ultraviolet
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ultraviolet
@violetvariant
God loves you and your enemies. Z87.820. Wife of @responsiblparty







Once you hit about a 20-point IQ gap, communication starts to completely break down. It's not that the lower IQ person is "stupid" (although that can often be the case) or the higher one is arrogant, it's that you're literally operating on different systems. A 20 point difference (roughly 1.3 standard deviations) means: Vocabulary and abstraction levels diverge sharply. What feels like crystal clear logic to one side sounds like vague, pretentious word salad to the other. Jokes land flat. Metaphors get taken literally. Complex cause and effect chains get simplified into "this good, that bad." Different time horizons and pattern recognition. One person thinks in months or years and sees systems, the other is locked into days or immediate rewards. Trying to explain second order effects feels like speaking another language. Also, processing speed and working memory gaps. The higher IQ person is already three steps ahead, getting impatient. The lower IQ person feels talked down to or overwhelmed. Both walk away frustrated. Both have wasted each others time.



Older women hate younger women. A tale as old as time.

i just accidentally made 20 cal fudge and it’s GOOD 😭








The nanny is more age appropriate for the children's age than the actual mom could be another reason. The putting off kids until 30s is making the mom seem like their grandmom.


An extremely rare dynamic you may only come across a few times in your life is when a brother and sister are part of the same social/friends group. These siblings will be extremely fun but will also ruin many lives.













