymore. So we’re giving children their childhoods back.
