Ijeoma Aniebo
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Ijeoma Aniebo
@Declectic
Actor | Model | TV Presenter/Producer | Writer. Bookings: [email protected]












When Asherkine does giveaways for women, you don’t come and thank me for it. When Tunde Ednut gives random women money, you don’t appreciate me for it. When a man opens a business for his girlfriend or surprises her with something big, nobody says “well done to all men.” But when some foolish men go and misbehave in Ozoro, Delta State, suddenly you remember my gender and want me to take responsibility for it. Good men do kind, thoughtful, and generous things for women every day, and only those individuals get praised, not “all men.” But the moment one man or a group of men do something wrong or evil, it somehow becomes a burden all men are expected to carry. How does that even make sense? At some point, we need to be honest, praise should be individual, and blame should also be individual. Stop generalizing when it’s convenient and selective when it’s not. Because this double standard? It’s not just unfair, it’s exhausting.



















