@Gennada2@nise_yoshimi from what i understand 1 guy goes ahead looking for computers and the other two kill all the bots
once you hit 2 you insta rush a side passage and hit another team while theyre still clearing bots
@ky0mpe I'm running into the same issue so fuck me for giving advice. But I find it helps to have shared hobbies the more things you experience together the stronger your connection will be. It's not full proof tho. I don't think there is a good test for spotting a cheater / liar
@nise_yoshimi didnt even bother with cryo this week after hearing that the spawn rushing thing is not only not fixed but worse than ever
complete nonstarter til they figure that out imo
@sludgysmudge I'm an idiot so you shouldn't take my advice, but had this happen to me earlier this week with a girl. If they really cared about you they would see you are upset and work to make you feel safe and reassured. Anything else and they are either a coward or a lier
@prairiedust Sex is usually a important part of a relationship. It allows you to build a unique type of intimacy. It's probably not required, but removing part of something by nature devalues it
i think something that’s really important to me in a relationship is “if i decided to stop having sex with you tomorrow would that affect my value?” and if the answer is yes, i don’t want that relationship.
@deborgex@pixyrot "setting yourself up for heartbreak" yea too late brother. I am not saying you are wrong. Just everything has its balance. I'm not good at finding it yet.
@Gennada2@pixyrot And that's fine and all, but still, don't get too attached. I won't stop you from setting yourself up for heartbreak, but I'll just warn you that attachment inevitably leads to disappointment
Then again, you can always apply my mentality and decide my opinion is worth nothing
@Gennada2@pixyrot But I think a slightly more palatable way to word this is to consider this:
Would you care about what a Chinese farmer in the Qin Dynasty thought about you?
If you can apply this mentality to most people, then you can gradually replace the existing beliefs
@salixstardust@pixyrot I think hurting the people I care about is what I worry about the most. It's just hard to convince myself of anything else when the feelings are so strong. I'll keep your advice in mind. Thanks
@Gennada2@pixyrot In life we never stop changing and we never stop growing and that is really scary but we have to do it so we don’t keep hurting ourselves and others
@Gennada2@pixyrot There is a fix. A lot of people who have this are mostly too scared to take that leap. People choose familiar hell instead of new heaven time and time again.
@dollcramps@HopelessManmode That was me for a couple years after I got my corpo job. Was lucky enough to get mentored by an outgoing colleague so it's better now, but it more feels like I now have a switch I can flip to be more social. Still feels fake
I am actually like, a 24 year old with the life experiences, attitudes and desires of a 14 year old
Maybe becoming social isolated and not rly talking to anyone for 3 years when I was a teen was bad, but I am unsure
I struggle not still seeing the same boy i was in my face, i can still see all the same bone underneath, being trans sucks because you can't unsee all that made you a man