AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ

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AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ

AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ

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SurrogacyConcern
SurrogacyConcern@SurrogConcernยท
@AndiAgg04 Thank you Andi. Weโ€™re very concerned about how donor conceived people are treated and commodified. Are you in touch with orgs such as Donor Conceived UK and any US equivalents?
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AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ
I donโ€™t know why? I really did feel like a science experiment. I felt like a freak that my parents never breathed the same air, never saw each other, never touched. It just doesnโ€™t feel natural at all. It took years and one perfect miracle later for me to understand that God intended me to be here just like everyone else. I wanted to share that because I want you to know how precious and important what you said about all lives being invaluable truly is to anyone who has felt that before. To me. Thank you for being such a wonderful person to say something so meaningful and loving to a stranger.โค๏ธ
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DotGalore
DotGalore@DotGaloreยท
@AndiAgg04 @johannesmkx All human life is invaluable, however it is created/conceived. Your reply reminds us of that. But why do we not value it as such and show that it is invaluable through our actions... Thank you for your invaluable perspective.
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AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ
๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘As a donor conceived adult, you are 100% correct. I was raised by heterosexual parents, but I too was bought, sold, and separated from my parent/siblings. We grieve our family we donโ€™t know. โ€œDonorโ€ and โ€œsurrogateโ€ are words used to dimenish the importance of the biological relationship between parent and child. The need is so strong to know who you belong to, and to have the missing pieces of your identity. Also, heterosexual parents can get away with lying so easily because they make you think that they are both your biological parents, but you question so many things because they donโ€™t add up. When I found out, Iโ€™ll never forget that I was told that my donor โ€œwasnโ€™t a real person with a faceโ€. How crazy is that?!?! This is what length they had to go to in order to live with this choice- they literally had to pretend the donor was imaginary. To hear my parent minimized as a faceless person, to think I was half of nothing- wow! It was so beyond words hurtful. Truly, I mean it when I say I, to this day, cannot put into words how painful that was.
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John A. Monaco
John A. Monaco@johnamonacoยท
โ€œThere is no mamaโ€ Actually, there is. The problem is that these two men LARPโ€™ing as a โ€œmarried coupleโ€ have divorced the mother from the childโ€™s natural upbringing. They are co-conspirators in moral evil. You can mock or deny nature, but you can never escape it.
Billboard Chris ๐ŸŒŽ@BillboardChris

These men laugh as the baby cries and says โ€œma ma ma.โ€ They think itโ€™s funny because โ€œthere is no mama.โ€ This baby was designed to never have a mother so that two men could satisfy their selfish desires. Itโ€™s impossible for a normal person to watch this without instinctual disgust.

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AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ
I am donor conceived and was raised by a heterosexual couple. I want to take this opportunity to raise awareness that, regardless of our parentโ€™s sexual orientation, this is harmful to us. We are all bought, sold, and then created with the intent to separate us from our own parent/siblings. All parties also decided to do this knowing we lacked basic human rights. We grieve our lost family and missing pieces of our identities, just as that poor baby is and will. Donor conceived adults are fighting very hard against the fertility giants to obtain strict regulations, and we are also trying to get supports in place to help future generations through the pain and trauma of this because we had no one to turn to. I just feel like it would be such a missed opportunity to not address that this is unethical across the board.
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Seth Gruber
Seth Gruber@sgruber91ยท
We must and we will ban sodomites from pretending theyโ€™re married and buying babies. Children have a right to a mother and father. This is child abuse. Itโ€™s demented, disgusting, and disordered.
Right Angle News Network@Rightanglenews

Two gay men in Nashville are sparking nationwide outrage after recording a video of themselves mocking the baby they had via surrogacy as it cries for its mother for content. Man: โ€œWho do you want, Dada or Pop?โ€ Baby: โ€œMamaโ€ Man: โ€œNo, there is no mama.โ€ Baby: cries

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AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ
I will follow up on it being published and Iโ€™m going to make a note to DM you so that you can see it. I know 98% is difficult to believe, but not if youโ€™ve lived it and understands all of the impacts as well as the total lack of regulations and resources. Thank you for reposting this. It means a lot to me just to have the opportunity to be heard about something thatโ€™s been so painful.
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Working Class Politics
Working Class Politics@WorkingPoliticยท
So sad if true
AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ@AndiAgg04

@nicksortor Donor conceived adult here. I have access to yet unpublished research showing 98% of DCP adults deem this unethical, regardless of our parentโ€™s sexuality. We were all bought, sold, and separated from our parent and siblings. Itโ€™s extremely painful and we lack basic human rights.

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AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ
I am donor conceived and I can tell you that, regardless of the sexual orientation of our parents, we grieve the parent we werenโ€™t allowed to know. We grieve the siblings we will never know existed. We are human beings, not commodities. This is unethical across the board. I have a study in my possession that hasnโ€™t yet been published, but 98% of donor conceived adults indicated that this is unethical. 98% of people donโ€™t agree on anything, but if you have lived this, itโ€™s not at all surprising.
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AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ
No one should be allowed to buy children. I am donor conceived and was raised by heterosexual parents who also bought me and created me with the intent to separate me from my parent (who sold me). They also made me knowing I would have less rights than other people, but that didnโ€™t stop them. Like this baby, we all grieve the family we donโ€™t know, the loss of our identity, the fact that weโ€™ll die never knowing how many siblings we had and if we unknowingly met any. This is messed up and Iโ€™m so glad people are starting to really understand the magnitude of what weโ€™ve allowed as a society and what it does to actual human beings.
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Blonde Bigot
Blonde Bigot@BlondeBigot11ยท
Gay men should not be allowed to buy children.
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AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ
Iโ€™m donor conceived, and no, itโ€™s not harsh enough. To, as a human, know that you were bought, sold, and then created with the intent to be separated from your parent/siblings is something that no one should ever have to grapple with. To know that, when making these choices, your parents knew youโ€™d be born with less rights than anyone else, and still did it anyway- itโ€™s very hard to comprehend. This is unethical and there are so many donor conceived adults out there trying to fight for regulations, to be heard and understood, to fix this to spare future generations the pain weโ€™ve had to endure. Unfortunately, weโ€™ve been largely silenced. Today is a day I honestly prayed to see in my lifetime. I prayed for the thing to happen that would make people step out in droves to say this is wrong. I just donโ€™t want this to be something that is only seen as a gay parenting issue when this happens to all DCP.
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Auron MacIntyre
Auron MacIntyre@AuronMacintyreยท
You read the Bible and think โ€œWow God wiping out an entire civilization with brimstone and hellfire, seems harshโ€ Then you see stuff like this and you realize it isnโ€™t harsh enough
Right Angle News Network@Rightanglenews

Two gay men in Nashville are sparking nationwide outrage after recording a video of themselves mocking the baby they had via surrogacy as it cries for its mother for content. Man: โ€œWho do you want, Dada or Pop?โ€ Baby: โ€œMamaโ€ Man: โ€œNo, there is no mama.โ€ Baby: cries

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AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ
I am donor conceived, so I know the pain and consequences of being bought, sold, and created with the intent to separate a person from their own parent/siblings. Regardless of the parentโ€™s sexual orientation, itโ€™s unethical. We grieve our lost family. We fight to be heard and understood. We fight to have pretty basic human rights that others take for granted.
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Latter-day Truth, J.D.
Latter-day Truth, J.D.@Latterdaytruthยท
I am not going to be silent on this. Children deserve a mother and a father. This is wrong.
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AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ
No couples regardless of sexual orientation should be allowed to buy, sell, and intentionally create human beings with the intent to separate them from their parent/siblings via donor conception. As a donor conceived adults, I know the pain of not knowing my own parent and feeling like I donโ€™t know who I am. Itโ€™s unethical, and most donor conceived adults will point blank tell you that.
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AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ
Thank you for posting this and asking for prayers. I am donor conceived and I have lived the trauma of being bought, sold, and intentionally created to be separated from my own parent/sibling. I have access to a currently unpublished study in which 98% of donor conceived adults indicated that this is unethical based on their own experiences. Whether we come from families with heterosexual of homosexual parents, we all grieve what was stolen from us at some point.
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robynโ˜ฆ๏ธ
robynโ˜ฆ๏ธ@RRR0BYNยท
The worst part of this video is that it appears the baby is almost holding back his tears, this signifies severe trauma, pain too intense to fully allow oneself feel. Even as an infant there is an instinctive awareness of what has been denied to him. Hell isnโ€™t hot enough for these bastards. Please pray for this child.
Mike Winger@MikeWingerii

This is the most dystopian thing Iโ€™ve ever seen. Two gay guys have someoneโ€™s baby. He asks the baby who he wants. Baby says, โ€œmamaโ€ He tells the baby โ€œthere is no mama.. you have dada or popโ€ Baby cries. There is no mama.

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AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ
I am donor conceived and I want to make it so clear to everyone that this is wrong regardless of the parentโ€™s sexual orientation. All of us are bought, sold, and then created to intentionally be separated from our parent/siblings. Itโ€™s extremely painful. I have access to a currently unpublished survey in which 98% of donor conceived adults indicated that this is unethical based on their own experiences. Also, we are all lied to and gaslit and forced to try to fit into a mold that makes our parents/other family/friends comfortable. Terms like โ€œdonorโ€ and โ€œsurrogateโ€ are used to minimize the importance of that relationship, to devalue our child/parent connection, in part to also make it palatable to people. For anyone who sees this, please be aware that donor conceived adults have been in David and Goliath battles to get this regulated and for the basic human rights we arenโ€™t granted. We are trying to make this better for future generations. We could use prayers and support in the form of regular people just starting to bravely change the glamorized narrative.
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AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ
@BrittRooted And as a donor conceived adult, I can also tell you that none of us deserve to be bought, sold, and intentionally separated from our parent/siblings. This is totallly unethical regardless of our parentโ€™s sexual orientation.
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rooted.wings
rooted.wings@BrittRootedยท
Babies and children need a mother and father.
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AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ
I am donor conceived with heterosexual parents, and I see this as an opportunity to bring awareness to everyone that all donor conceived people are bought, sold, and ripped apart from our parent/siblings. We all grieve these losses in our lives. This isnโ€™t a gay issue, this is bigger than that. This is wrong across the board. I have access to a currently unpublished study in which 98% of donor conceived adults surveyed said that they believe this to be unethical based on their own experience.
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Allie Beth Stuckey
Allie Beth Stuckey@conservmillenยท
The gaslighting starts early. I see this kind of thing over and over again on social media. Two dads laughing at the fact that โ€œsomehowโ€ their baby keeps asking for mama even though they donโ€™t have one, and theyโ€™re always told โ€œno.โ€ Babies instinctively want and need their moms. Itโ€™s beyond cruel - more cruelty than we allow for animals - that we purposely take them away from their mothers as infants in order to satisfy the desires of adult men.
Billboard Chris ๐ŸŒŽ@BillboardChris

These men laugh as the baby cries and says โ€œma ma ma.โ€ They think itโ€™s funny because โ€œthere is no mama.โ€ This baby was designed to never have a mother so that two men could satisfy their selfish desires. Itโ€™s impossible for a normal person to watch this without instinctual disgust.

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AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ
Iโ€™m donor conceived as well, and I would kindly ask that you please consider praying for the donor conceived adults fighting for proper regulations and basic human rights to know who we are to know our own parent! We are also working to try to figure out how to get psychological supports in place for younger generations because we know that navigating this is so incredibly difficult. Thank you for your kindness!
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AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ
Iโ€™m donor conceived and I approve this message! In all seriousness, we are human beings, not commodities. No one should have the right to buy, sell, and then create us with the intent to separate us from our parent, and with the full knowledge that we have less human rights. Donor conceived adults have been fighting very hard to get regulations around this, but itโ€™s an uphill battle against the fertility industry. In a study I have access to that hasnโ€™t been published, 98% of donor conceived adults indicated that they believe itโ€™s unethical based on their own experiences. If this is what finally wakes up the masses, Iโ€™m so here for it!
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AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ
I am donor conceived and I couldnโ€™t agree more that this should be illegal. I have access to a currently unpublished study that shows 98% of donor conceived adults believe this to be unethical, regardless of the way they were raised, such as gheif parentโ€™s sexual orientation. We are human beings, not commodities. We have a need and a right to know about parent, but thatโ€™s been stolen from each of us.
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Joey Salads
Joey Salads@JoeySaladsยท
This is horrifying, this needs to be made illegal. Two gay parents who purchased a baby are mocking the child for asking for โ€œmama.โ€
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AndiAgg04โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ
I am donor conceived and appreciate you saying this so much. No one should have the right to buy, sell, and create human beings to then separate from their parent/siblings. It is extremely painful to us all, regardless of our parentโ€™s sexual orientation. Iโ€™ve waited years for this to finally happen and your post in particular really touched me because I know you get it.
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