Lady Dragon 🐲

april fools Never made sense to me why would you start off a beautiful month with a day of trickery . Just makes no sense. Why not call it april loves. April joys. April smart person

Something you should know if you're looking to hire a wedding photographer is that a lot of photographers have "styled shoots" in their portfolio. These are basically organized events that a photographer has paid to attend, in which professional models are hired to play the part of groom and bride, with a beautiful venue and beautiful decor. They're not real weddings. Real weddings are hard. You can't control the light or the people and once a moment has passed, it's gone - there are no do-overs. Styled shoots are a common cheat. It’s kind of unethical imo. Once you know what to look out for, it’s pretty obvious. A big tell is a handsome groom. But I think most people not in the industry probably have no idea!

girls will survive horrors beyond comprehension and still give love and light and keep it pushing but a man who had one fuckass breakup at 15 will make it his entire personality and be an asshole forever

大麻盆栽が忙しくて、竹フィルター作ってなかったから久しぶりに100個くらい作った。この作業地味だし、意外に手が痛いんですよ。しかも、竹の欲しいサイズがない...10mmの竹フィルター作りたいから来月また竹を取に山に行こう

This whole theory that “if everyone has a problem with you, then you’re the problem” or that if you have a problem with everyone, you must be the issue is deeply flawed and honestly unfair. There are people who are widely liked not because they’re good people, but because they’re agreeable, pretentious, and willing to conform. And there are people who are constantly labeled “difficult” simply because they don’t know how to play along or pretend. The thing is The more easygoing, accommodating, and “let’s keep the peace” you are, the more you’re perceived as likable even if it means constantly shrinking yourself. Meanwhile, the moment you stand firm, call things out, and choose not to be pretentious, you’re suddenly labeled difficult. Sometimes, it’s not that someone has a problem with everyone; it’s that they’re just not willing to tolerate what everyone else is comfortable tolerating.