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Caller: “I’m worth $20 million and my fiancée doesn’t know, should i tell?”
Caller: I’m 45, engaged, been with my fiancée three years. She doesn’t know I have around $20 million. I hid it because a past partner was only interested in my money, and I didn’t want to go through that again.
Dave: I understand the fear, but you’re about to marry someone who doesn’t know who she’s actually marrying. That’s a problem.
Caller: I know. How do I tell her?
Dave: Sit down with her in person, apologize first, and explain the fear behind your past experience. Make clear you don’t view her the same way, then fully disclose everything. No more hiding.
Caller: What if she’s upset I kept it from her?
Dave: She may well be, and that’s fair. You should have done this before the engagement. But better now than after the wedding.
Caller: What about a prenup?
Dave: We’re generally not fans, but with a $20 million net worth gap, we’d make an exception. Not to protect you from her, but to protect you both from outside pressure, family interference, and legal uncertainty down the road. Think of it less as planning for divorce and more like a will; a pre decision that brings clarity.
Caller: That framing helps.
Dave: Have the honest conversation first. Everything else follows from that.
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