Fayth Winy

@UG_confesses This 50-50 thing...it requires 2 emotionally intelligent adults but it's funny how it comes up majorly over the finances and never the domestic help. Sometimes it's going to be 70-30, sometimes 10-90 just do life with someone emotionally intelligent enough to empathize with you.

This 50-50 thing.. Admin as you see, i am a woman. An older woman. So i grew up in a world where gender roles existed. Where the man was the express head and provider of the household. And the woman stayed home and took care of the housework and the kids. And for the women that want that, i support that. But lets put things in context for a second: You'd have to live in a bubble to not know that times have changed. And with it, the economy. Your father, most of our fathers, did not have to pay rent. Most inherited houses from their own families. If it wasn't that, it was the land. Or farmland. Your men are not inheriting anything anymore because there's nothing left to inherit. A lot of these guys are starting from zero. Even us as women have changed. The people that are talking about 50-50 then doing the chores, which chores, if you're employed? Washing the dishes? How many dishes? You're two people! Mopping a tiny house? The same space you're staying in with him? Most of you dont even have his kid, or want any. So what are these house chores you all think count up to your 50%? We had this discussion at office yesterday given that post, and this is a list of just the few things that the men in the office said their women ask them for. And honestly, its ridiculous: - Transport when you meet up. - Handle the bill when you meet up. - Airtime/Data - She's sick - Hair/nails - Upkeep/allowance/Kameeza - Going out/Nights out - Gifting - My mom/little bro is sick - Paying her rent (sometimes) Seriously.. Unless that man is one of the very few 20%ers that are doing very well in this country, girls, what are we doing? Your mom didn't ask for all those things from your dad. And that man had a starting point. Its why context is important. Its why unless you find a really smart set of people to discuss these topics, people will never understand. Like i said, we had this conversation yesterday at office. 6 guys there said they had stayed away from dating because the cost is too high. And i admired that. But my question is, why are us women too entitled to not feel the same? Why don't broke women also realize its foolhardy to date someone's son with nothing to give? Because you're a burden. And one day you're not going to be worth the effort. Yes, i agree with 50-50. Unless your man is wealthy, help him out. Be useful. Anybody that truly loves anybody would hate to see them struggle because of them. Its empathy but its also common sense.

@UG_confesses Yes run and buy him a new pair of shoes.

Guys these are his shoes. Should i run?

@Tumu_davis Think about it, your parents did the same otherwise your family wouldn't be.

@WinyFayth Nah, can we change the system 😔😭🤣

To neglect your family for one Single stranger - ain't Marriage weird?? 😭😭😭

@UG_confesses You're the gay one.

Do not trust gay guys around your women. Those mofos be straight as fuck just looking for a moment of vulnerability to pounce. My chick introduced me to this dude who apparently is her gay friend. I asked him to suck my dick to prove he's really gay. He refused

@UG_confesses But you're not the ones that made the calendar so you can never give what you don't have.

Just vibes, naps, hangouts and the freedom to ignore your relatives in peace. You’re welcome.😄

Heard, "Muslims gave us a three day holiday, Christians have given us a 4 day holiday. What have you atheists given us?" We gave you the other 52 secular weekends with no compulsory family reunions, no sin guilt-tripping, no ‘wear your best and behave’ rules.

@Mugaruraabas @GabrielBuule Should every criminal be pardoned because they have relatives??

@GabrielBuule Because the one pardoned is not your relative, you would be happy if he was

A Pedophile harrased a minor and he then run to the minister to seek for forgiveness and he was forgiven. No police arrest, no legal action, no nothing. #WeAreStupid

@UG_confesses 14 million Ugandans were rendered mentally ill. Muli bakujjukiza.

Tiktok is a retarded app and I think the people who like it are fucking slow or special

But what's happening in Uganda these days?

@UG_confesses God! Your angels can blow the trumpet.

So I sort of fucked my brother. Real brother. I was depressed and He's a horny guy. Came back from Qatar with an iPad that he loves to use and he doesn't know how to delete his browsing history. Lots of porn. Rough porn. So I was going through a tough

@UG_confesses Ekii?

So my wife has been trying to kill me. I don't ask for much from my wife as a husband. But i love to find a jug of juice waiting for me when i get back from work. And so she makes it. What i didn't know is she's been spraying citrus-scented insecticide into the juice then

@UG_confesses Is it noise or not😂

Teaching my class this morning. ME: What noises do we hear on a farm? GIRL : Moooo BOY : Quack quack GIRL : Cluck Cluck Noah in the back row hesitantly puts his hand up. ME: Yes, Noah? NOAH: Kamatako gwe enkumbi tojizannyisa! 🤦‍♀️

@BaramNkahirwa @GabrielBuule And just like that you became the nuisance you're talking about.

@GabrielBuule Ugandan opposition is becoming a nuisance, they will poison every social discourse in the country for their selfish pursuit of power. Dragging the church in partisan politics, Mzee needs to put an end to this nonsense, too much freedom & liberty is becoming a liability for 🇺🇬

If the Archibishop who has no children refused to take an opportunity to become a Martyr, how about a footsoldier, journalist, cyclist , an MP!!!! We are on our own.

@DaudiKabanda @mkainerugaba

@mkainerugaba As PLU MPs, we are still waiting for guidance from you.

As for Speaker and all the other positions you are asking me about. I shall consult Mzee and get back to you. The biggest problem in Uganda right now is CORRUPTION!! That's the enemy that needs to be defeated.

@brinohor @UG_confesses You need to calm down.

@UG_confesses Fuck you confessor. Mytujeko akajanja. You have eaten fish for 200099 years kati mutuletako olugezigezi lwabazungu

Do not mean to criticize. Just a point of information. Ugandans you are doing your fish wrong. The fishermen when they catch it let it asphyxiate to death, which shouldnt be that way. Whenever an animal panics before it dies there's a build up of Lactic acid in the

@UG_confesses Is this school in lugazi?

I feel like as Africans by forcing our kids into an overtly sexophobic culture we are inadvertently misguiding them. My daughter did well in her Form 4. She has 3 choices of schools she can potentially go to. So i went with her to visit them and then i found in this one school

@UG_confesses Now i have to save for a sino truck

I know the trend in Uganda now is to save up the first few million you get and then buy a car, but damn these bu small cars you are buying are really easy to die in. I run an emergency tow truck service but we are running out of places to keep your leveled small cars

@UG_confesses Eh!

I am also hear to warn about earphones. Client has been going to church for the past 6 months because she used to hear sounds and people humming at night whenever she slept. They took her to church. They told her it was the devil's choir singing for her. They prayed

@UG_confesses But kikuluma kiriza, gaana

I am too wealthy to perturb myself with being good in bed. Whether the sex was good or not, you're not going to complain. And if you cheat on me, you're easily replaceable. "Good in bed" is for broke men

@OkelloTitus14 @GabrielBuule @Nkesha256 You want to try tracing her chairs?

@GabrielBuule @Nkesha256 Absolutely everything was taken….. But it’s the phone that we are looking for … As long as life was spared, she can work hard again and get these back!

Last night, thieves broke into Maria's house in Bukoto and took absolutely everything. We're extremely grateful that she wasn't hurt in the incident.Her iPhone is currently at Mutaasa Kafeero (likely the plaza/market area). If anyone can assist in getting it back, please DM