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@kanayathegod @ThatJLawStan @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ I think they all have “quirks” that are over looked or not pointed out as a crutch but it’s only condemning to him bc it doesn’t benefit everyone else. I mean you don’t receive anything beneficial from his ocd compared to a people pleaser or a codependent coworker

@Wednesdayfrfr @ThatJLawStan @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ Oh no no no no no no no that's NOT how it works. He needs to get therapy bc even in the show it's very clear he uses his ocd as a crutch against anyone else and their own quirks or needs..he is uncompromising

They really broke up over this flight vs driving argument for their trip 😩

@gemiiKayy @ThatJLawStan @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ Compromise means to choose something that agrees with both parties or changing a situation to satisfy both sides without excluding someone

@Wednesdayfrfr @ThatJLawStan @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ It’s not a compromise because that was never a place she wanted to go in the first place. He made that decision.

@Melanin_drippy @ThatJLawStan @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ Janine was very well aware of his financial views before entering a relationship,she spent time dating his friend. She knew Gregory while she was seeing what kind of guys she liked herself and she still chose to pursue him after he stated it wouldn’t have been a good idea

@Wednesdayfrfr @ThatJLawStan @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ Lol you date him then. Janine was set on outer Banks and he swindled that to AC. Where they'll still be spending hella $ on the casinos. She recovered the trip. Simple.

@Melanin_drippy @ThatJLawStan @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ I would date him and I would have been ok with choosing the drive with a few stops for bathroom and food and pictures. I would also be willing to look at budgets to see what other things we could both enjoy while not making my partner uncomfortable about their financial values

@Imfullofdoubt She literally took care of a grown man while he used her money to fund his lifestyle. she got into a health relationship she continued to have the same process until he informed her he was also financially responsible and could contribute bc they were a team

@Wednesdayfrfr We have no reason to believe Janine is bad with money

@ToogoodTobeManu Funny idk many teachers in the Philadelphia area that has an unlimited amount of money to spend without a budget plan I mean the first two seasons they couldn’t afford haft the stuff their classroom needed seems like an budget issue for the school and for them

Janine used to manage everything herself when she was with Tariq even though he was not contributing with shit. Gregory is just annoying, cheap and always complaining about something.

@udonda_k yall never took a ride trip it shows. she let her old nigga be a bum and did everything in her power not to lose dat bum. She can compromise on a drive that’s he’s trying to make romantic since she picked the trip.Her happiness she put over his uncomfortability with planes

It's deeper than that. Had Janine agreed to drive, it would set the tone for their relationship going forward. Meaning she'd have to constantly compromise her own happiness for Gregory's unreasonable comfort.

@heaven777__ @AndrewKyleSmith @InesBogarin @tysonphotoo The issue at hand is aang had trouble with accepting his role as avatar he literally ran away and got trapped not by choice but by consequences. Korea accepted she was the avatar and she enjoyed being that powerful and center of attention

@AndrewKyleSmith @Wednesdayfrfr @InesBogarin @tysonphotoo Neither one of them lost their childhood. Aang was frozen at 12. He lost his people yes. But he had a childhood. Korra too had a childhood. She was setting snow on fire at 3. Both reached pre-teen age before things really kicked off

Toph is a girl and no one hated her Kuvira is a girl and also a villain but no one hates her Azula is a girl and probably more dangerous than Kuvira but no one hates her Katara is a girl and the most powerful water bender but no one hates her But you think people talk down on Korra because she’s a girl. lol

@ThatJLawStan @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ If you can’t do that then don’t date someone who who clearly is vocal and visually showing you they have certain patterns that needs to be met to function successfully in there day to day life

@Wednesdayfrfr @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ And he micromanages and cheaps out as a result yes. This entire show he’s known as a micromanager who doesn’t like change, even if there’s the reasons you listed

@ThatJLawStan @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ So when you want to date someone who has mental health developments present in there lives it’s not your job to change them or get them to function the way you want, it’s you job to understand the things they need to do to maintain a healthy mental state to function properly ⬇️

@ThatJLawStan @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ Plus they can’t they was just talking about buying stuff for there class and finding an new Appartment it’s all about budgeting doesn’t mean he’s cheap that’s financial responsibility if the options was cheaper why not move the funds to a more resourceful category

@Wednesdayfrfr @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ Once again him controlling both the destination and the travel is not a compromise. He was the one being selfish because he was so cheap. They both can afford it and if she can afford the flights then there is no issue. He was making it one

@ThatJLawStan @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ He didn’t control both destinations she chose outter banks he asked to drive she said no he asked again she again said no then he changed his mind about the destination to compromise not getting on a plane

@ThatJLawStan @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ It’s based in Philly shawty going to AC OR JERSEY SHORE is a vacation for most teacher some even have houses down there to get away from the city pace.

@Wednesdayfrfr @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ 30 minute drive to a location she didn’t want to go to is NOT a vacation which is what they were doing

@ThatJLawStan @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ Didn’t want to do a long drive fine how about a short 30min to an hr drive. “NO I booked the flights it’s fine it’s my money” he said it himself “I don’t want to fly couple we drive instead, we can even make the ride more comfortable so we can still go to your destination.

@Wednesdayfrfr @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ This again isn’t a compromise. Because she didn’t want to do a long car drive, he changed the entire destination to where they’d STILL have to drive. He was controlling the entire thing.

@ThatJLawStan @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ Gregory has ocd and is antisocial why are yall expecting and introvert with a military upbringing to be the wild hit the road beat the bridge kinda guy stop projecting expectations. Plus she has a guy like that and she ended up suffering in her relationship expect change.

@Wednesdayfrfr @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ No? She lived with her ex and had to end up covering all their bills because he was a bum. That was on Tariq not her. Gregory is notoriously cheap and micomanaging. The party he hosted was a flop because of this. Have you even watched the show? 😭

@ThatJLawStan @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ That was nasty but also should be seen as an eye opener for her to see she try’s to be a people pleaser to keep comfort.

@Wednesdayfrfr @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ And he threw that situation at her face as a dig and blamed it on her during the argument which was just nasty of him

@ThatJLawStan @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ Then he said ok let’s compromise change the destination to a closer place. Again Janine said no I wanted to go to the outter banks and I book the flights. That’s selfish beings tho they’re both teacher splitting rent and budget. Greg never actually spent bread to change the plans

@ThatJLawStan @AlisaCutiepie @zee_zhu_ The trip was outter banks he asked if they could drive instead of fly she said no it’s faster he said that fine but as a compromise for budget purposes let’s drive plus it’s will be a scenic Road which a double romance. She said no flight only. No compromise on Janine side ⬇️