Mberambo17

Amen and Amen

@jon_d_doe Why do you not also support yahoo phase for men?. Be honest to admit that you are human and will make mistake. Will you tell your daughter to have a hoe phase?

By the way, I am not sure that I saw much of under 25 year old girls attacking that post. It was mostly coming from men, older men and even some married men. Idiot men. 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 End.

Men with a pattern of dating Oloshos will always fall for and marry Oloshos. It’s a hard pattern that's difficult to break. I have always been with intelligent women, and that’s what I’m used to. Everyone has a pattern, and the brain keeps a track record. Those who cheer that virgins do not guarantee a good wife, and that those under 25 years old have a "ho" phase, and that they get serious with themselves after the age of 25, are laughable. And men who defend that have never spent one second with their fathers, either learning or observing. A woman who starts sleeping around at 17 is not someone you should be considering marrying after she is done with her “ho” phase. Her sexual energy and yours are not the same. Every relationship leaves deposits and you men are beating your hands to your chest and saying, yes bringing me the retired “Ho” phase girl, i want her for marriage. Are you listening to yourself? Also, are we saying that those who agree to this allow their sisters to be sleeping around? Where are their fathers? Whose sister is sleeping around and adding to this number that is making it a general consensus that men marry them after their “ho” phases? The one thing I did as an older brother was guardrail my sister from nonsense. Who are the men staying quiet while their sisters have “ho” phases? Again, you are attracted to what you are used to. So I get all the Joseph Yobos. When you are used to eating dog shit, you will always stick to eating dog shit.

@GloriousGod01 @realBigStanH That is your interpretation, not his

I do not support the idea of a "ho phase." But I think that is not what Àgbà John Doe is truly saying. What I think he means is that: many women under 25 struggle to commit because they tell themselves, "I am still young. I need to enjoy my youth before settling into marriage." He is not excusing or encouraging promiscuity. If that were his point, I would reject it outright. Far from it; I have zero tolerance for whoredom. That said, the timeline is flooded with men dragging non-virgin women while demanding purity from them. Who exactly is disvirgining these women? Are men somehow exempt from the same standard of purity? Every post tilts heavily against women. You demand that women remain virgins while allowing men to whore around freely. Imagine a man openly boasting that he has slept with countless women yet insists on marrying a virgin and the crowd cheers him. That is sheer stupidity and rank hypocrisy. I honor and respect chastity. Women who guard their virginity until marriage deserve genuine admiration and the highest regard. But they must never settle for men who have whored around. You cannot sleep with an entire community and then expect a woman who kept herself pure to accept you as her reward. God forbid. My direct advice to women is this: If you are still a virgin, cherish and protect that gift with everything in you. But make no mistake; do not marry a man who is not a virgin. He does not deserve you. Period. Above all, love God.

I have a friend who used to beat his girlfriends. Apparently, two of them experienced his hot temper and physical abus3. He has now been married for three years, and he has never slapped his wife. Not even once. When I asked him if marriage had humbled him, he smiled and said: "My hot temper is still there, but my wife is just a very sweet woman. Whenever I am angry and talking, she does not talk back. She listens quietly when I speak. When I am yelling, she simply gets closer, hugs me, and lays her head on my shoulder. If I get angry and refuse to eat her food, she serves both of us and waits patiently until I am ready to eat before she touches hers." He looked at me and concluded: "Marriage did not humble me. My lovely wife did it with her respect and submission." Above all, love God.

Whenever someone demonizes virginity and calls virgins unfaithful, you’ll see women cheering them on in the comment section. No woman was ever born without a hymen!! This jealousy and envy toward virgins will lead you nowhere. Just a bunch of frustrated, pathetic losers.

@jon_d_doe @instablog9ja Them dey HUSSLE x money now. what do you expect. That is promotion of prostitution and immorality and yet we complain.

Thank you for posting @instablog9ja. Let the message travel far and wide. Na me talk am. End.

So called influencers influencing immorality, and communal decadence and yet talk about God.

The war has been declared against virgins and virginity. No wonder people whine others look up to now openly promote promiscuity in the name of hoe phase.

"Someone can be a Virgin and still be unfaithful." These are the words of a pathetic woman who was once a virgin but chose a wayward life for herself. For every one unfaithful virgin, you’ll find a hundred unfaithful non‑virgins. Any agenda against virgins is dead on arrival.

@ifeomadurugbor @SimplyKalby @kenkenlewu You have a point. Both are women with their wahala sha

@mberambo17 @SimplyKalby @kenkenlewu The first time a future daughter in law is visiting her home, she couldn't let her take two eggs to the point of asking her if that's how she eats in her father's house and you think poverty mentality isn't the issue here? Why did she even follow her to the kitchen if not...

My friend went to visit her future mother-in-law last weekend… and came back single. The woman cooked their local food, but my friend couldn’t eat it. So she told her, “Go to the kitchen and make something for yourself.” My friend boiled Indomie and wanted to fry 2 eggs. Immediately the woman saw it, she shouted; “Two eggs for one Indomie? Is that how you eat in your fàther’s house? We don’t waste food like that here! Things are expensive!” The woman removed one egg. My friend quietly trashed the food, and left. Her boyfriend called her later. She said, “I can’t marry into a family that counts eggs like this.” He replied, “My mum is only trying to train you to be a good home manager.” Few minutes later… He called back, angry: “Why did you send 10 crates of eggs to my mum? Are you trying to insult her?” My friend said: “She can call me if she needs more.” Relationship scattered!

From “virginity doesn't guarantee good character”to “let them live their hoe phase until they’re tired and ready to be a wife” What an international foolish upgrade!!

@dmGambo @reallieeee Why you vex for wetin you support? Shouldn't charity begin at home again?

@reallieeee God punish your mama.

This is the energy of a man who has stopped seeking approval and started accepting reach. Agba, everyone knows that you are not posting for followers anymore. You’re posting because what you carry is too heavy to keep to yourself, and too true to stay quiet. The blocked ones still find the posts. The haters still screenshot. The critics still quote the post. That’s not a coincidence. That’s impact. Na you fit them. And deep down, they know it.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ God punish their mama.

Thank you.

@dmGambo @jon_d_doe Did your mother tell you that she married as an ashawo? Because mine was not , my wife was not and my parents had a good marriage and I do too. In fact I married as a virgin to a virgin and it's 17 years. Please we must not contribute to the destruction of humanity.

A woman who hasn’t lived, explored, and gotten certain experiences out of her system before marriage is a liability in that marriage. Not because she’s a bad person, but because she’s an incomplete one. And an incomplete person makes an unstable partner. The reality is that most women below 25 today are still in the process of becoming. Their identity is still fluid, their standards are shaped more by social media and peer influence than by self-knowledge, and their capacity for the kind of settled commitment marriage requires hasn’t fully developed. You don’t marry a work in progress and expect a finished product. What makes a woman genuinely ready for marriage isn’t age alone, it’s what that age represents. It represents a woman who has tested herself, made mistakes, faced consequences, and arrived at a point where she’s choosing commitment rather than defaulting into it because it seemed like the next step. That choice is more durable. That foundation holds under pressure. A man who marries a woman below 25 thinking he’s getting a loyal, settled companion is often actually getting a woman who will finish her growing up inside his marriage, and that growth may take her in directions that have nothing to do with him. A woman who comes to you having already chosen herself is far more likely to choose you genuinely.

Truthfully, with what I have seen with this generation, I won't advice any man to marry a woman that is below 25. Marrying them at below 25 may mostly be a recipe for disaster. Allow them to do their hoe phase in peace until they're tired & willing to become a wife. End.

@jon_d_doe This coming from you although being the reality of the times is not palatable at all. You indirectly validated promiscuity and yet we somehow hope that after the hoe phase as you put it, they will be good wives. Old habits die hard.

@realBigStanH You are Very correct

The moment you open Pandora’s box to women, you will see all kinds of stuff. This post disgusted my wife and me. I’m in a world of degeneracy; the advice is not a pat on the back to women who sleep around or a consolation trophy for wayward behavior, but rather standards that uplift and refine our community. This post goes against every single thing I believe in and stand for. As a father, telling women that sleeping around is part of their nature before coming to terms with reality is asinine. I support a large portion of his post, but this is the pendulum swinging hard to the other side. Men are constantly lowering their standards to fit into a box. Not a healthy post if you ask me.

@SimplyKalby @kenkenlewu So managing resources well is poverty mentality?. No wonder God asked human beings to learn from the ant.

@kenkenlewu That’s some real boss move. Your friend is the real deal. Not to be taking poverty mentality into her marriage. Does she have weekend coaching classes?

@a4lasade @kenkenlewu Soon it will be men are scum. If she could not tolerate a small issue, will she stand marriage?. Standards Ke?

@kenkenlewu She set her standards. She held them. She didn’t fold even when love was on the table. That’s not stubbornness. That’s self-respect. Respect to her for protecting her worth. Sisterhood is proud.😉

@GloriousGod01 Lazy man

I attended a wedding last month. They are already headed for divorce. Here is what happened. Since they got married, this March was the very first time the wife received her salary. The husband's immediate response was to ask her to transfer everything into his account. She said no, but made it clear she was willing to fully support the home without holding back. The man was not interested in that arrangement. He wants total control of her money. Both families have stepped in to settle the matter. Nobody is backing down. Above all, love God.