Thomas Kendall

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Thomas Kendall

@SaaSy_CFO

Tech CFO, CPA, freak in the Spreadsheets. I am old, I am grumpy, I am opinionated. Shareholder Value over feelings.

San Rafael, CA 가입일 Nisan 2022
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Thomas Kendall
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@karol Isn't that the chick from John Wick? The one that never speaks?
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Tennessee Freedom@TNFreedom21·
@karol 110% the ‘don’t look over there’ and we all looked. Katy Perry is gross, adds to the list of being a gross, horrible person.
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PLEASE@CalmingUp·
My employer at one point had a webpage to highlight it's support for LGBT Employees. One page was an employee discussing his "polyamorous" relationship in which he was monotonous and the person he was with had many partners. This seems worse to me than cheating. At least sneaking around shows some level of respect and fear of losing your partner.
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Simone & Malcolm Collins@SimoneHCollins·
It's good that people classify and treat polyamory as a sexual orientation. Polyamory is the same type of thing as being gay: An arousal/psychological profile with biological variance, plus (and this is key) a choice about whether to make it part of one’s identity & lifestyle.
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Lucy@TheLucyShow1·
Car people help! I don’t get it 🤷🏻‍♀️
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Thomas Kendall
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Interesting that you believe the 'actually useful things' are all in the service of women. So absolutely typical. Your whole angle is simple male shaming for the service of women. At the end of the day, you are literally no different and no smarter than the idiot women that start sentences with 'A real man would...' and finish with a list of actions that literally only benefit women.
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Thomas Kendall
Thomas Kendall@SaaSy_CFO·
If you read between the lines of her little story, she talked about activities and habits as if they were personality traits, then said she had to shrink. That is her perception, and she needs therapy because she absolutely does not understand men at all. And by extrapolation, neither do you. Please hear me, men do not care at all about how you perform the acts of living. We don't care what work you do or how much money you make as long as there is an effort to be productive. We don't care what hobbies and activities you enjoy. We already know there's a good chance they won't be something we would enjoy, but if they are, bonus! We don't care if you are a good cook. We don't expect you to cook for us all the time, but we hope you're willing to sometimes. We don't care if you keep a spotless home as long as it's not a pig sty. We just don't care. We want to know who you are. We want to see you. We don't want you to shrink yourself. We absolutely don't want you unhappy with us. We want the very best for you, even if we recognize we are not your person. We want all of this for you because what we want for ourselves is a woman to come alongside, join our life, and build a better one with us. We want to be happy with someone and to help provide happiness for that woman. Somewhere along the way we have learned to distrust each other and it's led us to this place where we way over think things and ultimately, screw them up. Finding a relationship should be tough, but the actual relationship shouldn't be this fraught with pitfalls.
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Thomas Kendall
Thomas Kendall@SaaSy_CFO·
@Whenitrains_961 @RealDianeYap Oh honey, nothing a woman does is ever free. Y'all cost a fortune. You just get mad because you don't get paid to just exist. People actually expect you to pull your weight.
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Thomas Kendall@SaaSy_CFO·
That is fucking horrific! No one's business, so please ignore me if you want, but what on earth would make you think that was necessary at such a young age, when you hadn't even been sexually active yet? I am genuinely sorry that happened to you and that you suffer effects from it.
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Jessica Pin
Jessica Pin@jess_ann_pin·
I consented only to “excision of redundant labia” when I was barely 18, a virgin, and still in high school. I was told “no risks to sexual function,” which I also read online everywhere I looked. My OB/GYN, later made president of @texmed and @DallasCMS, completely amputated my labia minora, amputated my frenulum, and cut into clitoral body skin without my consent, which denervated the glans of my clitoris. This happened because clitoral/vulvar anatomy was censored from medical school and OB/GYN education. The standard of care was to do surgeries they were never trained to do on anatomy they didn’t know. Thats why I’ve been an activist. 22 years later, this is FYI STILL HAPPENING FOR THE SAME REASONS. Though I’ve changed 20 major medical textbooks, 2 anatomy apps, etc., this isn’t enough to get surgeons educated. Last I checked, OB/GYNs still aren’t required to know clitoral anatomy. Textbooks define the frenulum as part of the labia minora and do not recognize its function. Tbh I was so focused on getting the course of the dorsal clitoral nerves added that I didn’t focus on the innervation of the frenulum (posterior labial nerve). This is recognized in 0 OB/GYN resources. ☠️ The white lines show where my doctor cut me basically.
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Nemanja@Nemanja1501

@jess_ann_pin Why was a part of your genitalia amputated if I may ask? I am shocked. In which country did that happen?

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Thomas Kendall@SaaSy_CFO·
@Richard_Vixen We don't mind the upkeep. We mind being told we're not doing enough after paying for most of it, if not all of it, by someone that thinks existing is a gift.
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@memeticsisyphus If you entered such an arrangement knowing beforehand it was going to be sexless, and as long as she's not expecting celibacy, that could be OK for some guys. But if she's expecting a traditional style marriage, only without the sex, she's off her rocker.
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Thomas Kendall@SaaSy_CFO·
@AmeliaRemigrate @RealDianeYap Well, reproduction and an associated legal obligation to financially support through the reproduction and raising of the offspring. But you're not wrong.
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Thomas Kendall@SaaSy_CFO·
@ignor3th1s @RealDianeYap Right, I get that, mine does too. But if sex was off the table for any reason other than illness, the value starts to decrease, doesn't it? You sign up for monogamy, not forced celibacy.
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Thomas Kendall@SaaSy_CFO·
Yeah, sorry, but men don't crave community the way women do. We do want some of the same things, but we also recognize they come at a heavy price to us, so there is a value proposition to consider. If the ROI isn't apparent, we'd just as soon get a dog. And men do not ever totally lose interest in sex. That's a straight up lie. It waxes and wanes, and does sometimes take a dip for health reasons, but a healthy man does not completely lose interest.
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Diane Yap
Diane Yap@RealDianeYap·
@SaaSy_CFO After a while, even men lose interest in sex. I guess there’s no point in grandma and grandpa’s marriage anymore, huh?
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Thomas Kendall@SaaSy_CFO·
Telling a man you're proud of him and his hard work. Even better, if one of your friends tells him how much you brag about him. Women have no idea what that does for a man. To know he's appreciated, and even more, that she brags about him instead of itching about him to friends? He'd do anything for a woman like that.
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Xoxo@chicfryrice·
Is there a male version of bringing a woman flowers
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@Spamfromk It comes down to a choice. Does the partner want kids so badly they'd be willing to start over with someone new to have them. Or, would you be willing to have kids to keep them. Neither answer is right or wrong, but that's the choice, and it doesn't change.
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桜♡@Spamfromk·
Ok serious question, What happens if your partner wants kids and you don’t…???
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@AndroidYaseen @xevekiah But you really can't now because it's harmful to test for paternity prior to birth, and there's no way a law like that passes without paternity resting to verify. Too easy to lie.
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Yaseen@AndroidYaseen·
@xevekiah Getting a vasectomy is analogous to getting your tubes tied, not abortion. A better one is to hold men responsible in some way during pregnancy and after it. Child support is already there; you can also make it law during pregnancy also.
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Kia 🧸ྀི
Kia 🧸ྀི@xevekiah·
You want to ban abortion? Then start at 18, vasectomies for everyone who can cause a pregnancy. Simple, reversible, low risk. If controlling reproduction is really about “responsibility,” then why is it only women being controlled? Or is bodily autonomy only sacred when it belongs to men? Because if the argument is “protect life,” then it has to include all the ways life actually starts being created, not just policing the outcome when it’s already inside a woman’s body. So which is it? Principles… or control?
Kia 🧸ྀི@xevekiah

what unpopular opinion about ABORTION can put you in this position???

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@NoSaltAllPepper @lilyally98 No. They will resent a man making a relationship transactional, then turn around in the same breath and do the same thing to benefit themselves. The hypocrisy is astounding.
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Pepperz@NoSaltAllPepper·
@lilyally98 Women love to use children to attack men. Will women ever evolve pass that?
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Lilyallly❤️🇬🇧
You want 50/50? Start by carrying the baby for 4.5 months. Until then, let’s stop pretending this system is balanced.
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That's where you're wrong. Lots of people noticed and lots of people cared enough to try to prevent girls from doing it. But the call of easy money for something they think is supposed to be fun is just too much. There's millions of people that would live nothing more than to shut down that site, and all like it. Not to harm the women, but to protect them. And those people are called controlling and abusive for even considering that they might know better than the girls.
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J.R. Ridgeway@Jeremy_Ridgeway·
@Marlayna29 The key was to make it appear somewhat anonymous and easy to get paid. 20% of American women under the age of 25 have an OF account. Do you have any idea the damage that’s being done on a faulty basis? Lives completely destroyed yet no one seems to notice. No one seems to care.
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Marlayna
Marlayna@Marlayna29·
OnlyFans didn’t invent the sexualization of women, it just made it profitable enough for them to stop pretending they hate it
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