@MenonlyMen007@D_arrogant_one@VERITY_HQ@light_eric50006 I used be a slow learner but dad was patient with me because I didn't Fail. He would only get mad if I didn't put in effort, which I understood. I won't accept failure from any child of mine.
@VickSlade@D_arrogant_one@VERITY_HQ@light_eric50006 Disciplining your kid for doing something wrong is okay, but punishing them for bad grades is Crazy, if you planning on raising your kids like that, I feel sorry for them. If your kid is performing bad in school in every class for years, will you be at him forever mhhh!?
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@MenonlyMen007@D_arrogant_one@VERITY_HQ@light_eric50006 Bad grades can as a result of several factors brov..
If my child isn't putting in the same effort as others, he or she needs to be steered in the right direction..
As long as that child isn't an imbecile they must pass. I don't need you to come 1st in class, just pass ur exams.
@MenonlyMen007@D_arrogant_one@VERITY_HQ@light_eric50006 Bro you're going to raise quitters with this mindset. I know there are other ways kids can succeed besides education, but teaching your child to have the right mentality after a setback is very important.. I wouldn't hit my child in d head with a clenched fist but I'd discipline
@D_arrogant_one@VERITY_HQ@light_eric50006 Foolish, the mother is right to defend the child, if you think your children must get good grades in school and successful in life and you are not open to the possibility that they will fail in life, you are a loser, you are better of not having kids.
@MenonlyMen007@D_arrogant_one@VERITY_HQ@light_eric50006 So after having kids the only thing I should do besides catering for them is" wish them the best in life in whatever they wish to pursue" 😂.. At what point do you do the actual job (PARENTING).. That man is simply being a parent which is basically his most important job.
@D_arrogant_one@VERITY_HQ@light_eric50006 You can't push your ideal for success to anybody including your kids, you can only wish them the best in life in whatever they wish to pursue, some become successful musician, athletes, it's not always about grades. Athletes get paid 100 time more, invest in your kids dreams.
@MenonlyMen007@VERITY_HQ@D_arrogant_one@light_eric50006 So you mean if a child fails at something, he or she is automatically bad at that stuff??..
Thank God I didn't have parents that accepted total failure.. how then do you teach them perseverance and grit?..
@VickSlade@VERITY_HQ@D_arrogant_one@light_eric50006 But do you feel the child pain, we can't all be perfect in life. Some people get A others get B,C,D,E and that's just life, Some fail some succeed, and that's how the world works. If we all are successful,perfect getting A, who will work for who?
@MenonlyMen007@VERITY_HQ@D_arrogant_one@light_eric50006 I was a child once and I know how kids think that they know everything, which makes em a danger to themselves if not disciplined accordingly..
This soft parenting is why the younger generations are weak and directionless, but it's fine brov.
@VickSlade@VERITY_HQ@D_arrogant_one@light_eric50006 What pressure? beating your kids to perform well in school, is equivalent to beating your disabled children to force them to walk upright.
So before beating your children to perform well in school,do a brain scan on them to understand if parts of their brains are missing
@MenonlyMen007@VERITY_HQ@D_arrogant_one@light_eric50006 We don't know the full story of why the child is failing in school. U making up ADHD as an excuse is funny.
What if the child has just been hanging out with the wrong crowd or just doesn't want to study cos he knows he's dad will sort things out for him?..
@MenonlyMen007@VERITY_HQ@D_arrogant_one@light_eric50006 This is d reason why we have lots of psychologically weak ppl who crumble under d slightest pressure.. by all means brother, raise your kids as you see fit.. pamper them at every point . Good luck brov
@VickSlade@VERITY_HQ@D_arrogant_one@light_eric50006 Sorry to say, but You have an African stupid mindset, our brains are wired differently some people have a good memory and such people remember things better than others and that why they perform well in school. Other kids don't have good memory suffer from ADHD.
@Czar_Myles@VERITY_HQ Rich men don't have to caution or beat their kids when they under perform in school because they know they can just bribe their way through school..
You can also do that if you like that method
@VERITY_HQ You think this is training? This is stupidity. Stop putting your insecurities on your children. Mmttcchheewww...you think a rich man will be slapping his kids for failing an exam🤣🤣...this clearly os poverty talking...Mr man, go and buy drink and relax
@VERITY_HQ Guy
I collect beating
And I thank God for it...
May his soul rest in peace..
But you see this woman I will put 70% fault on her...
also modern dad are expected to use Reality check to train kids now...
@MenonlyMen007@VERITY_HQ@D_arrogant_one@light_eric50006 Some bad grades u call it!!!!..
That man looks like a father who works hard to provide everything humanly possible for his kids to succeed..
There are many shades of disappointments, but it doesn't get much worse than this I promise you.. I feel his pain.
@VERITY_HQ@D_arrogant_one@light_eric50006 The father is wrong on this one, the kid just had some bad grades, it's not like he was caught smoking weed.
Good grades doesn't mean you will be successful in life, neither does bad grades mean you will be a failure in life, Elon musk used to have bad grades now he is successful
@instablog9ja You push us to the wall , we break the wall and relax there and can never reinforce back. We deserve a global award and recognition for that. I think the most understanding citizens in the world .