matt 🌻

be not afraid ⚧︎✨

being performatively edgy/cruel is in vogue on both the right and the left these days

petplay but im a horse and i just sort of die for some reason

At the end of the day you gotta find a way to love being a tranny

hey yall i talked to my mom abt how our dental insurance isnt full coverage so i set up a gfm to help cover what insurance doesn't. please share this around if you can ^_^ even if you can't donate getting word out about this helps! ty & happy pride! gofund.me/83f83718c

happy pride month to all the neo-pronoun users & the micro label hoarders & the lesbians on t & trans women who dont voice train & nonbinary drag queens & trans men that let em hang your queerness doesn't not have to be palatable for you to be valid or for us to be family!

During pride dont forget that marriage equality doesn't exist for disabled adults People on disability more often than not cannot marry their partner without risking losing their benefits There is no marriage equality until we are all equal and safe ♥️🧡💛💚💙💜♿

matthew the man that you are

june evening at the lake

yes thats a he/him pronoun button on my shirt. yes i wore it quite literally every day for at least a year straight

ok so i have never had a unique experience...why was this me literally down to the button down and super skinny jeans?? 😭 i have so few pics from my pre-t days but i wore SO many button downs (buttoned all the way to the top ofc)

@beastmodesilly @theyfabsexual i know you have no argument bc youre bringing race into this as some sort of "gotcha," when it hadnt been mentioned (nor even alluded to!) lol. again, its embarrassing you cant even defend your own thoughts and biases. either get offline or learn how to defend your stances.

@haloeyed @theyfabsexual fun hater + idc + white

I'm legit 5 years on T but people don't believe me because they think T makes trans men ugly and disgusting.... I love being a little gender gremlin that confuses people I never got to experience feeling pretty until now. Let tboys be girlypop

@beastmodesilly @theyfabsexual glad you feel that way? you are still sad asf for gleefully making fun of what you dont understand. you are quite literally no better than transphobes who outright deny trans existence.

@haloeyed @theyfabsexual im hotter and less retarded is the difference

@beastmodesilly @theyfabsexual lmfao thats so embarrassing and sad, esp coming from someone like you who's presentation and identity also do not align with what many consider "normal." please grow as a person and recognize that people living their lives differently from you are a normal part of daily life.

@haloeyed @theyfabsexual Yes

@NoneSoVale @MicroDoseHon @ReznovRulz just because you hate yourself doesnt mean you have to project that pain onto others and act like you are the authority of how trans women should feel about their genitals

I wanna rip it out so badly i cant look at myself naked without feeling intense suicidal symptoms but sure its hot!!!

It would take far more than a month to honor the contributions of queer and transgender New Yorkers. From the Cercle Hermaphroditos in 1895, the first trans advocacy group in the United States, to the drag balls of the Harlem Renaissance, to the Stonewall uprising, to the Lesbian Herstory Archives, to ACT UP!, founded in 1987 as queer people fought for their lives while the Reagan administration looked away, New York City's history has long been shaped by queer and trans New Yorkers. To all our queer and trans neighbors: you deserve a City where you can afford to live safely, openly, and joyfully. Happy Pride, New York City.

@rappergamertag valid, i guess i just view it that while america operates under what is essentially a fascist dictatorship, some have to do what they have to survive today to fight for a better tomorrow for those who come after

@haloeyed further assimilation into the system only strengthens its internal stability and raises the cost of any eventual rupture, making meaningful transformation harder rather than easier. just don't defend it once you've "got yours." ;)

i'm not criticizing someone for taking a job at starbucks to survive, even if it is a target of boycott. i'm criticizing the idea that employment at a multinational corporation should be treated as the solution to trans liberation.

@the_moral_abc not the ideal place of work, but a job at starbucks can go a long way. their insurance plan covers quite literally everything under the sun for both ftm and mtf

4tran dysphoria demons hate when you suggest they trying getting a job with insurance that covers gender affirming surgeries

@oldemptyeye @theyfabsexual you can acknowledge without directly mocking and hurting others. OP's intention (and many, many others) are to mock a person for not fitting in with their personal standards of what it means to be "really" trans. none of us are entitled to a full explanation of his identity.

@haloeyed @theyfabsexual So like we’re all aware there’s a spectrum, but none of us can acknowledge some people are like 1% trans as in like they’re a girl but theyd like to be a little buffer or any of the other benefits? It’s fine to be that way it’s just like at a certain point it feels like