ultraviolet

when will all humans be gone?

@wil_da_beast630 its a joke a preference for clearly defined ranks lends itself to clearly illustrated submission though

Women keep saying this as cope. Men are more likely to understand the need for open and direct rank-order ("Second spear - THROW spear - NOW!")...as vs women's backstabbing, and btw equally hierarchical, apparent anarchy. But, the top 70% or so of men are preferentially dominant, while up to 90% of women are preferential subs. Anyone ever to fuck, dance, or drive much less face violence as a couple knows this.

@justalexoki i'm friends with one of my mom's friends and have come to know (without my consent) that my parents "experimented a little" with bdsm

you think your dad spit on it?

@kramerposts yes yes!

I feel like every time I go to the farmers market I see a dozen different couples that defy all the false dating narratives online… the most beautiful woman you’ve ever seen holding hands with a guy a foot shorter than her, a freakish male model gym specimen who targets muscles you don’t even know exist paired up with the quirky and slightly overweight shy girl… real lovers, at scale, are operating on levels of mutual curiosity and connection that no narrative could ever hope to encompass, for all real lovers know that romance is about expanding your reality together, not shrinking it to fit inside of a shallow and reductive cultural narrative. The only thing that matters, the only thing that has ever mattered, is how they make each other feel.

Death to ocd! Death to anxiety! Who cares what I’ve touched, who cares what I’ve breathed I will make myself as dirty as can be I will be free I Will be free I will be free i will be free i will be free i will be free i will be free

@wil_da_beast630 what if you don’t go to a doctor, but you just smoke a lot of cigarettes. does it depend on intent

This is probably not a winning electoral position, all else aside. Ladies: death penalty for killers of this?

i talk a lot about food and sleep enneagram sp first and/or taurus pick your poison

i’ve been back down to under 6 hours of sleep, hoping it’s just the progesterone

i’m starting this new job next week and now my husband is starting a new job next month that will require 12-hr graveyard shifts we went for a long walk in the heat today. he reminded me to put on a sun hat life is changing, as it does nn🩷🌒

@sidewayskoyote lol 🫂 i appreciate you

@violetvariant no comment

i was looking forward to steak, but idk if it was worth all the calculations and measurements for my diet AND its a little overcooked. i’m on that barbecue sauce with a measuring spoon type of shit

wasps were building a nest in the mailbox and @responsiblparty just casually walked outside and dealt with it in a matter of seconds. sexy

i was obviously aware of this sort of thing when i was in high school, but it didn't strike me that i needed to work on being extremely thin. it was just an omnipresent background buzz of "women are never good enough" and i didn't try to hear it all. like the sound of the furnace

large heap of produce

11:11 🧝‍♀️

@rob_mcrobberson 😂

@violetvariant its a clam😭

i lived 40 years in minnesota and never even saw a pickle corndog (i'm sure it exists at the state fair) i recently moved to new mexico and now i want to know about this sundae. what's so weird about a sundae?

@rob_mcrobberson is it duck?

@violetvariant unfortunately i know geoduck far too well 😔

@CoughsOnWombats liver hamburger style sounds reasonable i’d try it

@violetvariant I live in North Carolina and I've never heard the word "livermush" before today. I can't rule out encountering actual livermush, I guess, since I don't know what it would look like. Mush, presumably?

@michelleakin i also glaze over a lot of environmental detail fwiw

when i read books that go into a lot of detail about physical environments my eyes glaze over. i tend to have a lot of trouble picturing what's being described. in my own writing, i tend to leave out vivd descriptors, since i am writing what i like to read. yet i know it's important for world building. hmpf.