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@desrtquin

BSN,RN👩‍⚕️,Entrepreneur,Mental Health/Health Policy Advocate,Tea therapist, Photographer,La vita e bella❣

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@YarKafanchan @GwekeOnome I know things are not perfect in Africa but I dislike when people feed stereotypes.
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@Hybrid_Ola All I see there is all about the papers, isn’t it a crime to make it obvious? Especially by leaking the chats?
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@OdohUmeh So be honest, did you marry her for paper or for Love?
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WorldFamous 🇳🇬🇧🇪
Many people in the comments are asking what i did to her to get served. Here is a summary of the majors: She facilitated the first work i got through her friend. Then i am yet to set up my own bank account, so they (the company) send my pay to her account. Whenever the money drops, she doesn't hand it over. She takes out some for foods, rents and utilities ( we do 50-50). The remaining she might use some to buy me expensive wears or the cat food. Who told this woman i need an expensive wear? I didn't come here for all that. I got responsibilities back home and i can't continue like this. I worked like 6 months and in that period, i have no single savings. I have not sent 1 Kobo back home. When i complain she said my mind is still in Africa, therefore i don't love her enough and my plan is to make money here and send back to Africa. So i did what an African man should do - I rebelled. I talked to a colleague at work (fellow African) and he walked me through the ropes on how to get a bank account and have it updated in my work file. Trouble started when she didn't receive the money as usual. After the fight that ensued, we decided on how much i will be dropping every week (it's a weekly pay). I now have control of my finances. I started saving and sending small tokens back home. Within months i started doing small small investment back home. She learnt that i have restarted my building project (was abandoned at foundation level before i left Nigeria), all hell broke loose. I explained to her that i am the first born child and deeply rooted to my African ties. Just because i am married to a Dutch and living in a dutch land doesn't mean i should forget home, cos that was her argument. To her, i should forget about Africa. "Africa is poor", she would say. Africa has nothing to give to you. You are here now. You should focus on us . Whatever you are investing or planning to invest should be here and not Africa. For a fact that you are still thinking Africa means you plan to return to Africa some day. It's not like i came on asylum. My parents are still much alive. My younger siblings are there. I spent all my life with these people, now you want me to turn my back on my people just so to prove i am not going any where? You want me to choose between you and my people? Again, the calls. If there's one thing she can't stand, it is any call that came from home. She doesn't want none of that. She doesn't want nobody to call you. They just want money. They don't care about you. They want you to be working and sending the money to Africa. Who is that lady that called you? Why is she calling you? Is she your Nigerian wife? I don't trust you anymore. You said she is your sister but her surname is different. I saw you sent money to so so and so person. Who is that and why are you sending him money? Aaaah! It was one week one trouble. For peace to reign, i stopped taking calls anytime I'm home. The only time i can call home is during break time at work, or on my train ride back home. During one of our many arguments, she hinted she will ask for a divorce and have my papers revoked, so Little by little, the power dynamics in the house began to shift. I don't wanna go back to Nigeria empty. Where will i start from? What will people say? That after 3 years in Europe the only thing he achieved was raising his house to lintel level. No way! So i gave in. I allowed her turn me to her little obedient puppy 🥹. On weekends that I rather want to sleep and rest, i will go with her to her parties just so i be in the good books. Not like a give a fuck about cats but i must bath and feed her cat cos it makes her happy. During the Winter, the weather in Spain is much better. This particular winter, she planned for us to go her house in Spain for vacation. That will mean me stopping work (she has always wanted me to stop working and depend on her entirely), so I said no. From there, it was downhill.
WorldFamous 🇳🇬🇧🇪@OdohUmeh

My oyibo wife woke up one morning and told me she is divorcing me. Wait! She didn't tell me, they sent me a paper written in Dutch. I took the paper to work the following day so my colleague will help me interpret. That's how i got to know it's a divorce paper. I have only been in the country for 3 years, so my ex wanted to divorce and send me back to Africa since she gave me papers. Turns out, as we later found out, that the country has amended their law and now allows one to complete their stay as stipulated on their paper, so long the marriage lasted at least 3 years (I had 5 years papers then). Upon realization, my ex tried to mend fences and get us back, but it's too late. I was afraid. She owned me. I submitted to her whims and caprices because I feared i would lose my right to stay if she divorces me. When the divorce papers came i went into depression. I began to lose weight. Where do i begin from? How do i go back home and face my people? I pleaded with her but it fell on deaf ears. She even booked a one-way ticket for me. She said it's her own little way of helping me transition to my new reality. You need to see her disappointed when we found out i could stay. I moved out and rented my own space-far from her and her troubles. It's been years now. That period really tested me but i thank God for God.

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ỌBA DÉLÉKÈ  👑
I saw an event planner on X and really liked her work, so I recommended her for a job in Lagos worth over $7,000. But I was surprised when they told me they couldn’t work with her because the person who showed up wasn’t the same person I recommended. I reached out to her and asked why she sent someone else to represent her. I was shocked by her response: “I am the one. They said the person on my page has a different complexion from mine.” It turns out she edits her complexion using an app. In all her photos and videos, she appears light-skinned, whereas she’s actually dark-skinned 🤦🏾‍♂️ I still don’t understand the motive behind it.
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@HonestarsenalF If this is true, this are the kind of ppl I must find, I will patiently plot, one way or the other she will pay and it won’t be pleasant. I dislike fraud
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AYOMIPOSI 👑@HonestarsenalF·
Last year, there was a girl on my WhatsApp contact list who kept disturbing me to buy clothes from her. So Nov last year, I decided to patronize her. I told her to send me pictures, and she did. I picked what I wanted, and everything came to ₦85k. She sent me her account number. I sent the money first, but I wasn’t debited, and she said she didn’t receive it either. I tried again,it was pending, and she still said she didn’t see it. She kept rushing me, saying she needed the money to go to the market and order the clothes. Thinking the previous transactions would be reversed since I wasn’t debited yet, I sent it a third time, and that one went through. She said she would deliver the next day…fine.
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AYOMIPOSI 👑@HonestarsenalF

Ever had any horrible experience with an online vendor?

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@MachalaDoctor Look up to her relationship ke, everyone’s relationship is their own load to carry woh.
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It seems like Priscilla has forgotten that she’s married; she should take it easy, because people really look up to her relationship with Juma Jux as a goal 😂
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YabaLeftOnline@yabaleftonline·
Moment the mother of the groom donated £10 million to the bridesmaids at a lavish Hausa wedding.
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D.I B@desrtquin·
I really wish every Nigerian in the Uk is on NIUKand I wish we will all comply to our complaints, I wondered what happened to “work in silence let success be the noise” nothing upsets me so much than seeing another ring light or keypad trigger Nigerians dropping dumb takes as if they know every Nigerian in the uk or know everything about the Uk even more than the host. In as much as it’s okay to pass information, sifting information to post and to keep within conversations amongst us in our circles will be the wise thing to do.
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🎙OLUOMO OF DERBY 🇳🇬 🇬🇧🇬🇭 🇿🇼
Let’s be honest with ourselves. It’s simply not true to say Nigerians have dominated sectors in the UK. Even in healthcare where many Nigerians work we are not the majority, let alone dominant. Spreading narratives like that only misrepresents reality. If we’re talking about real influence across sectors in the UK, Indians are far ahead and can confidently make that claim based on numbers, structure, and long-term positioning. We need to stop exaggerating our position and start facing the truth. Our population here compared to other immigrant groups is smaller, and our impact while meaningful is not dominance and beyond that, if we truly believe Nigerians are as exceptionally capable as we say, then the real question is: why aren’t we channeling that same energy into building and developing our own country? There’s nothing wrong with being proud, but pride must be grounded in truth. Let’s call a spade a spade and focus on real progress, not comforting narratives.
Slimfit@iSlimfit

One thing about Nigerians in the UK: We have quietly dominated entire sectors and industries. Finance, tech, law... You look around the room and you see us. We indeed have some of the smartest people in the world.

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@tomisin_ms Omo you wouldn’t even want a service user to dash you anything trivial let alone house, is it even allowed? The scrutiny and investigation you’ll go through alone 😁
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Tomisin@tomisin_ms·
Safeguarding rules and workplace policies have made it almost impossible for a service user to leave anything substantial to a paid carer in their will without questions being raised. And which house exactly? The same house that may have already been used to fund their care?
𝙱𝙸𝙶 𝚂𝙷𝙰𝙱𝚉 𓃵 ²³¹@omoiyaakeem

my friend in uk called me to share with me a good news… you know that kind of call where the voice is shaking but smiling at the same time? yeah… that kind. she moved there quietly, no noise, just her and her small suitcase full of hope and “let me just try.” caregiver job, long shifts, cold mornings, learning accents that didn’t always make sense. she used to tell me how lonely it felt sometimes… how even laughter sounded different there. then she met him. an elderly white man she was assigned to care for. stubborn at first, very “i’ve lived my life already, don’t fuss over me” type. but my friend… you know her. soft heart, steady patience, that quiet kindness that doesn’t beg to be noticed. she didn’t just care for him… she saw him. she listened to his old stories like they were fresh news. laughed at jokes that probably weren’t even funny. months turned into years. she became more than a caregiver… she became family in a place where she had none. then life did what life does… he passed away. today’s call? different tears. he left a will… and in it, he left her his house. she kept saying “i didn’t do anything special”… but sometimes, being genuinely kind is the loudest thing you can do. she went there looking for survival and found grace. life quietly rewards a good heart when no one is watching. and today, hope sounded exactly like her voice on the phone.

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@Miss_Oluremi He will stop sending in Jesus name, we can’t take such disrespect from anyone.
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Remi@Miss_Oluremi·
My cousin who lives abroad sent me 200k cash gift on my birthday last two years. he didn't send last year. Yesterday my birthday he sent 200k again. And I respectfully told him the economy last 2 years is not the same as this years'. 200k naira is less than 200 dollars. I know how much his wife uses in buying wigs from Nigeria through me. I'm not ungrateful or feeling entitled, I just feel he can do more.
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@desrtquin @Oluomoofderby @_obidii Lmao 🤣 So you’ve made it your duty to broadcast the bad, but the good Nigerians didn’t make your ‘roof top’ list? Interesting standards. Hypocrite!!
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🎙OLUOMO OF DERBY 🇳🇬 🇬🇧🇬🇭 🇿🇼
Nigerian citizen Timothy Kusemi, 41, has been sentenced to six years in prison after admitting causing death by dangerous driving and serious injury by dangerous driving following a fatal crash in East Yorkshire. Kusemi, who held a provisional UK licence and had previously failed his driving test twice, was found to have continued driving beyond the 12-month limit permitted on a foreign licence. The collision claimed the life of 70-year-old Susan Whittles, who died at the scene despite the efforts of emergency services. A coroner has raised concerns over enforcement gaps, noting inconsistencies between rules applied to UK learner drivers and those using foreign licences. Kusemi has also been disqualified from driving for 11 years.
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@molOluwa_Pops The person making the video, the adults watching this degeneracy and encouraging it are all retarded
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@nishio Exactly my thoughts too, I think the frustration is from not being able to figure it out not necessarily wanting the milk. He wants to be able to do it himself too
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NISHIO Hirokazu
NISHIO Hirokazu@nishio·
最終的に受け取った後投げ捨てて障害物に再チャレンジしてるので、もはやそれが欲しいのではなく、障害物をクリアできない自分が不甲斐なくて泣いてるのかなぁ
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NISHIO Hirokazu
NISHIO Hirokazu@nishio·
面白い。みんなに同様に障害物が存在しているのに、その障害物に阻まれたときに泣き叫ぶ人Aと解決策を試行錯誤して解決する人Bがいる。Bは問題を解決して手に入れたものをAに分け与えようとしているのに、Aは泣き叫ぶことに専念していて受け取ろうとしない。傍観していたCがそれを受け取っている。
Lentejodependiente@maslentejas

Este video explica a la perfección porque la equidad en los recursos, no garantiza la igualdad en las condiciones

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@Chude_ND1 @wahalaMann I don’t know if parents don’t listen, we’ve been shouting, be careful of leaving your kids with as close as uncles and aunties and this one took there’s to security men.
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Chude@Chude_ND1·
A struggling parent in the Kuje area of Abuja handed over their three young daughters to different local security men for care and upkeep. The eldest girl is 12 years old. The security men allegedly impregnated the girls, and one of them has already given birth. It’s very sad, condemnable and shameful that things like this is still happening in 2026.
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Furniture polish marble design
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Sama Hoole@SamaHoole·
Slaves in Rome ate bread, olives, and porridge. The Roman nobility ate meat. Egyptian labourers built the pyramids on bread, onions, and beer. The pharaoh ate meat. Aztec peasants ate maize and beans. The Aztec nobility ate meat. Chinese peasants ate rice and greens. The Chinese nobility ate meat. Indian lower castes ate rice, lentils, and flatbread. The Mughal court ate meat. Feudal Japanese peasants ate rice and pickles. The samurai ate fish and meat. Native American farmers ate corn and squash. The warrior cultures ate bison. Medieval European serfs ate pottage and black bread. The lords ate venison and swan. Tudor commoners ate bread cut with chalk. The court of Henry VIII consumed thousands of cattle a year. Victorian working class ate bread, tea, and whatever was left. The Victorian aristocracy ate beef, game, and butter. Every civilisation. Every century. Every continent. The poor ate the plants. The rich ate the animals. Then in 1977, a committee of American senators told the world that the peasant diet was the healthy one all along. No civilisation in human history had figured this out. Until then. Apparently.
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@SamaHoole No wonder they’re trying to stop meat eating and corrupt the good meat.
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@UchePOkoye To think that this guy should know better, because he’s been on this TL and travel influencing long enough.
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Anambra 1st son@UchePOkoye·
Read the room! What is wrong with you travel agents? You have caused so much harm to Nigerians and you don’t listen. Wait till this your tweet get to the wrong audience.
DOCTOUR@wakawaka_doctor

Nigerians are moving to Rwanda , Ghana Kenya even Togo and Benin They are moving in numbers! You can start small, it doesn’t have to be the USA or Australia As long as your new country can give you what your old county CAN NEVER ; just move

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@JoeWhizz @Oluomoofderby @_obidii It will be said as it is, irrespective of who does it and yes the one’s I know of are Nigerians and I’ll shout it to the rooftop.
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Mr. Whizz@JoeWhizz·
@desrtquin @Oluomoofderby @_obidii He committed a crime, other nationality commits same crime but it’s nigeria that’s usually the icing on the cake & Nigerians like you will be the ones to broadcast it the more!
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