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NsibidiHeart🖤🤍✨
@NsibidiHrt
Neurodivergent hybrid(AUDHD)|CPTSD recovery(Phoenix-rise from narcissistic abuse/ borderline codependency)|Anti-gender war|OMNIST; GOD IS LOVE|Creative Writer
universe शामिल हुए Ağustos 2025
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I'll say the brutal truth.
The Divine Masculine and divine feminine are two powerful halves that when paired up, they become divine Eminence, they enter complete GOD FORM.
Women are primordial sporadic energy that needs direction. They are as powerful as the void, boundless and rely on the divine masculine to give them form, real meaning and direction.
But when the man is a crybaby, it utterly destabilizes her psych. What to do when the very thing that provides structure is as volatile as her?
I'm not saying men cannot break down when grievous events occur, you're human.
But when in a sad state, always take it to God. Women cannot handle it well. Some may be able to because they are very compassionate, but the vast majority become clueless on what to do.
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@Bunny_ngl 1)Overly respecting people who have money.
2) Pride.
3) Gossip
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@NsibidiHrt @grayshurz Yes—there are definitely people (men and women) who confuse lust, attention, or emotional excitement for real love. And when someone keeps experiencing that pattern, it can make them guarded or even bitter. That part is very real.
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Men don't fall in love with you. They LUST after your body, your vibe, your softness. They fantasize about touching you, but not healing you. They chase you like you're a prize, only to treat you like a POSSESSION. Lust is loud. Love is quiet, steady and showes up when no one's watching.
Some men don't want you, they want the FEELING you give them.
And once that fades? So do they. Protect yourself.
Not everyone who desires you is capable of
VALUING you.
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@Sabimtv Emotional neglect can tank someone's self confidence. It's soul-wrenching.
But of course you'll gravitate towards folks who truly care about you and also reintegrate authentic fragments of you that were not allowed to shine in your former environment.
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I learned early that love has conditions.
In that house, my name was never called with warmth only instructions.
Do this, go there. Why are you still standing?
But when their real child walked in, everything softened. Even their voice changed. One day, I heard it clearly.
I’m tired of taking care of a child that’s not mine.
I was in the next room.
I didn’t cry. I didn’t move.
I just stood there… realizing I had been living in a place where I was fed, clothed, and sheltered but never wanted.
From that day, I stopped calling it home.
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@ayanfenikky Yes, but SILENTLY.
Men don't KABASH like women. Women wear religion like a badge more than men do.
I don't mean to sound condescending. This is just the truth.
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@cutesy_kuromiii If you mean People calling ADHD folks lazy when truly its a neurological issue, then I get you.
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@SauceKiki They often have flexible mindsets which isn't always a bad thing.
What you should be scared of however, is if they don't have morals or principles.
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TRUTH??
In such situation women can handle their own but it's not easy for us men because our biological wiring keeps screaming, "She's a female, you must conquer!"
It only takes an enlightened man or one in a serious relationship to be in a platonic friendship with you and even, he'll still struggle internally but won't say.
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@spyderrmann She'll eventually grow tired of that validation over time.
She'll realize later that there's zero value in all of these except she's of low intellect.
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If she's h0t and doesn't have a boyfriend, there are usually 5 dudes in her social circle simping for her.
She's not "single" in the way most guys think.
Even if she says she's single, she has:
1. Guys texting her every day
2. Orbiters buying her drinks or giving her attention
3. "Friends" who secretly want to pâste
4. Exes still hanging around
5. Guys waiting for their chance
That validation gan she Dey enjoy am
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THE TRUTH:
What's he is struggling with is ACCEPTANCE:
Accepting that he can no longer live the flamboyant lifestyle he was once used to, at least not now.
But on a serious note, it's extremely hard to switch from that "old-taking" business to real one.
Especially when he never learned a skill/business at a point in his life.
He has to start all over and that takes a lot of patience and mental stamina.
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I have a boyfriend, and honestly, he’s an old taker. He has refused to work, always saying the pay people offer isn’t worth it because he could spend that money in just one week. The problem is, he’s not even making money anywhere else, and he’s already 35.
According to him, we’re in a serious relationship that should lead to marriage, but I’m scared. I feel like marrying him might turn into a life of struggle. He still lives in his mother’s house and hasn’t even finished building the personal house he started.
I don’t understand how someone can have no job and still not want to work. At the same time, I’m scared of leaving the relationship. What if I don’t find someone serious who actually wants marriage? It feels like most men in this generation just want s€x, not commitment. I’m also being pressured to get married, especially since I’m almost 27 and the first child.
But then I keep asking myself… what if this man never improves? Is this the kind of life I’ll be stuck in just suffering? Meanwhile, I’ve built my own business by myself and I’m also starting a new career.
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@grayshurz Why would a man go out of his way to debate women's biological business with a WOMAN?
???
Only clowns do that.
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@MibshaD @grayshurz Lust is temporary infatuation, love is permanent infatuation.
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@grayshurz Lust chases feelings; love values you quietly, consistently, always.
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@Debbiektcha_ SEE EHH
Them suppose open shrine start to dey venerate you.
I go dey pour Kai Kai daily for your matter.
Some top tier psychological knowledge you were spitting here!
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@oku_yungx The same reason women are close to their sons.
The bond between opposite sex is usually seamless, without stress, platonic, smooth.
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@dotheworknoww NEVER! I beg of you🙏
You might not recover from the guilt except you haven't a beating heart.
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@dotheworknoww True. They've seen your potential.
They have insights on the greatness you can attain and it'll increase their self- loathe should you become the man God wants you to be.
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@instablog9ja It's HIGHLY CRIMINAL, I TELL YOU.
My theory is that the people seated in the government house are a bunch of self-serving, wicked, insatiable earthbound demons that keep wanting more and moreeee.
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