@tabr99 @FemoidFairy I think as with everything there are good and bad in a profession. I always interview and follow my gut. It’s why I had a different doula this time and why I switched to a hospital midwife with my first.
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Stephanie Cardozo
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Stephanie Cardozo
@StephCardozoPod
Welcome to my outlet for all I learn and think about. Join me on my life long journey of learning and seeking truth with Christ at my side.
انضم Haziran 2015
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@StephCardozoPod @FemoidFairy My sister was my wife’s doula (not licensed as one, but she’s a nurse and has delivered 5 of her 6 babies at home) and it was just a fantastic experience for everyone involved
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I’d be wary of doulas. A lot of them are just chronically online women who regurgitate the same trendy crap while projecting their trauma onto you. Usually less educated than your average lactation consultant, which is sayin something.
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Imagine begrudging your pregnant fiancé McDonalds when she clearly has hyperemesis gravidarum and can’t stop throwing up.
I suppose he would rather “the baby” just didn’t eat?
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@KingShit00000 @usuallypregnant @LauraLoomer @grok Hey @grok what does it mean when people use emotional immaturity to get their way?
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@StephCardozoPod @usuallypregnant @LauraLoomer @grok Honey, it has never been a problem. It has always insured I get my way. I would say it's a tool I use often.
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Not in Business or First class. People pay to have comfort in Business and First class so they can work, not listen to crying babies.
I don’t want to listen to crying babies when I’m traveling for work and paying more for comfort while I work.
Isabel Brown@theisabelb
Babies belong in public & on airplanes
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@KingShit00000 @usuallypregnant @LauraLoomer @grok At least now you know. First step to change is admitting you have a problem 🫡
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@StephCardozoPod @usuallypregnant @LauraLoomer @grok So, I am out of control. The story of my life. 😂
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@KingShit00000 @usuallypregnant @LauraLoomer Hey @grok can you let us know the definition of immaturity, how it applies regarding emotions particularly anger, and if this self proclaimed man of age is showing any immaturity.
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@StephCardozoPod @usuallypregnant @LauraLoomer Trust me, it is a problem for anyone who provokes me. I'm too old to be immature.
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@KingShit00000 @usuallypregnant @LauraLoomer Provoking anger is an emotional immaturity problem in yourself and not someone else’s problem.
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@StephCardozoPod @usuallypregnant @LauraLoomer No, it is a burden. It provoke extreme anger. I don't care to be around it.
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@Utah_Cowboys @NotZeraBP I think it’s important to revert the church is still run by meer humans. It’s going to make mistakes regardless of its truth.
I recommend asking God how he sees and wants you to see this topic ❤️
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@NotZeraBP @StephCardozoPod I’ve said before & stand by it. I’m all for feeding & clothing people. I don’t care what religion they profess.
I do, however, have very unsettled feelings on building their Churches & helping them expand their “gospels” so to speak.
Feels very anti restorationist to me.
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Another stupid convert question…
If there are 2 Churches, one the ⛪️ of God, the other (all encompassing) is the ⛪️ of the devil, as is written…
Why would the Church of God donate money (helps expand CoD) & build bridges to the CoD?
Logically, I can’t make it work… help?
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@jmbrim3 I agree. Pride is the foundation for many other sins like judgment, vanity, lying, coveting, etc. it’s a beast of a sin and personally working on it has been quite a journey.
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@StephCardozoPod Pride is the foundation of all the bad stuff, if we can be more humble so much will be unlocked for us!
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If you had a magic wand to change one thing about church culture or the attitude of members what would it be?
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@_loonielovegood @queenathenah Surrendering and getting so far through so much to have your child born and in your arms…. It’s like cloud nine but higher. It’s ecstasy without any disorientation. It’s other world without leaving this world.
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@queenathenah I didn’t experience anything otherworldly in childbirth besides blinding agony. I feel like I’m missing out when I read about the “veil” being thin.. I wanna know what you guys felt.
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unmedicated birth is *easily* the most psychedelic experience i have had & i’ve done both lsd & shrooms.
Lea 🦩@abysstoabyss
why are these women doing ayahuasca when they can just give birth hear me out, if you like: - vomiting - witnessing the veil of existence thin - surrendering to the ride BUT you also want: - to live in accord with God's natural law - cutie pie bb HAVE I GOT A SUGGESTION FOR YOU
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@NotZeraBP @Utah_Cowboys This is the answer I came here to share. The church isn’t donating to the other church itself but to the people. People who will wake up to what is going on and what is running their organization and they will cross the bridge the church has made ❤️
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@Utah_Cowboys The best answer I can give and admittedly it's not a great one, but it is one nonetheless, is that it's easier for people to crossover a bridge than a valley. Of course that crossing can go both ways.
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@MichaelStanger1 @jmbrim3 Spot on 🙌🏼
Not surprising ❤️
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@StephCardozoPod @jmbrim3 Indeed. "Pride is the great stumbling block to Zion. I repeat: Pride is the great stumbling block to Zion."
Beware of Pride by Ezra Taft Benson
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@KingShit00000 @usuallypregnant @LauraLoomer I baby crying isn’t a burden to strangers. It’s a sign your fellow men are reproducing and your society isn’t dying.
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@StephCardozoPod @usuallypregnant @LauraLoomer It used to be people had respect for those around them. Today, they want to make their problem a burden to strangers.
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@1109Patricia I’m going g to be the mom that gives them a hug 🥰
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🛑Demeaning men over the pulpit. From the lowliest Branch to the hight of Conference Center
🛑Unwelcome jokes of female superiority. Male inferiority
🛑Tearing down, eroding, & displacing men
🛑Taking away from men to give more to women
🛑Following Babylons lead.
P2/2
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I’ve had multiple trips through Hell in my life. Almost never had anyone to help, strengthen, lead, or guide me through it.
I had God. My faith & trust in Him. I had Nephi, Abinidi, Isaiah, Mormon, & Moroni… It was enough. We can’t depend on the arm of 💪
What can we do?
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stacker@stackerco
My wife’s friend just told her of a member of her bishopric who ended his life today. Late 40s, family, etc. This is happening too consistently in my world. What can we do to help men?
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@StephCardozoPod The weeks feel so long but are passing by... Rather quickly. My second will be a month old in two days
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Domestic bliss is snuggling your 3 week old baby in a clean kitchen while waiting for the corn bread to come out of the oven ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💜
Only made possible by the freezer meals everyone helped me stash 🥹
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