
Trilogy
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Another Nigerian man in the UK. Another woman he trained. Another man she's now with.  When does the pattern become the lesson? We're so obsessed with 'marrying our type' and 'the one that gives butterflies' that we ignore the one who looks at us like we're the prize. Butterflies don't pay rent. Butterflies don't stay faithful during the grind. Butterflies fly away when winter comes. 'Don't marry the woman you love. Marry the woman that loves YOU.' Because in the long run, marriage isn't a romance novel, it's a construction site. And you need someone building WITH you, not someone waiting for the house to be finished so she can move in her real partner. Tag someone who needs to hear this before he sends that next school fees transfer





















