black soul n pink faces

@msmercurial wait i just realized ur the op. u can feel a sense of mistrust without creating stigmas around testing lol. i dont speak on nb status or sex life bc God a turn them tables so fast. anyways ur comment was distasteful bc u didn’t push education or prevention and ik they big ab that

@pinkfaceless as normal and routine it is to be on top of your sexual health. i think it’s still valid and normal to feel a sense of mistrust. certain cases can literally happen to anyone regardless of how “careful” you think you are

working in a std clinic make me wanna sew my coochie up omg

@thtb1tchmya @msmercurial @fitnessbandit1 and i am so so so so sorry u experienced this. i hope one day it becomes easier bc *it will* u just have to understand that a lot of ppl are willfully ignorant when it comes to abnormalities on full panel std tests as if WERE not all at risk of stds and pregnancy.

@pinkfaceless @msmercurial @fitnessbandit1 So I should just shut up about it and deal with it? When he’s actively collaborating with others and having sex with people?

@thtb1tchmya @msmercurial @fitnessbandit1 u can take a break from advocating for urself. u have to focus on u mama. u need antivirals and a trauma based therapist. u talking ab it wont stop him from transmitting it or collaborating with others. and pls pls pls make sure ur positive isnt false thats a real thing for hsv.

@nicolexcardi @msmercurial yuon have no sense and ur willfully ignorant

@pinkfaceless @msmercurial "Slip up" ≠ responsible sex

@t0rma1 @msmercurial yall don’t understand how stigma works and it shows. that’s why syphillis is on the rise and gonorrhea is mutating bc ppl aren’t getting tested bc yall r shaming ppl for knowing their status abnormalities or not.

@pinkfaceless @msmercurial Girl people are out here fucking raw wearing no condoms and not getting tested. There’s now even a strain of gonorrhea that is resistant to antibiotics. People are out here being messy. Why do you think syphilis is on the rise?

@thtb1tchmya @msmercurial @fitnessbandit1 i will be honest mama hsv is not the end of the world but comments like this create stigmas around testing and knowing ur status.

@msmercurial @pinkfaceless @fitnessbandit1 didn’t disclose with me

@RunzLikeJazmine @msmercurial it IS a stigma though. it’s shaming people for having sex. you ca have sex and still be responsible.

@pinkfaceless @msmercurial Baby this isn't a stigma, it's real fucking life. I haven't had sex in years b/c of my experience working in hiv/sti prevention as a Black woman. Men will fucking kill you and do not give one single fuck. You have no idea how heinous, calculated & trifling men are.

@nicolexcardi @msmercurial u can have responsible sex and still have a slip up lol. you can go to the doctors with your partner and some more shit and STILL have a slip up. like the stigma is unnecessary that’s why some of these men *dont* go to the doctors.

@pinkfaceless @msmercurial "We all fckn" Not irresponsibly.

@msmercurial thank you, you can practice safe sex and still be impacted. i just don’t like the stigma lol.

yk hell yeah

my aunty just told me to date em all. she literally said we need an engagement ring after graduation

omm i’ll let my stomach touch my back and go eat when im on the verge of passing out

if u spend the night u gotta say sumn ab being hungry.

for my safety and urs my feelings r not involved lol

@_sorrengailll i shit 3 times a day mama

How are y’all getting your stomachs so flat? 😫

let me regulate my nervous system and i'll get back to you

Being difficult as a pretty woman is a protection spell.

@Kaylavosss HA is this a sign bitch

Cutting off family/friends who gossip about you and judge you during the hardest season of your life is veryyy valid.