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@vndrlinde
dutch van der linde’s girlfriend ♡ | nolan’s pet ♡ |phenomaman’s romantic interest ♡ | cuddling with my little owl


I have never in my life self inserted into a story. I don’t even like to read y/n fanfics. Why is this phenomenon such a thing now.




Your art account aint surviving shit if there's no theme around it or or if you dont remain in one fandom long for it to grow and gather the same ppl of interest.




This whole theory that “if everyone has a problem with you, then you’re the problem” or that if you have a problem with everyone, you must be the issue is deeply flawed and honestly unfair. There are people who are widely liked not because they’re good people, but because they’re agreeable, pretentious, and willing to conform. And there are people who are constantly labeled “difficult” simply because they don’t know how to play along or pretend. The thing is The more easygoing, accommodating, and “let’s keep the peace” you are, the more you’re perceived as likable even if it means constantly shrinking yourself. Meanwhile, the moment you stand firm, call things out, and choose not to be pretentious, you’re suddenly labeled difficult. Sometimes, it’s not that someone has a problem with everyone; it’s that they’re just not willing to tolerate what everyone else is comfortable tolerating.












