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being a doctor is genuinely turning out to be THE most heartbreaking, courageous yet stupid profession in India. You can get assaulted, murd3red, r@ped, falsely accused of negligence- and justice will not be delivered AT ALL.

if blue balling killed men i would be marching my ass down to the club every weekend to pick my next victim. i’d be like a modern lesbian vampire of blue balls. sorry boys! not for you, time to meet god!

I tell my therapist all this with a straight face and watch her scribble something so hard 😭😭🤚🏻

@thenerdnxtdoor2 The only cycle i remember is TCA because in allen our botany faculty used 'oh citric acid is a silly stupid funny molecule' and enzymes also becomes implied under it

@mondalankit007 I think it's extremely condescending to conclude that a woman will hate on men as a system, only if she hasn't been loved right by a man.

@mondalankit007 That is extremely valid too, and obviously a relationship works both ways. This conversation was focused more on him trying to understand a girl's perspective on where men are lacking and what that parting comment left me with. (1/2)

I was once at an airport where i met a men’s dating coach and we were talking about the modern dating scene, the rise of situationships, and my experiences with men. I also told him some of my friends’ experiences and what men have done for us to not trust them easily. (1/n)

Being straightforward with men is entertaining because either he will really like you or never speak to you again:A win is a win.

@mondalankit007 Thank you and that is another of my points. I have a partner, have been together five years. Does that mean I'll start to be an advocate for men? Not necessarily. I can't not call a spade a spade; and you are right that they take time to be ready correctly for a relationship.

@lorazepampapi Near late 20s, which also happens to be the marriageable age. Men mature late and so it takes them so much time to feel confident about being ready. Thats why its rare to find genuine men in early 20s. I hope you and all ur friends will end up with the best men. Am sure you will

i have zero empathy for men because they have made every women feel uncomfortable, inferior, endangered, insecure, fragile, feared, threatened, incapable, questioned, judged, incompetent, useless and vulnerable in all the possible ways.

Does a woman's relationship status change how she should view the world? Statistics don't lie and one is not exempt from facing the atrocities of the world mostly inflicted by men by her proximity or association with a man!

I wish and hope he would, but realistically, what are the odds? I was also annoyed by the notion that comment of his relied on, that women when treated right will probably attain tunnel vision and spread hope propaganda. I dont think thats a right stance to have??

@eveinblue Actually the 'fuck you' is also meant to imply PiV and that's why its an insult, because they are degrading you, keeping themselves in the position of power.

@lorazepampapi If they do believe in that, then “fuck you” wouldn’t be an insult.

people say that sex is the ultimate form of intimacy but i have observed that men often see the act of penetration as a power and authority move. Women and gay men are looked down upon in society largely for this reason, even men who get 'pegged' if we have to make that stretch

@JaylaO11 Being feminine is a state of mind and has nothing to do with the female gender. I think the disgust comes naturally because of the discrepancy that exists in the way men and women approach sex and intimacy. It really is moral, not some hidden insecurity.

@lorazepampapi @JBaschel Freud was just making observations that literally anyone can make if they just pay attention to patterns in human behavior and thought as expressed by speech. The discomfort many women have with being penetrated seems to come from insecurity around being feminine and passive.

@JBaschel They can't not objectify?

I HATE how anywhere else in the world graduating college is given so much importance and here in India there's literally no celebration rather you just start preparing for the next entrance exam when does it fucking end

GIRLS stop getting surprised when a guy turns out to be the worst person possible

And, the truth is that good healthy relationships require letting go of this control and power paradigm. It means that you can't take revenge. You have to just let go. Your honor isn't prioritized over peace. It's very vulnerable. But, the other side is worse.