Cold Approach

How to Find a Good Wingman Over the past 11 years, I’ve tested different ways to meet like-minded guys who are serious about improving their dating lives—because, let’s be real, most aren’t. Here’s how to find a great wingman, ranked from best to worst:🧵

@TheLaurenChen Heck even I will be mad if I am only getting hit on by whales and uggs

Women only want to be hit on more by *attractive men* If a woman finds you unattractive, you hitting on her will only be viewed as harassment, being creepy, or something even worse I'm not saying that's how it should be, I'm saying that's objectively how it is

@DaygameCharisma If true, I need to relocate to Mexico and start learning Spanish

Huh Turns out that in Mexico child support ranges from 10 to 25% of your salary (assuming 1 kid) 25% in an extremely rare case where the kid needs lots of doctors, psychologists, has special needs, etc Most common is 15% That doesn't seem too bad, I always thought it was around 50-75%

@HowYADoin17315 @aruvinchan Yes. Both dating apps and social media.

@Cold_Approach_ @aruvinchan Do you use AI enhancements and FaceApp on your dating profile?

Honestly if apps don't work for a guy, I don't see how he can do well in real life. Apps are easier than real life. I've pulled from apps, and I've pulled from real life. Guess which is harder. Real life gives you the ILLUSION of success, because you immediately get to invade the vicinity of an attractive girl and fool yourself that her politeness/pleasantries are "indicators of interest." And that her last-ditch attempt to get rid of you by conceding her Instagram/phone number is incontrovertible proof of her attraction towards you. But the scoreboard doesn't lie. The hit rate of dating apps will always be higher than that of cold approach. With apps, you go with whatever washed up ashore. With cold approach, you almost always shoot for the stars (read: go for girls way out of your league/above your looksmatch). Believe it or not, that also limits your results by a lot.

Leave her better than you found her - Ross Jeffries Do you follow it? Or just shit on them once they leave?

@WifiMoneyPlant I ran across Mystery, well into his 50s rizzing up girls in their 20s

Ugly truth most males won’t admit: There is a “wall” for males as well. No, you don’t “peak at 35” or 40 or whatever the hell masculinity dudes are telling you. 20-25 yo girls would want to be with someone 3-5 years older not a 40 yo grandpa

@SoloDaygame I wouldn’t move cities just for DG. There has to be multiple triggers to relocate. Growth, family, work, daygame/nightgame, etc.

@Cold_Approach_ Would you move cities/neighborhoods just for DG?

Ok… Re-seeing more & more girls that I opened in my area, much more often than before. It’s starting to feel odd. Every time I go out I see 1-2 girls Omw to the barber. Immediately see girl I opened 2 weeks ago, then see another I opened over a year ago in my area as well.

@cielo_pua Mother’s love is unconditional.

Had an asinine debate today… am I foolish or ‘closed off’ for claiming that no woman will ever love you like your own mother? (Assuming your mother was around abd did in fact love you lots)

Monk mode is stupid. You ain’t taking yourself far by isolating yourself from the community.

The successful players have no sexual shame

@FWPlayboy The way it should be.

Girls just want to have FUN!

@Post_Thirty A sexually liberated woman will show you better love. At least that’s been my experience.

Easily, the situation on the right. Pewdiepie's manly-looking wife got with him after he was famous and is only with him for his fame and fortune. He had to move to Japan so she wouldn't cheat. Trevor's wife got with him despite him not being rich or famous.

I have sympathy for men who are going through or went through divorce. Talk to them, they may need support.

@Post_Thirty lol what? Just own who you are. Lying about the ethnic background comes off as insecurity.

If you are a dark-skinned Arab guy or a Pakistani, you have the lowest SMV out of any race of men in the Western world, but no worries. There are 3 things you can do about this: 1. Tell women you are Persian 2. Tell women you are Latino 3. Tell women you are Indian Dating problems go away, and you are having way more success. Thank me later!

@Rumba888 One has to be really into the activity (eg yoga) in order to expand the SC. Additionally, most of the attractive girls are almost always taken. Club promotion may get an exception.

@Cold_Approach_ Disagree 100%. That may be the case if you’re just meeting the same people, in the same group over & over. However if you actively look to build your existing SC & create others that attract women (yoga, cocktail classes, sports club socials etc..) you’ll meet attractive girls.

If you’re only relying on social circle, you’ll be waiting years for a quality girl to come around.

Maybe internet shutdown is all we need. The illusion of options will evaporate.

@DaygameForever Up to what age would you consider a woman to be milf?

Dating older women? Depends if you want to have kids. Feel free to explore when you’re 28 or below but avoid after 30. Common issues with older women: - Hunting for provider rather than lover - Divorced - Kids - LinkedIn personality - Difficult to spark emotions.