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Giving insight into modern bachelorhood. Interested in joining? Read the post below https://t.co/5qpXo3Y2VT

Miami, FL Katılım Ağustos 2023
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Eddie
Eddie@DancingEddie_·
does anyone wanna go out in miami I don’t know if I have any friends here Today tomorrow night Sat night
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Post 30@Post_Thirty·
The one thing that immediately changes about you once you start experiencing success with beautiful women is how you become far less judgmental. You spot this in other men, too, and quickly know that any kind of judgmental dudes (ie, Manosphere) are frauds putting on an act. You see the situation for what it is. You know women are judged for sleeping around and are the odd guy who won't call her a slut because she had a one night stand with you. Why would you punish beautiful women who have gone for you like this? Makes no sense to call them "sluts". In fact, you are happy they are loose because it means you get some action. She feels that in you and feel secure around you. She feels less judged and more at peace around you compared to other men. You protect her from the judgmental normie guys who aren't getting any and the two of you give them the fake smile and put on that act in front of them. They are the enemy you protect her from. It truly is like being a part of a secret society that you don't want others to know about.
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Post 30@Post_Thirty·
Careful here. In a lot of cases it is unavoidable but do not let yourself be seen as the guy who "gets a lot of women". Once you pull it off, life becomes tricky. Other straight men will see you constantly roll up with hot girls and at times, aggressively, try to infiltrate your life. You know these dudes are bad news and bring no value to the table but some may even harass you because they want what you have. I have noticed this more and more and always have an excuse ready such as "oh yeah that's my sister's friend" or something. The most ideal place to be is to get a lot of hot girls but not let society see you get them.
BowTiedSocialCircle@Bowtiedsocial

Stop trying to meet women at clubs when you could meet them: At your building's gym At the coffee shop you go to every week At hotel bars on Wednesday nights At the same restaurant on the same day The bartender at my local spot introduced me to more girls than any app ever did Just by showing up consistently and tipping well While everyone's swiping, real connections happen when you're just living your life

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Post 30@Post_Thirty·
Theory on how Bachelorhood in adult men went from celebrated to being a sin in the past decade: Women realized that men hit their prime longer, and the wives of the men in power coerced them to push the agenda of "Bachelorhood Bad". It makes perfect sense if you think about it. Women reach their peak in their 20s and notice how them having their fun is not gaslighted or judged. Men reach their peaks more in their 30s unless they are trust fund babies. Notice how now the whole "you should be married with kids" nonsense gets pushed. It's because women realized this and told their husbands in power "hey, do something!". What do you say? @aruvinchan @MurrayHillGuy1
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Post 30@Post_Thirty·
When you suck with beautiful women as a man, you agree with the Red Pill, Manosphere, and PUA community. When you start to somewhat consistently get them into your life and get with them, you realize why they think how they do and start thinking a lot more like them.
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Anytime a guy leans on Religion or any moral high ground, block him entirely from your life and realize that he is an envious sociopath. This also goes for guys who are self-righteously Liberal. They can't fairly defend their ideas and are envious of people living better lives than them, so they lean on morality.
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A phenomenon that takes place is when dating and Pickup coaches pull a 180 and "Find God". They turn to religion and disavow the hookup lifestyle. The real reason is that the vast majority of these guys were frauds and terrible with women. They did thousands of "approaches" and occasionally got a Mid to sleep with them. I've hung out with a number of them and their "Game" is nothing to boast about. This is actually the case for the vast majority of guys who try to participate in the hookup lifestyle. At best, they might get a Mid or two, get outright rejected by hot girls, and save their egos by taking the religiously moral high ground. It's because at the end, they can't live with their failure or accept it.
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XAVI
XAVI@XaviScript·
@Post_Thirty I hate the self-righteous type the most
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Post 30@Post_Thirty·
People you must cut out of your life in your 30s as a man: - Anyone asking you when you will get married and have kids - Any man or woman who judges you for sleeping around - Religious men - Anyone heavily invested in their corporate career and refuses to start their own business - Judgmental people - Self-righteous people - Poor people (but do give to charity!)
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XAVI
XAVI@XaviScript·
@Post_Thirty All the conservatives started pushing it just to spite the leftist
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Post 30@Post_Thirty·
In just a decade, I have seen attitudes towards Bachelorhood shift. It used to be in the 2010s, Bachelorhood after 30 was seen as a W. You have your freedom and your life to live without a wife nagging you. Now, it's seen as a sin. It happened so subtly that it is worth exploring. I think it was really in Trump's second term where the backlash kicked in. Quite interesting to see how it has unfolded.
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Kimbo
Kimbo@butteredtruffle·
@Post_Thirty Gotta say, a lotta stuff you say is kinda vague, but this one is spot on.
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Post 30@Post_Thirty·
If you are successful and good at it, the Playboy lifestyle is anything but empty and meaningless. Any guy saying that usually: - Never lived it - Did it wrong (got ugly women and low quality) You quickly realize that to actually succeed with attractive women somewhat consistently, you have to bring a lot of value to the table. Your understanding of people, social situations, society, and the depth of things needs to be far superior to that of an average guy. On top of that, you need to be exceptional yourself. That is what it takes to consistently have attractive women coming to you; anyone claiming otherwise is a liar and a fraud. If you do it right, it is anything but empty and meaningless. It will be one of the biggest transformations you will ever go through as a man, and then you will realize why 98% of men out there are fully incapable of this. Then as you have success, every woman that comes into your life is a lesson and an important chapter in your long book.
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Post 30@Post_Thirty·
"Yeah bruh the hookup and getting chicks lifestyle got old for me bruh" Meanwhile, "bruh" defines "hookup and getting chicks" as making out with a couple of Mids at a bar in any given year.
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The thing about the "get married and have kids" crowd is that almost all of them are chronically unhappy weirdos playing a character. 1. Aspies working in finance/tech/VC who suck with women 2. Unhappily married dudes who want to cheat on their wives at every turn 3. "Trad Wives" who will try to hook up with Clavicular It's like they have a tough time understanding how normal and socially well-adjusted people see right through their act.
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The reality is, they are picking themselves first and defying the expectations of society. I say, good for them. The marriage and kids lifestyle is not for everyone and to force everyone into it is pure insanity. They've seen a society of 50% divorce rates, broken homes, ruined childhoods, "Good Christians" cheating on spouses and asked why? 1. So some religious Twat can give you your "good person" card? 2. So you can throw away your prime years enjoying life? 3. So you can "sacrifice" and please the same society who could care less if you died at this very second? Hard to hear but get used to it.
Jon Brooks@jonbrooks

My friends in their 30s are deciding not to have kids They’re saying two things: They don’t have the money It’s inconvenient to their lifestyle This is not good. What do we do?

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Ian Miles Cheong
Ian Miles Cheong@ianmiles·
Explosive video showing Taylor Frankie Paul, who is set to be ABC's newest "Bachelorette" after starring on "The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives," attacking Dakota Mortensen Men, if you are dating a woman like this, RUN.
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Lion🖤
Lion🖤@MrLionHartt·
@Post_Thirty Epic & true. A society this fucked up continues to offer the same advice in large part that brought it to fruition.
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Post 30@Post_Thirty·
"Society will push you down the wrong path but never accept any accountability for it" Sometimes in life, you run into people who change your trajectory of life. I was 23 at the time, and there was a regular at the coffee shop I went to named Brad. Brad played life by the traditional book because he was pushed into it. - Bachelors degree + Graduate - STEM degree - Married by 26 - House and kids by 30 Now at 40, he was divorced. He said he never loved the woman he married, but was forced into it because he was pushing 25 and everyone was telling him he was "too old" for bachelorhood. Remind you of anything? *coughs* Twitter right now *coughs* In his 30s, he got divorced and almost lost it all. He aged due to the stress. But most of all? The family, friends, and figures in his life who pushed him down that path said, "tough luck". It was still his fault. Not even a "hi, sorry for giving you bad advice". Why do I tell you this? Look around on Twitter and how so many men are gaslighting bachelorhood and trying to coerce you into marriage. Calling your life "empty and meaningless" for not having a wife and kids. The thing is, if you do get married and it ends in a divorce, they are going to be awfully quiet and never accept responsibility for coercing you. The last thing they will do is take any accountability for their bad advice. Don't be Brad.
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