Thomas Kendall

That is fucking horrific! No one's business, so please ignore me if you want, but what on earth would make you think that was necessary at such a young age, when you hadn't even been sexually active yet? I am genuinely sorry that happened to you and that you suffer effects from it.

I consented only to “excision of redundant labia” when I was barely 18, a virgin, and still in high school. I was told “no risks to sexual function,” which I also read online everywhere I looked. My OB/GYN, later made president of @texmed and @DallasCMS, completely amputated my labia minora, amputated my frenulum, and cut into clitoral body skin without my consent, which denervated the glans of my clitoris. This happened because clitoral/vulvar anatomy was censored from medical school and OB/GYN education. The standard of care was to do surgeries they were never trained to do on anatomy they didn’t know. Thats why I’ve been an activist. 22 years later, this is FYI STILL HAPPENING FOR THE SAME REASONS. Though I’ve changed 20 major medical textbooks, 2 anatomy apps, etc., this isn’t enough to get surgeons educated. Last I checked, OB/GYNs still aren’t required to know clitoral anatomy. Textbooks define the frenulum as part of the labia minora and do not recognize its function. Tbh I was so focused on getting the course of the dorsal clitoral nerves added that I didn’t focus on the innervation of the frenulum (posterior labial nerve). This is recognized in 0 OB/GYN resources. ☠️ The white lines show where my doctor cut me basically.

@Richard_Vixen We don't mind the upkeep. We mind being told we're not doing enough after paying for most of it, if not all of it, by someone that thinks existing is a gift.

Mysteriously men don't want this amazing reward of getting to live in a place in exchange for its upkeep

Someone understood the assignment and stuck the landing!

@memeticsisyphus If you entered such an arrangement knowing beforehand it was going to be sexless, and as long as she's not expecting celibacy, that could be OK for some guys. But if she's expecting a traditional style marriage, only without the sex, she's off her rocker.

What is the point of a sexless childless marriage?

@AmeliaRemigrate @RealDianeYap Well, reproduction and an associated legal obligation to financially support through the reproduction and raising of the offspring. But you're not wrong.

@RealDianeYap @SaaSy_CFO The only purpose of marriage is reproduction, which requires sex.

Read the comments. It’s eye-opening. You can be perfect in every other way but men still won’t want you unless they get sex.

@ignor3th1s @RealDianeYap Right, I get that, mine does too. But if sex was off the table for any reason other than illness, the value starts to decrease, doesn't it? You sign up for monogamy, not forced celibacy.

@SaaSy_CFO @RealDianeYap My wife gives me sex, emotional stability when I need it, mental enjoyment, physical intimacy that isnt sex, etc.

Yeah, sorry, but men don't crave community the way women do. We do want some of the same things, but we also recognize they come at a heavy price to us, so there is a value proposition to consider. If the ROI isn't apparent, we'd just as soon get a dog. And men do not ever totally lose interest in sex. That's a straight up lie. It waxes and wanes, and does sometimes take a dip for health reasons, but a healthy man does not completely lose interest.

@SaaSy_CFO After a while, even men lose interest in sex. I guess there’s no point in grandma and grandpa’s marriage anymore, huh?

Telling a man you're proud of him and his hard work. Even better, if one of your friends tells him how much you brag about him. Women have no idea what that does for a man. To know he's appreciated, and even more, that she brags about him instead of itching about him to friends? He'd do anything for a woman like that.

Is there a male version of bringing a woman flowers

@Spamfromk It comes down to a choice. Does the partner want kids so badly they'd be willing to start over with someone new to have them. Or, would you be willing to have kids to keep them. Neither answer is right or wrong, but that's the choice, and it doesn't change.

Ok serious question, What happens if your partner wants kids and you don’t…???

@AndroidYaseen @xevekiah But you really can't now because it's harmful to test for paternity prior to birth, and there's no way a law like that passes without paternity resting to verify. Too easy to lie.

@xevekiah Getting a vasectomy is analogous to getting your tubes tied, not abortion. A better one is to hold men responsible in some way during pregnancy and after it. Child support is already there; you can also make it law during pregnancy also.

You want to ban abortion? Then start at 18, vasectomies for everyone who can cause a pregnancy. Simple, reversible, low risk. If controlling reproduction is really about “responsibility,” then why is it only women being controlled? Or is bodily autonomy only sacred when it belongs to men? Because if the argument is “protect life,” then it has to include all the ways life actually starts being created, not just policing the outcome when it’s already inside a woman’s body. So which is it? Principles… or control?

@NoSaltAllPepper @lilyally98 No. They will resent a man making a relationship transactional, then turn around in the same breath and do the same thing to benefit themselves. The hypocrisy is astounding.

@lilyally98 Women love to use children to attack men. Will women ever evolve pass that?

You want 50/50? Start by carrying the baby for 4.5 months. Until then, let’s stop pretending this system is balanced.

That's where you're wrong. Lots of people noticed and lots of people cared enough to try to prevent girls from doing it. But the call of easy money for something they think is supposed to be fun is just too much. There's millions of people that would live nothing more than to shut down that site, and all like it. Not to harm the women, but to protect them. And those people are called controlling and abusive for even considering that they might know better than the girls.

@Marlayna29 The key was to make it appear somewhat anonymous and easy to get paid. 20% of American women under the age of 25 have an OF account. Do you have any idea the damage that’s being done on a faulty basis? Lives completely destroyed yet no one seems to notice. No one seems to care.

OnlyFans didn’t invent the sexualization of women, it just made it profitable enough for them to stop pretending they hate it

For a guy with your profile name and pic, that's a pretty judgy attitude. Moral arguments aside, there is a reason why the Feminine nature reverts to sexuality as a base survival method. It works. Sure, they're probably not going to cure cancer, but odds are they never were anyway. What makes the E-Girl craze so successful is the size of the audience. They don't need one guy to support them when they can crowd-fund a lifestyle. Much easier to get $1 from a million guys than $1M from one guy. And sex will always sell, one way or another.

@PaulaWright I don't think there's any work that is lower on the totem pole and more degrading than sex work. It's basically a capitulation that you have nothing of real value to offer society.

OnlyFans is safe prostitution & the amount of women who have enthusiastically taken to it falsifies much of radical feminist dogma.

I don't know science backs this up, but I wonder if it's plain fear. They learn early than mom is the nurture, and even though she is capable of harm, they don't see that. But Dad is bigger, stronger with masculine traits which equate to violence, even if dad has never been violent. It also helps if they seem mom defer to dad. If she does, they know damn well they better. Again, don't know science supports that.

Why do kids suddenly become so responsive the moment their dad speaks or gives an instruction, but seems to ignore their mum even after she has said the same thing multiple times?

@Zamayworld @its_khumo Bullshit. Even in couples, the toys come out when he's not home. They are a replacement.

@its_khumo I doubt this, it depends on how they are used. These are meant to enhance the experience not to replace. There is couples that are using these together as ways to enhance and please each other

You guys are far too young to be this obsessed with sex toys. Give your bodies a chance to experience natural human pleasure. These things set the bar way too high and no man could ever measure up and this ruins relationships

@BenNooman1 @EvaWillaim I'm beginning to think people are too stupid to care. It's kind of proving most of social media is just people.respondong to other people's performances, real or imagined. Shit really is a Black Mirror episode.

@EvaWillaim The fact anyones believes this fake wack “Cheatbusters App” ad is real is beyond me. Cmon everyone. 😂😂😂

My wife was mad that the hotel she cheated on me in called me to tell me she left her credit card there.

@Nat_Ssha @DrAlmarielao Reading comprehension ain't what it used to be, huh?

@DrAlmarielao That’s a little too bold, too soon 😬 first dates shouldn’t come with weird vibes… I’d probably pass.

This text changed EVERYTHING… She’s getting ready for a second date, thinking it might actually go somewhere when a message pops up just hours before dinner. At first it feels like a joke… but then he follows it up with: “Good. I plan on being distracted all night.” Wait… what?? Suddenly the vibe shifts. Fast. What was supposed to be playful starts feeling… off. Too comfortable. Too early. Now she’s sitting there thinking, is this a red flag or am I overthinking it? Comment: Sometimes it’s not what they say… it’s the tone, the timing, and the confidence behind it that gives you that instant “ick.” Would you cancel right then and there, or still go and see how it plays out?

@attofemto @123skely Only until the post-divorce glow up...

@123skely lol "sacred cow"

Marriage is such a sacred cow for most people (left and right), they won’t even entertain the idea that it has been weaponized against straight men. Women know this. Gay guys know this. Everyone knows it, but no one wants to say it out loud.

@JustJenRX Core memories!!

Nothing smells better than Hoppe’s NO.9 😊 IYKYK!!!!