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“That is called trauma,” transgender therapist Carson Eckard told my confused daughter when she expressed fear that I might come to the campus of Rider University. In October, it will be two years since Ilene took her life. Trauma. It is a word therapists use so often when gender-confused children speak about parents who question or oppose their new identity. Trauma. A word that now haunts me. And sometimes I wonder whether Carson Eckard truly understands what trauma means. I am talking about the trauma many parents experience in this country when their children are pulled away from them by a combination of therapists, schools, peers, transgender activists, pastors, and even state involvement. Does Carson Eckard know what it feels like when Mother’s Day comes and the daughter you love with all your heart doesn’t call to wish you a Happy Mother’s Day? Does Carson Eckard know what it feels like when DCF shows up at your door because a transgender pastor filed a complaint against you despite never having met you and having met your daughter only once? Does Carson Eckard know what it feels like when a university you trusted with your child’s education and safety labels you “unsafe” and bars you from its campus? Does Carson Eckard know what it feels like when your child’s birthday arrives and you are unable to spend it with her? Does Carson Eckard know what it feels like when police knock on your door and tell you that your child is dead—and that her body lay alone in a dorm room for four days while the university was celebrating National Coming Out Day? Does Carson Eckard know what it feels like to stand beside your daughter’s casket and see her lying there, motionless, knowing that every hope, every dream, every plan you had for her future has come to an end? Does Carson Eckard know what it feels like to watch that casket slowly lowered into the ground, knowing that this is the last time you will ever be physically close to your child? That is trauma. The sleepless nights. The unanswered messages. The fear. The helplessness. The grief. The years of wondering whether there was something more you could have done. Yet I suspect Carson Eckard would not describe what I feel as trauma, despite being a licensed therapist. To Carson Eckard, trauma was my daughter’s belief that something was wrong with her body and my refusal to affirm that belief. But what would Carson Eckard call what I have lived through? What would Carson Eckard call what countless other parents are living through right now? If losing your child while she is still alive is not trauma, and losing her forever is not trauma, then what is?

I hate Islam

idc if it is ragebait or whatever. seeing them say that shit about fgm makes me want to cry. how can they hear about girls going the most horrific abuse and make it about them. fgm is already not taken seriously enough.. it isn’t even well known

I can’t even explain into words how much I want this human exiled from this planet

i wish i was dumb enough to be a choice feminist and genuinely believe that doing my hair, makeup, etc. was just "because i want to", but unfortunately every time i do those things i am painfully aware of the influence the patriarchal beauty standard has on me

@Aameridoll That ain’t a female

“Unhealthy drink” being here in an attempt to reflect poorly on the female worker as if the person didn’t choose to go there and order the drink themselves is a perfect display of how brain-rotted misogyny makes you. Holy crap.

@Dumbtwitxoxo 90% of women in prostitution don’t want to be there you idiot. women want to escape prostitution not join it.

@cbdmoonrock @An_Aria_Blooms Shut the fuck up

@An_Aria_Blooms we gotta get these numbers up @ fellow cis bisexual womens

hmm.

BDSM is abuse. (in a chart):

@_lanae333 @prn63ss Why would you say something like this in any context about your daughter especially when people are telling you she’s being preyed upon? I bet you laugh when lovely peaches use to go on and on about how she’s going to make her little baby daughter a prostitute bc it’s “a joke”

@prn63ss it was obviously sarcasm she posted the messages w her declining the overly grown outfit, yall be being dense on purpose

i want this bitch in jail cuz there are comments of men actively telling her they’re touching themselves to her daughter and saying they’re gonna find her n this ditzy bitch still has this pics up…n then look at what she’s saying like i cannot wrap my head around this response

@cocosharkfem It’s going to be great!

I have a big woman job interview today

@scissorgroyper I didn’t know an even gayer looking version of MGK existed

sigh

Comparing "trans" to breast cancer patients is a disgusting take.

“I’m a cis woman”

@thevixennstar wild that your response to ‘the sex trade exploits women’ is to degrade a woman based on her desirability to men. embarrassing, male-coded behavior

going through them in order: - killed by boyfriend - may not even exist - killed in a road rage incident - killed by boyfriend - killed by another trans person - killed by friend/acquaintance - killed in a robbery - exact motive unknown but he was a drug dealer killed in an area known for drugs so best guess gets a cookie - killed by a schizophrenic black incel who appears to have mistaken him for a real woman - killed by boyfriend - wasn’t even murdered - killed by a black homeless guy

“yes i call myself a cis woman”