Timothy

@BradleyGrey_ @jess_ann_pin Really easy to explain. The perception comes from the fact that women tend to settle in mass with their “long term partners” and it’s the reason the divorce rate & sexless marriages are so high. While the “hookup” got away without having to give anything away in compromise

It is weird when people assume that hookups are higher quality people than long term partners. They're assuming the fact that it was short meant that you "couldn't keep them" and therefore they were higher quality. But the reality is more like you said, they met a baseline criteria for that night, but not the higher standards that you set for a long term partner.

Why do men get mad when I say this? My last boyfriend was someone I took home from a party — hot enough for a one night stand and also met my criteria for a relationship. My boyfriend before that made me wait 8 dates, but with the one before that, I slept with him on the first date. The only criterion for sex is bare minimum physical attraction. The criteria for a relationship is higher physical attraction, intellectual connection, emotional safety, shared long term goals, etc.

@GunPlayLexy @TifahCrump777 They are right though. He got married back in 2018 to this woman named Shea. It does appear he got divorced a year ago so not sure the timeline of it.

@TifahCrump777 “They’re saying” and it’s people that don’t even know her. Guessing just like you. When the family and friends are right there yall rather lie and make up theories. Pathetic

I have a theory …. She paid for her own birthday trip, excursions and even planned her own engagement. She got tired of faking the funk for social media & approached him about him being white & broke. That white man rage kicked in & he strangled her then hung her up to make it look like she hung herself.

@jess_ann_pin Jessica a sincere and honest question. Out of every 100 random men you see on the streets how many you feel real attraction towards? I would appreciate an honest answer

The way I see it, most women are horny and trying to get laid, but men often ruin this by being disrespectful or otherwise not meeting the required standards. Once I was genuinely trying to hook up, and then this guy said, “Women have never been oppressed.”

@WryWryWry3 @jess_ann_pin Essentially yes Women do like heterosexual sex but only under the perfect conditions for it. Men on the opposite end don’t need any criteria or conditions to partake on it at all.

@WryWryWry3 @jess_ann_pin It comes from the fact that women get in the internet and make viral videos like (i have not seen an attractive man in 5 years) for example. If you ask women how many attractive men they see of a random sample of 100 men in the street. They tell you what, at most 5-10?

The biggest problem I see in this study is the male belief that the women in these cases didn’t want to have sex. It would be much more healthy if men would accept that women want sex too and not approach women as people who aren’t also looking for sex (as long as various conditions are met). #bibr4-08862605261432630" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/08…

@Heal_within96 @Abe060605641099 Why does she deserve justice but with Telvin it was "rest in preference" though. x.com/Heal_within96/…

@Abe060605641099 She does deserve justice but from the people who hurt her

People in her comments literally warned her that this White man was going to unalive her. Black women don't think the grass is greener on the other side.

@williamennin @jess_ann_pin This is only valid if you are talking about men with little to no options and no abundance of it. Guys that can barely attract a woman would behave like you just mentioned in a FWB situation. But i was not referring to those guys in my comment above.

@TimothyPortal @jess_ann_pin This is false. Men are generally territorial. Guys tend to enjoy FWB when they are setting the terms, because it means the woman is really into them and won't sleep with other men. When a woman initiates FWB, it makes men feel insecure because they don't have control.

I had a much higher opinion of men when my serious dating experience was low and casual experience was high. Casual relationships that women seek out on their own and define the terms is are the lowest risk type of relationship. The risk comes from emotional vulnerability and from men lying and being disrespectful. Casual might be less rewarding, but it carries the lowest risk of any damage, especially when the woman seeks it intentionally. That does not mean it’s the best model for society or for children. But when women seek it out, it often ends up flipping the stereotypical gender dynamic and leads to the man asking for more so it might work fine for society for women to seek casual but be open for more if the man wants that. People think it’s not in male nature to want more. But I think it really is. The only risk is if you keep them in the casual box for too long they may perceive rejection and resent you for it. For some reason one of my ex fwbs starts yelling at me and calling me names whenever I give him the opportunity for more. He always berates me for other men he thinks I like even if we are just friends. Also, before I started seeking it out, I was going months without sex and only having sex with exes who wanted to marry me, which wasn’t really fair to them. I also got addicted to porn, and I would say casual sex is more healthy than watching porn all the time.

@Ascended_Saige @jess_ann_pin The issue is that divorced men are way unhappier than single men and looking at the data and proportion of divorces that means your chances are better at being single than ever getting married.

@TimothyPortal @jess_ann_pin Married men live longer happier and more fulfilled lives than their single counterparts while the reverse is true for women.

I wanted to get laid and didn’t want a boyfriend. Why is this hard for men to understand?

@Ascended_Saige @jess_ann_pin Believe what? That men that get sex without having to give commitment are happy? You are confusing the kind of men i’m talking about. The men that get sex thrown at them are not “crying” nor whining about any loneliness epidemic… The ones doing that are not getting sex…

@TimothyPortal @jess_ann_pin It's cute how you actually believe that nonsense. Meanwhile it's a man crying and whining about a supposed male loneliness epidemic. It's women who are making the decision not to enter relationships, get married, have kids, etc..

@WolfRMFC @ManCitty9320 You do know you can outplay someone while playing transition football and “parking the bus” We did, we had 42% of the ball in the Bernabeu on that 3-0 win which was playing to our strengths. Against both Mallorca & Girona we won the possesion and thus no much chances

@ManCitty9320 Who parked the bus? City got outplayed both legs

How did we beat this Man City superteam so easily but couldn’t beat Mallorca or Girona. What the fuck is wrong with this club.

@WolfRMFC @Msizih3 Madrid has a chance of beating Bayern next week because although Bayern is the most in form team in the world they will also be playing to Madrid direct strength just like City did.

@WolfRMFC @Msizih3 There was a reason Neuer ended up Player of the Week. Anyone else and we are talking about the team scoring 3-4 easily once again

@JollyArakunrin This one specifically was pretty spot on though

this is a terrible way to victimblame, cus we all know they were not "warning" her cus they thought or knew he was dangerous. you're disgusting, like those fokers in the screenshots.

@jess_ann_pin This is a modern phenomenon that simply was not viable for pretty much all of human history so women are not wired to seek for this behavior.

Women, have you ever wanted to get laid while also staying single?

@JadedCourtz @the_real_DVC @Kingsuprem40627 Just search for any random male celebrity and you will find them giving attention and hooking up with dozens of groupies. This only goes one way. You won’t ever be seeing Rihanna hooking up with a random fan but yet someone like Drake has sex with a multitude of groupies.

@TimothyPortal @the_real_DVC @Kingsuprem40627 I don’t think they will, tbh lol if a high in demand guy has the option to not deal w that why would he have to

Tbh I kinda disagree that as a woman it takes no skill to get sex lol.. to have it with any raggedy/random then yeah sure but to have it with who you want, it absolutely requires game

@JadedCourtz @the_real_DVC @Kingsuprem40627 You see but that’s the key difference here. Guys even high in demand ones will sleep with “loser women” all the time. That’s why your first post it’s seen as incorrect 😅

@TimothyPortal @the_real_DVC @Kingsuprem40627 Good looking still managing to attract women bc of personality, if you can’t it’s really a skill issue lmao

@JadedCourtz @the_real_DVC @Kingsuprem40627 You have women outright saying they have went 5-10 years without ever seeing someone they find attractive.

@JadedCourtz @the_real_DVC @Kingsuprem40627 Yes the issue is that women categorize 70-80% of the male population as unattractive from the get go. Ask yourself and answer realistically out of 100 random guys you see on the street how many you find yourself realistically attracted to? 5-10?