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ComputerEnjoyer
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If a low income woman’s choices are between marrying their loser drug dealer bf or joining a polycule, I’m 100% gonna encourage them to join the polycule
If this makes me a hypocrite because I’m married to a highly devoted and family-focused litigator, I’m fine with that
Rob Henderson@robkhenderson
There has always been some amount of elite hypocrisy. Still, I prefer what I call the “John F. Kennedy model of hypocrisy” to what we have now. JFK was a flawed man, but the image he presented to the American public was that he was a good husband, a good father. In his private life, though, he was a philanderer and often an absentee father and had other shortcomings. But he thought it was important to set an example for the people. And now we have the opposite. Today, our elites get married, they have kids, and for the most part, they live a very stable, conventional life. But if you ask them their opinions and attitudes around sex, family, around marriage, around law abidingness, hard work, punctuality, integrity, honesty, and so on, they take a very relaxed attitude. "Non-practicing libertines," as the Yale Law School professor Daniel Markovits calls them. Elites used to pay lip service to conventional values but privately strayed. Now, they publicly support straying, but privately behave in a more conventional way.
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@arr_ohh_bee @MiriVinni @robkhenderson Elites aren't pretending to be polyamorous pansexuals though.
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@ComputerEnjoye1 @MiriVinni @robkhenderson It's fine to practice your alternative relationships, like it's fine to practice your alternative religions. Rob is saying only that it's odd that elites, liberal or otherwise, pretend not to have personal values when they obviously do.
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RememberStirlingMoss@MossRemember
@robkhenderson Hypocrisy is no longer the tribute that vice pays to virtue but the tribute that virtue pays to vice!
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@arr_ohh_bee @MiriVinni @robkhenderson And for women who do want something more traditional: they realize their husband will need to be a solid provider with strong career prospects; someone who is not only capable of supporting a household w/children, but desires to do so in a way that fosters family stability.
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@arr_ohh_bee @MiriVinni @robkhenderson I'll offer a counter-point, which is: I think conservatives do not offer a positive vision of marriage to women or men. They offer them a caricature: the tradwife. For the men, merely ask for some participation in masculine rituals. Is it shocking adoption is 1-sided?
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@arr_ohh_bee @MiriVinni I'll also say I feel like a lot of this is them trying to cope with the the messy personal lives of various influential conservative figures (eg: Trump, Elijah Schaffer) while somehow making this the liberal elite's fault.
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@arr_ohh_bee @MiriVinni It's not that extreme but it's likely low-income women have a different standards for what constitutes a "minimum viable husband" than most conservative thought leaders.
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@MariGO2thepolls The benchmark for what these people consider a "high status elite" eludes me, because I've seen this term get applied to basically any college education group that doesn't revel in vice signaling regardless of income or social status.
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This is probably for the best tbh. The whole “elite talk the sixties walk the fifties” canard is a result of the marriage market being a lot better up there. A working class or America b ladies are probably better off in a gay polycule or w/e than marrying a deadbeat. As long as lower class men remain unmarriageable. Their female counterparts should find alternatives
Wokal Distance@wokal_distance
Every trend starts among high status elites, and flows down the status hierarchy until it ends up in walmart bargain bins. Which means "Queer" is about to run through middle America the way Crack cocaine ran through Black neighborhoods in the 1970's.
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@nikicaga we need her help in Iran. When does she ship out?
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People who become right wing after getting one online hate mob are so funny to me. Some of us go through that like, once a week
Brandon Straka #WalkAway@BrandonStraka
Another voter just walked away — and said it out loud. “I’m officially coming out as a Republican. The Left pushed me to the Right.” “I’m voting Republican across the board. I’m done.” #WalkAway
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@_zacksmash @poe_collector Part of using AI is knowing when to reject some or all output and adjust/rewrite it yourself.
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@poe_collector I get his point, but he's an educator. He should be educating them how to use AI. The internet is the exact same. It's full of knowledge and answers, or it's full of a lot of other brain rotting things. We need to teach students how to use AI effectively, not blindly.
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ComputerEnjoyer रीट्वीट किया
Found an AI perspective I’d never heard before from a teacher of teens. It’s a bit meandering but your three minutes will be well used.
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@ZaidJilani If really liking a country grants you special protection IMO the anime weebs should get it first.
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“Discriminate against pro-Israel Americans.”
New category in the Civil Rights Act?
AIPAC 🇺🇸🇮🇱@AIPAC
Where Jayapal & Casar make the case to demonize and discriminate against pro-Israel Americans. Millions of AIPAC members are Democrats who will not be silenced. Is there any other group of Democrats being singled out and attacked for their beliefs, or just the pro-Israel ones?
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Chuck Norris has died at the age of 86, TMZ reports.
He was recently reported to have been transported to hospital for a medical emergency.
(tmz.com/2026/03/20/chu…)
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@lionel_trolling Nobody wants to admit that governing is hard - because to a layperson it seems like it should be easy. This is ultimately the reason you can't let idiots do it and we are all collectively learning that lesson now.
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@mattparlmer Unfortunately diligence requires some measure of introspection.
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Almost $40m in VC funding, extremely obvious fraud never caught in diligence, good job everybody
erin griffith@eringriffith
A detailed and brutal look at the tactics of buzzy AI compliance startup Delve "Delve built a machine designed to make clients complicit without their knowledge, to manufacture plausible deniability while producing exactly the opposite." substack.com/home/post/p-19…
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ComputerEnjoyer रीट्वीट किया
NO! I think as a nation we've all earned the right to see JD come in sixth in Iowa after Theo Von, Eric Trump, Don Jr., Herman Cain (RIP), and one of the girls from Selling Sunset.
Politics & Poll Tracker 📡@PollTracker2024
WaPo: JD Vance has maintained in recent private conversations that he hasn’t yet decided whether he will seek the presidential nomination for 2028. One of those people cited Vance’s fourth child, due this summer, and said the vice president has put a priority on his family life and is unlikely to make a final decision until he and Usha Vance see how another baby affects their lives.
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@hunter_hhhh once i was on a bus and the person in front of me was scrolling bluesky. i saw one of my posts pop up on his feed and he just scrolled past it, didn’t even hit ‘like’
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@TheWapplehouse Nothing makes me feel older as a millennial than seeing my cohort post cringey uphill both ways bullshit.
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Shoot me in the face if I ever start posting like this
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@GayBearRes Old enough to remember when we militarily defeated the Iraqi army and yet still spent nearly a decade there
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The objectives we ought to care about:
1) Regime change;
2) Elimination of the nuclear threat;
3) Safe passage through Hormuz.
If we believe the words of our own admin, 2) remains incomplete.
So we’ve had enormous tactical success without a clear path to any of these outcomes.
Legal Phil@Legal_Fil
I'm fascinated by the emerging consensus that having your navy and air force destroyed, your leadership killed off, and having lost complete control of your air space is actually evidence that one is winning. Crazy that we are only now discovering this new military strategy.
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