@msmercurial wait i just realized ur the op. u can feel a sense of mistrust without creating stigmas around testing lol. i dont speak on nb status or sex life bc God a turn them tables so fast. anyways ur comment was distasteful bc u didn’t push education or prevention and ik they big ab that
@pinkfaceless as normal and routine it is to be on top of your sexual health. i think it’s still valid and normal to feel a sense of mistrust. certain cases can literally happen to anyone regardless of how “careful” you think you are
@thtb1tchmya@msmercurial@fitnessbandit1 and i am so so so so sorry u experienced this. i hope one day it becomes easier bc *it will* u just have to understand that a lot of ppl are willfully ignorant when it comes to abnormalities on full panel std tests as if WERE not all at risk of stds and pregnancy.
@pinkfaceless@msmercurial@fitnessbandit1 So I should just shut up about it and deal with it? When he’s actively collaborating with others and having sex with people?
@t0rma1@msmercurial yall don’t understand how stigma works and it shows. that’s why syphillis is on the rise and gonorrhea is mutating bc ppl aren’t getting tested bc yall r shaming ppl for knowing their status abnormalities or not.
@pinkfaceless@msmercurial Girl people are out here fucking raw wearing no condoms and not getting tested. There’s now even a strain of gonorrhea that is resistant to antibiotics. People are out here being messy. Why do you think syphilis is on the rise?
@thtb1tchmya@msmercurial@fitnessbandit1 i will be honest mama hsv is not the end of the world but comments like this create stigmas around testing and knowing ur status.
@pinkfaceless@msmercurial Baby this isn't a stigma, it's real fucking life. I haven't had sex in years b/c of my experience working in hiv/sti prevention as a Black woman.
Men will fucking kill you and do not give one single fuck. You have no idea how heinous, calculated & trifling men are.
@nicolexcardi@msmercurial u can have responsible sex and still have a slip up lol. you can go to the doctors with your partner and some more shit and STILL have a slip up. like the stigma is unnecessary that’s why some of these men *dont* go to the doctors.
i think women r too casual abt the concept of giving birth like fym “i want 3kids!!!” you want to push 3 separate kids out of your vagina????????????????