Getting married to the wrong person and getting married into the wrong family, which one is worse?

@eezharhh If you are a woman: getting married to the wrong person is worse. If you are a man: getting married to the wrong family is worse. Reason: It’s harder to control a man so his bad family won’t have much effect. If you marry a wife from wrong family then you…

@eezharhh are just one family problem away from that your wife regretting marrying you because her family will confuse her. Her mom will also have great bad influence on her in the future.