John Awe
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John Awe
@Adagbasi2
Be frank and i will be frank with you
Escravos-Nigeria Beigetreten Mart 2013
235 Folgt88 Follower

My neighbor travelled for Christmas last year and had sex with a girl in his village before returning back to Lagos like nothing happened.
Today, two elders came looking for him with the girl and her mother. He couldn’t understand how they located his house.
They told him the girl he slept with last Christmas is pregnant for him.
The worst part is his wife is also pregnant with their first child, and their marriage is barely a year old.
They dropped the girl’s bag and told him, “this is your new wife,” then left.
His wife has been crying uncontrollably and even carrying her bags outside. Everyone in the compound is begging her to calm down because of her condition.
This man just created a big problem for himself.
My compound is hot right now. 😩
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@Shehu478392 Who gave the order to release them? Is the IGP not from the West?
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Fulani herdsmen were caught destroying farms in Osun state. The farmers and herders were arrested by the police. Later, the police released the herders but detained the farmers.
When asked why, the police told the people that the Fulanis had insisted that the farmers must spend 48hrs in detention before bail.
This is not fiction. This is a true story in Osun state. The mighty and powerful are behind the Fulani herders. One call from Abuja, and the Fulanis will have their ways. This is Animal Farm.
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@Prince_dc21_ I think you are not ready to continue with the marriage.
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'I'm 28, a very pretty young lady from a family of 6. I'm a married woman, having gotten married last December.
My mind is being bothered. I'm the first & only daughter of my parents, & the third-born. I don't come from a rich home. As the only girl, a very beautiful one at that, my family has always had their hopes on me as the one who will liberate them from poverty. Sadly, dad passed away when I just became an adult. Luckily, I married a successful businessman. He takes care of me & my family, alright.
But I'm bothered at this point because he plans to put up a modern building for his mom. I equally asked him to build for both mothers so it doesn't sound like my own family is being discriminated against, but he's not happy. Instead, he told me that if it's like that, then this marriage is not going anywhere. Even before our marriage, he was saying that he wasn't ready to get married because he planned to build a house for his mother first.
I advised him that he can still build even when we are married because I thought he would take long to marry me. He was sourcing money to build his mother a house because she's renting. I was in support and I am still in support. I'm not denying that he should support his family; the problem is he's not considering that my mother also needs a house and is still living in my father's old, outdated building with my younger siblings.
Even my mom is beginning to complain after seeing him start up a building plan for his mom in the village while she still stays in an old home because it just sounds so discriminatory, and I don't want to let my family down, who rely on me. I thought he would build houses for both parents; we are no longer dating, we are officially and legally married. How is my family, and even my friends who look so highly of me, going to look at me watching my man build a home for his mother while putting my mother on hold or aside completely?
He's saying the money he has only caters for one house. Why can't he divide it & rather go gradually until the 2 buildings are completed? I thought marriage means both partners are one & sharing ideas and equally supportive of each other. Instead, my own husband makes me feel like I forced him into this marriage. How do I deal with this situation?
Please, I need your support & guidance."

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@instablog9ja Since tpu know where to steal from, tpu can try by yourself
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@TobiAjayi15 I will not pay a bride price the second time for same woman. I will respectfully tell them that.
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I just heard something very funny, and I had to post it immediately.
So this guy got married in 2023 at a time when he was really struggling financially. He was quite close to his fiancée’s (now wife’s) family, so they reduced a lot of items on the bride price list because they understood his situation.
He didn’t pay much, just arranged a few things and got married.
Fast forward two years later, a lot has changed. His life and finances have improved, and the wife’s parents are fully aware of this.
He said last December, his wife’s parents invited him over. He thought it was just a normal visit. Only for him to get there and meet a full family gathering, elders, parents, everyone seated.
At that point, he already knew something was off.
Long story short, they told him they want him to come and pay the proper bride price. They even brought out a fresh list, and this one was heavy.
It’s not like he can’t afford it now, but he feels it doesn’t make sense to pay another bride price after two years of marriage.
According to him, they’ve been on his neck ever since. He spoke to his wife about it, but she’s also confused and doesn’t really know what to do.
So let me ask you, if you were in his shoes, would you pay the bride price again or decline?
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@Dammi_Esq Are carrying triplets? Why not get the items in bids? If two million is just for basic necessities, I wonder how much it will cost when the child is born.
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I cried my eyes out last night. Honestly, if I had known marriage would feel like this, I might never have agreed to it.
I’m currently six months pregnant with our first child, and it feels like my husband is making things even harder for me. He gave me ₦400k for baby items, but everything on my list is over ₦2 million just basic necessities.
I know he’s trying his best, but the money isn’t enough, and I’m feeling overwhelmed. I genuinely don’t know where to start or what to do next. I really need sincere advice.
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“I’m a married woman with 3 kids, and I really need honest advice because this situation is getting out of hand.
It all started after my last birthday. My husband’s elder brother sent me 100,000. I was surprised, so I called him to ask why. He said it was a birthday gift. I even told him it was too much, but he insisted I should accept it.
Out of respect and transparency, I told my husband. He even called his brother to thank him.
But that’s where everything changed…
Later, my husband’s elder brother called me and warned me never to tell my husband again whenever he sends me money. That alone made me very uncomfortable.
Then things got worse.
Whenever my husband travels, he starts asking me to meet him in private places. I refused the first time, the second time, even the third time.
Then one day, he came to our house and confronted me, angry that I didn’t show up.
I stood my ground and told him clearly: I cannot meet you alone anywhere.
But instead of stopping, he pushed further,
He told me he wants to buy me a new car. He even suggested I should lie to my husband, that I took a loan, sold my old car, and upgraded, without telling him the truth.
At this point, I feel disrespected, uncomfortable, and honestly disturbed.
I haven’t told my husband yet. but I’m wondering if I should.
If you were in my shoes, what would you do?
Keep quiet to avoid family drama, or speak up before it gets worse?
I really need your advice”.

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@Dammi_Esq If your husband was coming from his side chick and you caught him in the middle of the night, what would be your reaction. Be honest
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How do you send a woman and her three kids out at night just because a DNA test says they’re not yours?
If you’re married under the Act, that’s a cr!me forceful eviction of your spouse can land you in serious trouble, you will eat two portions for two years.
Yes, the DNA result is painful. But the right step is legal: file for divorce and seek compensation if necessary.
Throwing them out at night is unlawful and d@ngerous. If anything happens to them, you’ll be held responsible.
You’re not the first man to raise children that aren’t biologically his.
Why not calm down, wait till morning, and involve her family instead of acting in anger?
Hurt is valid but that kind of action isn’t.


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@AA_Folorunsho Please make it in batches to accommodate every single person thst applied. I am also interested but with the number already I will have to wait fir next year if it will be done again next year
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So far over 11000 persons have applied to sail on a Nigerian Navy warship!! First I must confess that I didn't expect this number of persons. Challenge is we cannot get over 11000 people onboard the limited space on the designated ships.
We will be disclosing the successful applicants between May 1-3, 2026. All applicants will need to visit @NigerianNavy and other Nigerian Navy social media platforms to check.
#NigerianNavy
#SailNavy
#70thAnniversaryCelebrations
#OnwardTogether
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@iamzioraa Did you say my farm? What concerns police and elders in this matter ?
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@NigeriaStories Where will the road start from, Badagry as usual and ends there just like coastal road.
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@Prince_dc21_ Nice treatment and well supported. Instead of confrontating your husband, you're crossing the line by going to her school. You got the well deserved disgrace.
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@Teeniiola Please allow her, there's nothing. By the way, what's your definition of worldly song?
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