Dr. Warren Edwards|DocSTEM रीट्वीट किया
Nick Saban shares what transformational leadership really looks like and the trap most leaders fall into.
"If you're in any kind of managerial position, I think you should define your job the same way: Provide the leadership to develop the relationships to help people create and accomplish the opportunities that they have, and help them establish the discipline they need to do it."
Then he broke down what leadership actually is:
"Leadership is about helping somebody else, affecting somebody else for their benefit. Not for your benefit - for their benefit."
"If you're doing it for your benefit, it's manipulation. And people can see right through that."
That's the line right there...
Leadership serves others. Manipulation serves yourself.
"You gotta develop a relationship, because they gotta know you care. Hard to affect people if they don't think you care about them."
Then he called out where most leaders spend their time:
"How do you spend all your time? If you're a manager, you spend all your time with the people who don't do the right things. I call them energy vampires."
"We got 5 guys on our team - they don't go to class, they don't do the right thing in practice, they loaf all the time. Those are the guys I meet with every day. They're energy vampires."
So he made a commitment:
"I'm gonna meet with 3 guys who didn't do anything wrong every day to see how they're doing. To make sure they know I care about them, their family, and what's happening in their life."
"I wanna have a relationship with those people, so that when I need to affect them, I have a chance to do it."
"People gotta know you care. If they think you only care about yourself, they're gonna think you're just a manipulator and you're not really going to affect them in a positive way."
"You gotta serve other people."
The core of servant leadership is wanting to see others at their best.
It's not about control, it's about serving others.
(🎥 CBT Automotive)
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